Before I had my first real long term relationship, everyone around me always had a habit of letting me in on know how relationships work. They require hard work, a ton of energy, constant arguments, and more than a few sleepless nights.  You can guess what that did to my sense of commitment…  via GIPHY But, you live, and you learn, and you realize that other people’s relationship status does not dictate your own.  If you’re ever lucky enough to find that one person to dedicate your life to, you’re going to realize that you will need constant maintenance to keep your connection secure and healthy. From what I’ve learned,…