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  • The Do’s and Don’ts of Throwing a Bachelorette Party

    The Do’s and Don’ts of Throwing a Bachelorette Party

    If you have the honor to plan the bride’s bachelorette party, I have three words for you: it’s rager time. 

    And by rager time, I do mean exactly what the bride requested, not stepping out of bounds and planning an event she might be uncomfortable with because you thought you knew better. 

    If you think all bachelorette parties consist of strippers, unlimited alcohol, and a penis-shaped pinata, I’ve got some news for you: uhm…they don’t. With the way Hollywood portrays them in films, it’s almost impossible not to think of Vegas, dance clubs, and blacking out by the end of the night with no recollection of anything the next morning. 

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    I mean, really? That’s just dramatic. If I were ten years younger, maybe it would’ve sounded a tad appalling, but nowadays, even applying eyeliner is an exhausting feat. 

    So, maid of honor, what tasks must you complete on your path to victory? They’re mainly common sense stuff, so no worries, but before we dive in and explain the do’s and don’ts, it’s fair to mention the bride’s role in this situation, so put the bride on. 

    The bride must be notably clear on what she expects of the party. For example, do you want this party to be a “let’s get lit” party or a “spa day at the Hamptons” party? Is there a particular theme you had in mind? If you have something specific in mind like flying off to Nevada to get the full experience, are your friends financially equipped to make it happen? You don’t want to put your loved ones in a position where they may feel guilty if they don’t pitch in. Be attentive when making your decision. 

    Is alcohol permitted, and if so, how much is too much? If there will be people who don’t drink alcohol attending, what other drink alternatives are available? If you’re planning on hiring strippers, will your significant other be comfortable with that? Who exactly is permitted to come? You clearly can’t invite all your girlfriends, so which ones will be the chosen ones? 

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    It may sound stressful, but communication is critical here. Don’t expect the maid of honor to figure this all out on her own! Her planning is solely based on your expectations! 

    One more thing. The bride’s job is not to plan or micromanage this event. Are you listening? The bride’s job is not to plan or micromanage this event. Don’t be that bride. With few considerations in mind, let your maid of honor know what you expect, and she’ll take care of the rest. 

    Now, MOH, here are your don’ts.

    Don’t go against the bride’s wishes. No strippers mean no strippers. This isn’t some cliche bridesmaids film where they end up arranging a stripper, and the bride becomes weirdly ecstatic. Yeah, no.

    Your bride’s decisions may be based on her partner’s comfort as well as her own. She will be annoyed if you take matters into your own hands. If you feel like a steamy fireman is what the party needs, then feel free to throw your own bachelorette party or hire them on your own time. 

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    Don’t wait until the last week before the wedding to plan the party. For many brides, the wedding is the most joyous day of their life but also the most stressful! This event will destress her as much as possible before she falls back to her hectic daily planning. 

    Don’t make the bride wear anything she doesn’t want to, whether it’s something as simple as a t-shirt or a hat with a penis coming out of it. If she says no, it means no. Her consent is everything because this is her party. Your only job is to make her as happy and comfortable as possible. 

    Last but not least, don’t send invitations out last minute. Be smarter than that. 

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    Now, for the do’s

    Do communicate with the bride, her partner, and the guests. Once again, communication is key here. It’s not a bad idea to check in with the bride if you’re questionable about something. You can also check in with her partner to see if they’d like to pitch in something or plan a surprise. Keep your guests up to date with the details and make sure they know the party’s time, place, and date. 

    Also, if guests need to pitch in more money, let them know ahead of time, because not all may be able to afford it. Take advantage of lower airfare if the event is overseas. 

    Do plan activities to keep the party alive. If you’re hosting a low-key type of party, then activities are a must. If you think you can wing it when the party begins, think again. What activities you pick are the difference between a great or lame party. 

     

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    Do take tons and tons of pics. It’s still a party after all! A great idea? Creating a scrapbook for the bride and presenting it to her on her wedding day! Bad idea? Posting the pics on social media without her consent… Be careful in the choices you make with the pictures you take! 

    Do take it easy and have a great time. In the end, it’s all your closest girlfriends celebrating love and life. Follow these few simple rules, and you’ll have nothing to worry about. 

     

  • Top Bachelorette Destinations

    Top Bachelorette Destinations

    (That Aren’t Vegas)

    Do you know what screams out ‘boring’? Having the opportunity to host a bachelorette party and choosing Sin City as your party destination. Why does everyone always head to Vegas, anyway? I know there’s so much more to bachelorette parties than half-naked men and getting so drunk that you forget your own name.

    Someone needs to redefine the whole event and make it more of a getaway than a drunken weekend.

    Well, that was my rant and now moving on to more pressing issues. If you’ve been given the honor to host your best friend’s bachelorette, then get ready. Below, we’ve got the complete list of places that will guarantee Team Bride a grand time.

    Some of these may seem a little far out, but if you’re not making memories and lasting impressions, then really, what are you doing?

    The Hamptons, New York

    If you’re not thinking White Chicks, then I don’t know what to tell you.

    So The Hamptons. Expensive? I’ll tell you now; it ain’t cheap.  

    Time to step up your game and get those shades and bikinis ready, ladies! Other than offering some of the most beautiful beaches in the world, there are several things to do in Southampton. Cooper’s Beach rates #1 on Trip Advisor as one of the most notable attractions in the area.

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    If beaches aren’t your thing and you’d prefer to spend the weekend shopping and hitting the day spa, then East Hampton is for you. Restaurants such as East Hampton Grill and Bostwick’s Chowder House are great for a lunch outing with the girls. When you’re done, take a stroll and merely enjoying the town’s antique shops is a great way to spend the day.

    Los Angeles, California

    There will always be a soft spot in my heart for SoCal, as it is where I grew up. Also, Disneyland and Universal Studios.

    Beautiful beaches, top-rated restaurants, rooftop lounges, nightclubs, five-star hotels, and of course, In-N-Out. No matter what occasion you’re planning, if you’re in California and don’t chow down on some In-N-Out, then you’re missing out.

    Don’t forget to snap a selfie near the Hollywood sign, take a walk down the Hollywood Walk of Fame, go for a swim at Venice Beach, and don’t forget the most important thing…the drinking. Hey, no matter where the city takes you, don’t forget your mission.

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    Head over to some of the city’s most famous clubs and still maintain your classy outing. Contrary to belief, we don’t just live off of avocados and kale juice. With the endless choices of top-notch restaurants, why would we? If you’re ready to take in the city lights and party all night, LA is truly the city that never sleeps.

    Vail, Colorado

    I know what you’re thinking. Of all places, why Colorado? Hear me out.

    Colorado is one of the most beautiful states for wildlife. Seriously, check out these images. It’s a great escape for anyone who loves the outdoors! If your friend (or you) are the adventurous types, then Anywhere, Colorado should be on your list! Plus it’s a great place to live if you’re looking for cheap rent, but that’s an entirely different article.

    Vail is home to a massive ski resort with endless activities for you and the whole girl gang. If you’re not a fan of tropical weather, then Vail might be your dream bachelorette destination.

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    So what is there to do other than go skiing (obviously)? You can go hiking near the Missouri Lake Trail, enjoy a Wagyu steak dinner, get drunk at high altitude, and take tours that show off the resort’s beautiful sights. At the end of the day, not only will you be wiped out, but every picture will be Instagram worthy.

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    Santorini, Greece

    When you think of Greece, you think of white buildings with dome ceilings perched on a cliff overlooking the Aegean sea. Very romantic.

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    That, my friend, is Santorini. I didn’t even know this place existed until it aired on KUWTK. I follow a ton of traveling Instas, and this place is always flooding my timeline. Santorini is just one of the thousands of islands that make up Greece.

    Even though the black sand beaches are the main attractions here, you can still party at Santorini’s most famous nightclub, Enigma. If you’re looking for the perfect place to have your brunch, then look no further than Armeni Santorini. This island’s breathtaking beaches, delicious food, and humble people will make this the ultimate bachelorette destination.

    Florence, Italy

    Italy will always be that place that crosses my mind and makes me think, “Why am I not there yet?” The culture, the food, the men, the attractions, the people, the music, and the food ( yes, I said food twice, stop judging).

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    So when you’re not all eating your weight in pizza and garlic bread, what else is there to do in Florence? For starters, you head over to Terrazza Lounge Bar and have a couple of drinks because you need time to take in the beauty that it Florence. If you want to learn more about the city’s history of Renaissance Art, you can visit Bargello Museum. Feeling famished? La Buchetta Food and Wine is known for its delicious gnocchi and wine (duh).

    If you want your party to make lasting impressions and leave you ten pounds heavier, then Italy is the place for you.

     

  • 7 Unique Bachelorette Parties

    7 Unique Bachelorette Parties

    There are endless possibilities to make a bachelorette party so much more than just a night out with the girls. This is your opportunity to plan a party that reflects the bride and create memories that you will remember for years to come.

    If you’re planning a bachelorette party for a one-of-a-kind bride, you’ll need a one-of-a-kind idea! Here’s a list of bachelorette party ideas you might not have thought of:

    Set Sail

    Whether you live near the water, or you’re travelling to a tropical destination, casting off with the girlfriends is the perfect getaway. Spending the day on a boat lets the Bride Tribe relax and work on their tans before the big day. Don’t forget the tropical cocktails and flamingo floats to complete the celebration!

    Wellness Weekend

    Planning a wedding can be super stressful on the bride. Swap the drinks and clubs for a weekend of facials, massages and yoga to get the bride wedding-ready. Resorts like Solage Resort, or Canyon Ranch, will get everyone feeling pampered and polished, just in time for the final stretch of wedding chaos.

    Rent-a-House

    Instead of a hotel, rent a house on AirBnB, or HomeAway so all of your girlfriends can stay together and throw an old-fashioned sleepover. Binge watch wedding movies, play drinking games and hire a manicurist for some mani-pedis for the ultimate girls night-in.

    Glamping

    For the outdoorsy bride, Glamping is where luxury meets the great outdoors. Take a weekend escape to a luxe cabin in the mountains, spend the night underneath the stars and toasting marshmallows. Places like Clayoquot Wilderness Resort, or Pampered Wilderness are great for taking in nature’s beauty, hassle (and mosquito bite) free.

    Party with Mickey

    Grab some matching Mickey ears for your whole crew and take a road trip to Disney World! Spend the day taking pictures with your favorite princesses, riding on roller coasters and picnicking in the park. Don’t forget about the firework show at night to end the bachelorette bash with a bang.

    Hit the Slopes

    Does your bride love to ski or snowboard? A trip to a ski resort could be the perfect escape for the Bride Squad. Hit the slopes early before taking a trip to the spa and sipping some Hot Chocolate by the fire later on.

    Volunteer

    If your bride is more interested in giving back then making the day about her, pick the cause that’s most important to her and spend the day volunteering. This can be a really great bonding experience for all of your friends- plus no one said you can’t celebrate with some cocktails when you’re done!