Tag: changing your last name after marriage

  • How To Change Your Name On A REAL ID After Marriage?

    How To Change Your Name On A REAL ID After Marriage?

    Congratulations, you’re married! The confetti has settled, the thank you notes are (almost) all sent, and you’re basking in that newlywed glow. But amidst the happiness, a little administrative task might be looming: changing your name. While the idea of sharing a surname with your beloved is romantic, the reality of actually making it happen can feel… well, less so. At HitchSwitch, we get it. You’re excited about this new chapter, not endless paperwork. That’s why we’re here to shed some light on the realities of changing your name, including the important step of obtaining a REAL ID, and how we can help you glide through the process with ease.

    What’s the Difference Between the REAL ID, Standard ID, and the Enhanced ID?

    While a standard ID will still allow you to drive, starting May 7, 2025, you’ll need a REAL ID or an Enhanced ID to board domestic flights and enter federal buildings. Think of it this way: both the REAL ID and the Enhanced ID meet these new federal requirements. However, the Enhanced ID goes a step further, offering the added convenience of land and sea border crossings into the US from Canada, Mexico, and certain Caribbean countries without a passport. So, while both offer more than a standard ID, the Enhanced ID provides that extra versatility for international travel by land and sea. Choose the ID that best suits your future travel plans! For a more detailed explanation, the NY DMV has some great resources.

    The Romantic Ideal vs. The Paperwork Reality:

    In movies and fairy tales, the name change is often a simple, almost magical transition. One day you’re Ms. Smith, the next you’re Mrs. Jones. Cue happy montage! The truth? It involves forms. Lots of forms. Different forms for different institutions. Trips to various offices. Waiting in lines. It can feel like a marathon when you’d rather be enjoying your honeymoon (or just a quiet evening on the couch!).

    The Reality of the To-Do List (and the REAL ID Factor):

    Where do you even begin?

    The list can seem endless, and updating your identification to meet federal requirements adds another layer:

    1. Social Security Administration: This is often the first crucial step. You’ll need to update your Social Security card, as this updated document is often required for obtaining a REAL ID. Click here to read our instructions for Social Security Name Change After Marriage.
    2. Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) and the REAL ID: This is where the REAL ID comes into play. Starting May 7, 2025, you will need a REAL ID-compliant driver’s license or another acceptable form of federal identification (like a passport) to board domestic flights, enter federal buildings, and access military bases. Changing your name on your driver’s license will likely involve obtaining a REAL ID if you don’t already have one. This often requires specific original or certified documents to prove your identity, legal name change , and residency.
    3. Passport: Planning any international travel? Your passport will need updating.
    4. Banks and Credit Card Companies: Ensuring your financial accounts are in your new name is vital.
    5. Utilities and Insurance Providers: Don’t forget the less glamorous but equally important updates.
    6. Employer and HR: Your workplace needs to have your correct legal name for payroll and benefits.
    7. Doctors, Dentists, and Pharmacies: For accurate medical records and prescriptions.

    And the list goes on… Depending on your life, there could be memberships, subscriptions, and online accounts to update too.

    The Reality of Time, Effort, and REAL ID Requirements:

    This isn’t a weekend project. Each step can take time, from filling out applications correctly to waiting for processing. Obtaining a REAL ID requires an in-person visit to the DMV and bringing specific original documents (not copies) such as your marriage certificate, proof of identity in your former name, and proof of residency. Mistakes can lead to delays, adding even more frustration, especially with the looming REAL ID enforcement date.

    The Reality of Potential Roadblocks (and REAL ID Scrutiny):

    Sometimes, things aren’t straightforward. You might encounter specific requirements depending on your state or the institution you’re dealing with. The DMV, in particular, has strict requirements for REAL ID documentation. Ensuring you have the correct original documents, like your certified marriage certificate, is crucial for a smooth process. Without the proper paperwork, you could face delays in getting your REAL ID-compliant license in your new name.

    HitchSwitch: Bridging the Gap Between Ideal and Reality (Including Your REAL ID Needs):

    This is where HitchSwitch steps in. We understand the excitement of changing your name and the less-than-exciting reality of the process, including the critical need to obtain a REAL ID-compliant identification. That’s why we’ve created a streamlined service to handle the heavy lifting for you. Here’s how HitchSwitch makes the reality a whole lot easier, especially when it comes to your REAL ID:

    1. Personalized Forms: We provide you with all the necessary forms, pre-filled with your information, specific to your state and situation, including guidance on the documents typically required for a REAL ID name change.
    2. Step-by-Step Guidance: Our easy-to-follow checklists and instructions guide you through each step of the process, ensuring you don’t miss anything, and we highlight the specific documentation you’ll likely need for your REAL ID application.
    3. Time Savings: We take the research and form-filling off your plate, freeing up your valuable time to focus on enjoying married life, and we help you understand what documents to gather before your DMV visit, saving you potential return trips.
    4. Reduced Stress: Knowing you have a reliable partner in navigating this administrative task, including the often-stressful REAL ID process, can significantly reduce stress and overwhelm.
    5. Expert Support: Our team is here to answer your questions and provide support along the way, including common questions and requirements related to REAL ID.

    For an in-depth guide on how to change your name after marriage, please click here

    Changing your name after marriage is a significant step, symbolizing the beautiful commitment you’ve made. Don’t let the complexities of paperwork, especially the requirements for a REAL ID, overshadow your joy. Let HitchSwitch handle the less glamorous but necessary administrative realities, so you can focus on the joy of your new life together and ensure you have the compliant identification you need for the future. Ready to say “I did it!” to your name change, and get on the path to your REAL ID, without the headache? Explore HitchSwitch today and let us simplify your happily ever after.

  • Top 5 Things Worth Embroidering Your New Name on 

    Top 5 Things Worth Embroidering Your New Name on 

    Alright, I know what you’re thinking, and yes, I was thinking about it, too. 

    Do people still embroider anything these days? The answer to that question, my friend, is yes, they still do. 

    Why? Because embroidery has been and still is one of the unique methods of designs when it comes to apparel decorating. People see an embroidered item and immediately think it’s exclusive, it required steady work and consists of high quality. The art of embroidery is no small task, and if you’re looking to learn, then you can. But if time is not on your side yet you want a specific item embroidered; then some companies will do the embroidery for you! 

    Honestly, with the advancement of technology, it feels like you can accomplish anything with the push of a button.

    Anyways, moving on. If you’re newly married and want to see your new name embroidered everywhere, we got you. There are tons of options, but just so we don’t spiral out of control, here are our top five. 

    Apron 

    For someone who isn’t that big of a fan of the kitchen, I sure spend a generous amount of paycheck on it. Like Mario Batali said, “The kitchen really is the castle itself.” 

    If you or your partner are cooks, bakers, YouTubers, or the chefs of the family, then the reasons to get your last name embroidered on an apron just shot up. Just think about it. You waltz into that kitchen with your partner; you find the apron with your new name on it, you wear it knowing you’re about to cook up something that will set your partner’s taste buds on fire. It’s an accomplishment in and of itself! 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    If you think I’m over exaggerating, you’re probably right. Years of watching MasterChef, I now genuinely believe the kitchen is more of a warzone than another room in the house. 

    Anyhow,  if you’re looking to embroider an apron for you and your partner and want the absolute best quality and your own design, then head on over hear to Embroidable Linens

    T-shirt 

    A t-shirt, a sweater, tank top, or crop top; anything you can wear can be embroidered. 

    Of course, that doesn’t mean it should be. But hey, if you want to get crazy, then get crazy because we only live once, after all. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    When placing your first or last name on a T-shirt, you want to keep it simple and tiny. For example, if there’s a small pocket on your shirt, you would place your name there. If it has a collar, then you would embroider the name there. The choices are endless when it comes to garments because of the large amount of space provided. You can choose the hemline, the neckline, the back of the shirt, the middle front, and even sideways. It’s how you wish to be creative at that point. You can even get matching shirts for you and your partner to celebrate your new identity. Time for selfies!

    Towel & Robes

    You’ve heard of Mrs. and Mr., His and Hers, Bride and Groom. 

    Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you (drumroll, please)… Harry and Sally!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    It’s not those specifically, but you get my point. C’mon, what screams “newlyweds” more than towels & robes? 

    When you think of towels and robes, you think of hot showers, cleanliness, cuddling, and the end of a long day with your partner-in-crime. Embroidered towels and robes are a great vision for you and a great addition to your home. It may seem like towels have little meaning, but a ton of memories can be made from just sitting wrapped in a towel. If you know, then you know…

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    The Mr. and Mrs. robes are just the cutest and best way to hang out in your honeymoon suite and relax with your new husband or wife.

    Baseball cap 

    When I was a kid, I found a cap with my name embroidered on it. I was twelve at the time, so it was a pretty big deal. Growing up, you’re not going to find your name on the back of caps that often, so you keep the memory alive by embroidering your own. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    See, that’s what I did because 1) I grew up in Southern California and the sun never disappeared and 2) I looked really good in them. Also, a bad hair day was every other day for me, so let’s add that to the list. 

    Caps are great if you and your partner are planning a getaway. Adding your new last name to a cap is another cute reminder of who you are now. People will automatically know you’re newlyweds!

    Pillowcases  

    It’s time to take pillow talk to a whole nother level. While you can just get your last name embroidered on a pillow, you can add a few words to make it more special. Some examples are: “Yours Forever”, “Be Mine”, “The New Mrs.”. Keep in mind that the bedroom is the most important room for a married couple, so why not make it memorable?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    If you’re looking to learn embroidery, click here

     

  • Outdoor Activities To Check Off Your Summer Bucket List

    Outdoor Activities To Check Off Your Summer Bucket List

    Summer is great. The kids are out of school, the weather is hotter, there seems like there’s nothing to do yet for some reason, your to-do list keeps growing longer and the day seems never to end. 

    Unfortunately, nowadays, the majority of people would rather spend their days inside with the air conditioning blasting on high. If you’re not a parent, you might have your own plans on how to spend your summer days, and that’s ok, but for those of us with children…

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    Let’s just say it’s not the most spontaneous thing watching your kids spend the whole day watching TV and playing video games till their minds grow numb. 

    No matter how busy you are (parent or not), here are just a few activities to help you kick off the summer and keep you hustling.

    Go on a hike

    Why not, right? The weather is perfect for this particular activity, and your friends have been begging you to spare a day and join them on some new trail they discovered! 

    Fortunately, this is a beautiful family activity, as well. 

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    Even if you’re a fitness enthusiast, nature will always have the upper hand when it comes to getting a workout in. The best part (for me at least), you can include your dog. Not only that, but hiking requires little to no equipment! It’s an excellent experience for the little ones, the sights you’ll see are remarkable, and getting to be all around that greenery and fresh air is stimulating and very rejuvenating! 

    Set up a camping trip

    I remember as a child; I never had to think about planning a camping trip, because hello, ‘that’s what mom was for. 

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    But now, being a mom myself, I had to learn how to do all that myself. 

    First, acknowledge that camping is possibly the best thing in the whole world. You get away from whatever life ‘you’ve got going on; you get to spend quality time with your family and friends, you uncover new things such as fishing, setting up a tent, and even building a fire. If that’s not enough, you will also get your daily dose of Vitamin D, peace of mind, the sounds of nature, and of course, the second-best possible thing in the world…S’mores. 

    For more information on setting up your very own camping trip, click here.

    Spend the night at the beach

    By night, I do mean: get there in time to watch the sunset and the sky fill with orange, red, violet hues and gaze in awe at the jaw-dropping beauty that is our planet. 

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    If you thought meditation was good for the soul, try stargazing at a beach in the middle of the night. The sound of the waves coming and going, the crisp night air filling your lungs, and the smell of the ocean decluttering your mind. This is one of those spurs of the moment plans. You can bring a sleeping bag or set up a tent, and that’s it! 

    Visit an Amusement Park

    Growing up in SoCal, this was our thing. Our family would at least hit three amusement parks a week. Despite long lines and the expensive food (we eventually started sneaking in our own), the atmosphere encompassing an amusement park makes you feel giddy all over. If rides aren’t your thing, then that’s fine. You can still join in on the fun because now, several parks offer entertainment, plays/shows, and tours. 

     

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    If it’s too hot for roller coaster rides, then find the nearest water park in your area. Whether you’re going with friends, family, or by yourself, it’s a smart and exhilarating way to cool down.

    Build your very own waterpark

    Yes, you read that right, you can build a waterpark right in your backyard. If you’re looking to save money, invent something new, and be in the comfort of your own home, then this is the activity for you. The best part about this activity is that you can have your little helpers give you a hand so they can keep busy, as well. It’s all part of the fun experience before setting everything up and enjoying the ride. 

    If you need help getting started, click here.

    Learn something new

    I get it. School’s over, and we want to have fun only. I don’t mean to be that person-especially since it’s summer- but learning something new is fun. 

     

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    You don’t even have to sign up for a class or get up early or make it feel like a responsibility. Learning something new could be as simple as perfecting a recipe or as complicated as learning a new language. 

    Granted, you will not learn a new language in 3 months, but getting started is what counts.

    Seriously, it could be anything! Two summers ago, I learned how to rollerblade, and now I practice it religiously. My point being, you never know what your next addiction could be, so why not?

    For a list of fascinating and inspiring things to learn this summer, head on over here

  • Vacation Spots You Don’t Want to Miss This Summer

    Vacation Spots You Don’t Want to Miss This Summer

    The need to travel always seems more notable during the summer season. The kids are off of school, the days drag on, the weather is hotter, and everything just seems more tiring. Plus, if you are not keeping busy, then the words “I am bored” will forever be scarred in your brain. 

    The top picks for summer spots are endless! Really, there are thousands of places that are bound to help you create long-lasting memories. Unfortunately, we could not fit all of them on a list, so here are just a few of our favorites. 

    The Great Barrier Reef (Australia)

    Known as one of the original Seven Wonders of the World, this is easily one of Australia’s biggest tourist attractions! Not only is The Great Barrier Reef the world’s most extensive coral reef system, but it is home to over 6000 species of sea life! While many people swarm here to admire the colorful marine life through snorkeling and diving, there are several other ventures you can take on. If you are not a swimmer, it is no problem; you can admire the beautiful transparent waters by boat or by air! Depending on how adventurous you are feeling, the choice is entirely up to you! Just be sure to plan everything out so you do not miss out on anything while you are here. 

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    For more information on what The Great Barrier Reef has to offer, click here

    Kruger National Park (South Africa)

    If you are looking to get back in touch with nature and unleash your wild side, then this is the place for you. With options like group safaris, hikes, elephant back riding, camping, fishing, and quad biking, it is impossible to plan out your day with the many offers. You will get the chance to spot all wildlife and explore the park and see things you have only seen on National Geographic.

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    It is also a great learning opportunity as you will acquire more about the animals, their lifestyle, and how we can prevent them from becoming extinct. 

    If you need help deciding which activity is right for you, click here

    Colorado Springs (Colorado)

    Even though Colorado Springs is mostly known for its military bases, do not let that distract you from the fact that it is one of the more beautiful states in America. It is home to Pikes Peak, Garden of the Gods, and The Broadmoor Seven Falls. So for all my nature lovers, adrenaline junkies, and even photographers, Colorado Springs is a must add to your bucket list. Experience hikes of a lifetime, incredible shots of the breathtaking scenery, and enjoy tours of the Air Force Academy and U.S Olympic Training Center. 

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    For more activities, click here

    It’s not just the free healthcare that’s urging so many people to come to Canada; it’s the jaw-dropping views and endless adventures. 

    Known to many ski enthusiasts as one of the most magnificent ski resorts in the world, Whistler in the summer is rarely heard of. Activities include fishing in the many rivers and lakes, hundreds of miles of hiking trails, zip-lining (not for the faint-hearted), white water rafting, and of course, sightseeing. 

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    It’s no secret that Canada’s scenery is like no other in the world, and its beauty is one of a kind. If you’ve yet had to drive up (or fly) to Canada to enjoy the unforgettable sights, Whistler in the summer is the place to go. 

    For more information on what to do or where to go, click here.

    Amalfi Coast  (Italy)

    Ok, if we’re honest here, you don’t need a specific spot in Italy. Just go to Italy. I mean, c’ mon, everything about Italy brings on emotions you never knew existed (in the best way). But since we are talking about specific destinations, then you must visit the Amalfi Coast in Italy. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Viator

    This particular location is not as adventurous as the rest, but you sure as hell can be sure you’ll leave unwound, smiling, and craving more Italy. 

    If you want some beautiful scenery, then head to the north of Amalfi, where the town of Sorrento is located. If you’re an art or history major, you will fall head over heels in love with the town considering its long history. While there are tours of the town, the real gem here is the food. Many restaurants such as Marina Grande offer some of the best seafood you will ever taste while overlooking the Medditerarm. 

    For more ideas on how to spend your vacation at the Amalfi Coast, click here

    San Francisco (California)

    Golden Gate Bridge? Fisherman’s Wharf? Alcatraz Island? Union Square? Art museums? Redwood Forest? Cable cars??

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    Must I go on? You guys must have known San Francisco was going to make the list, because hello, Ghirardelli Square? The best chocolate to ever exist (this is not up for debate). The atmosphere is euphoric, the people are incredible, the food is unforgettable, and you get to ride a bike everywhere! So not only are you enjoying one of the most incredible places in the world, but you’re doing your part in saving our planet! Yay! 

    For a list of things to do in happy San Fran, click here

     

  • DIY Activities for Kids This Summer

    DIY Activities for Kids This Summer

    It is finally summertime, my good folks, and temperatures this year have been record-breaking. It is hot, humid, and sticky! 

    Before giving birth to the most amazing kids in the world, my usual summer plans would be me in a bathing suit, stretched out in the backyard, getting a tan. 

    Now…well, now it’s just more fun (and noisier…and messier). Still, I wouldn’t change it for the world! 

    As if the rest of the year wasn’t hard enough for your typical stay at home parent, now the kids are on summer vacation.  So the little ones don’t get fussy, you need an idea on how to keep them busy, relaxed, and cool. 

    Well, have no fear, we’ve got the perfect compilation of easy DIY summer activities that will have you releasing your inner kid, too!

    Ice Block Treasure Hunt

    You think Summer; you’re going to think about large bodies of water (pools, lakes, beaches, etc.). But staying home and putting together these affordable and simple activities will be less of a headache and you will be in the comfort of your own home!

    For this activity, you will need a large container, children’s small toys (animals, shovels, bouncy balls), water, and a parent’s supervision since your child will be using heavy-duty tools. 

    The idea is to place all the toys in the bin, cover them with water, and freeze them overnight! Have someone help you turn the bin upside down the next day, and that’s it! 

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    Have your child wear safety goggles as they chip away on the ice with a small hammer to rediscover their toys! They can also use room temperature water over the ice to help it melt faster. 

    Another version of this activity is using a small container and freezing the toys in layers of ice. Click here to watch the super simple video! 

    Washing Farm Animal Sensory Bin

    Yes, another activity with a bin, because they are genuinely life-saving equipment when you’re a parent! Not only is this a great summer activity for your toddler and kids, but it’s an excellent activity for any time of the year. Its simplicity makes it a recurring favorite in our home. 

    Coffee Cups and Crayons

    All you need is a bin, dirt, dish soap, water, small farm animal, washcloths (brushes, sponges, etc.). Happy cleaning!

    Bubble Trucks (Bubble Foam!)

    Ok, if you don’t play with this foam more than your kids, get back to me!

    Will you need a bin or any other type of large container? Uhm, yes. 

    Let’s just get this out of the way right now. If you don’t own any large bins or containers and you are a parent, then you need to haul your butt to the container store right now and get to purchasing! 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Busy Toddler

    Bubble bath/ body wash, water, food coloring (optional), toy trucks, or any other types of vehicles (preferably small). 

    That’s it. Boom. Life changed. 

    Rainbow Ice Cube Painting/ Frozen Popsicle Chalk 

    For ice cube painting, you will need two ingredients: liquid watercolors and water. You fill your ice cube tray with ⅔ water and ⅓ paint and stir! The activity doesn’t call for it, but you can place foil over the ice cube tray and place popsicle sticks so it would be easier to hold when frozen. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    The frozen popsicles hold the same idea but use tempera paint and cornstarch for the recipe. Read more about the activity here

    Water Balloon Pinata/Water Balloon Volleyball 

    C’mon, you know this heat is just going to get worse, so why not tie up balloons filled with water, blindfold your kid, hand them a foam bat, and get to swinging! 

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    If you want something a little more competitive, then grab some towels! Water balloon volleyball is a fantastic group summer activity where kids have to work together to get the water balloon from their sheet, over the net, and without popping it! 

    Toddler Fishing

    This one is for all my toddlers out there. They can’t do anything serious yet, so sitting in a pool of water is pretty much is as exciting as it gets. Please do not leave your child unattended while they are still in the pool. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    The idea is to fill your kiddie pool with water, dump a few bath (or any water) animals in there, and set them in. Give them a small net to attempt to catch the animals in the water. This is a great way to strengthen their fine motor skills, as well. 

    Spray Bottle Silhouette Art 

    Alright, so something that doesn’t have to do with water. You will need adult supervision with this activity because it does involve a spray bottle, and you don’t want your kid spraying the walls with paint. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    My Sister’s Suitcase

    The process is relatively simple and will result in a beautiful art piece that you could eventually frame. 

    Rainbow Spaghetti Sensory Activity

     Another great sensory activity for toddlers (and older kids as well!). 


    Little Learning Club

    All you need is spaghetti and food coloring. This is one of those activities that you can prep before the kids wake up on a busy day, and not worry about it for the rest of the day.  

     

  • How to Write a Thank-You Note 

    How to Write a Thank-You Note 

    You would think something as simple as saying thank you would be just that- simple. In a few cases, it is. 

    But there are events in our life where just saying thank you may not be enough, but attempting to arrange your appreciative thoughts into words may not seem so easy. 

    Besides, how do you even write a thank-you note? 

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    Don’t worry; we’re here to walk you through it. 

    First thing you need to know is that there is no need to overthink the process as long as you have a clear idea of who the note’s for, and what you’re thanking that person for.  Once you have a clear idea of how your note will be outlined, the rest will come naturally. 

    Below is an example of how to write a professional, friendly, or special thank-you note.

    When writing for professional purposes, keep in mind…

    You are not writing just because you may have gotten the job or position you have applied for. 

    In fact, you should always send a thank-you note to the interviewer right after your interview regardless of the result. By doing so, you are emphasizing how important this position is to you. Other than thanking the interviewers for their time,  you should also (re)state why you deserve the position applied for. You do this by repeating what your qualifications are, how you would help the company grow, and anything else you might believe to be important in getting you the job.

     

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    This way, you are not only selling yourself to the company, but you are showing your appreciation to the people that work there. Something as simple as sending the right thank you note can help you build a stable relationship with the employer and help you mold a better future for yourself. 

    Here are some examples and tips on what a professional thank-you note should look like.

    When writing to a close friend, remember that…

    No matter how close you might be with the person, the note you write will still need to be sincere. We tend to slack when it comes to our closest friends because they’ve already accepted us, so why bother, right? 

    You might think that you being thankful is a given and they should know that, and they do! But people still like to feel like they are appreciated, so let’s show them how much they mean to us by reminding them that they are one in a million!

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    So, what makes a note to a friend special? There are several things you can jot down that will trigger a reaction in your buddy, like the memories you created together. Maybe you’ve gone on a few adventures that you will never forget, or perhaps the silliness you both share is what formed this connection you’ll share forever. 

    Just make sure not to get carried away, or that note will become a letter.  Finding a friend that will stick a lifetime with you is not easy, and they feel closer than family at some point. 

    Again, it doesn’t need to be a long note. You can include a few polaroids of you both together, a time and place to meet for brunch, two tickets to the AMC (or a spa day!). Honestly, the ways to thank a friend for their continuous support are endless. In the end, you know that just by showing your gratitude, it will make their day. 

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    Here are some tips on how to write a heartfelt note to a close friend. 

    When writing to that special someone…

    A majority of the time, your partner is undoubtedly the most important person in your life. I mean, that’s your soulmate, your other half, the yin to your yang. It always seems like no matter the situation; we are forever in debt to our special someone. They make the bad go away, know when we’re feeling down, know how to make us feel better, and they’re there for us through the good and bad. 

    When you’re writing that note, you know it’s going to be tough to write how you feel, because we tend to be speechless when putting gratitude for our loved ones into words. 

     

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    But see, that’s the great thing about special relationships, they demand more action than words. So if you want to thank your partner for making you a better person, always being there for you, and putting up with you no matter what, a thank-you note should be kept simple and quick. 

    Your love and wisdom have shaped me into a better person, and I’m beyond grateful I get to hold your hand throughout this journey called life. 

    See? One sentence can hold a ton of meaning and have your partner gushing over you. 

    The key to thank- you notes is really not overthinking it or overdoing it. SImplicity is key. 

     

  • Fourth of July Plans for People with Dogs 

    Fourth of July Plans for People with Dogs 

    With Independence Day right around the corner, we all have somewhere to be and plans to look forward to. The food, fireworks, friends, food (yes, I said food twice), and family are what make this day such a joyous one for us humans. 

    Us humans without pets, of course. For those of us who are proud owners of dogs or even cats may have other plans in mind when it comes to this patriotic day. With that said, you can still have a tremendous and memorable Fourth of July with your pets, and not be stuck all day indoors. 

    Host a Party for Friends with Dogs

    I know of all the holidays; decoration is the last thing that comes to mind on this particular day. Most people hang up their American flags, and that’s about it.

    But you can have fun setting up your home and inviting some friends over to have a dog-friendly party. I’m talking red, white and blue banners, dog treats, dog movies (except Old Yeller), and maybe even doggie dress up. Just because your dog can’t enjoy the fireworks doesn’t mean they can’t be dressed up. 

     

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    Check out these images to help you get an idea of how to get your puppy ready for the holiday (and everyone’s pictures). 

    Prepare Icy Treats

    July is a hot, HOT month. So, it’s time to brush up on your culinary skills. 

    By culinary skills, I do mean placing frozen bananas and peanut butter in a food processor and making popsicles out of them. That way, you can enjoy them, too!  Thanks to the power of Google, you can find hundreds of recipes online that will be dog and human-friendly. Don’t think you need to go all Martha Stewart here. I know you love your pet, and we’re trying to be as patriotic as possible, but let’s keep it simple, buddy.

     

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    Oven Baked Tradition has some wonderfully simple recipes that will take you no more than 10 minutes to prepare and will leave your pet pleased and cooled off. 

    Keep Them Cool!

    Another plan that you can most likely join in on. If you have a large backyard with sprinklers, then it is time to turn them on. Running around in a yard with man’s best friend? If that’s not time used wisely, then what is? 

    If you do not own a backyard, have no fear. You can head over to a friend, family’s or city’s public pool. Some allow pets, and some don’t so make sure to call before heading over. Beaches and lakes are another two great places to cool off. 

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    Swimming is a great way to enjoy the holiday and get your pet in on the fun and away from the blazing sun.

    Dog-Friendly BBQ Party with Friends

    Instead of hosting a party indoors, you can host one at your nearest park. Everyone can take part in bringing something so it would feel more like a potluck.  You can light up the barbeque, enjoy time with friends, drink to another day of freedom, and sneak your dog a few hotdogs and beef patties. 

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    A park is an excellent place for your dog to run around and tire out so they won’t be as tense when fireworks start. Be sure to keep your dog hydrated as it will most likely be a humid day. 

    Set Up a Dog Play Date

    If you’re not comfortable being around several people and their dogs, you can invite a friend or two and have them bring their dogs with them. Not everyone wants to be out and about on such a busy day. This way, you can be in the comfort of your own home, and your dog will have a few buddies to play with. 

    Make sure to have a few treats ready for your friends as well. These easy to make drinks will be sure to get you all in the patriotic spirit. 

     

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    Take Them to an Assisted Living Center 

    Thank you Pedigree for this wonderful tip. July fourth, like many other holidays, is a family gathering holiday. 

    Unfortunately, not everyone has a family to be there beside them. If you have some spare time in your schedule, it’s a grand idea to take your dog out and make someone’s day. No matter the holiday, being considerate towards others who don’t have the same privileges as we do is a great thought. 

    Stay Indoor When Fireworks Start

    This goes without saying, but when the fireworks start, that is your cue to take your pet inside and cuddle up with them. Unlike us, dogs are not fond of fireworks or any loud noises, for that matter. Some dogs may run off to a specific space in the house where they feel safe. If that’s the case, then it’s best to let them be. 

    Make sure all windows and doors are closed, and your pet is wearing a collar with an ID in case things don’t go as planned and your pet runs off. 

     

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  • Top 10 Food Bars To Have At Your Wedding

    Top 10 Food Bars To Have At Your Wedding

    The food at your wedding could make or break the night for your guests. Why not try something a little different and set up a fun food bar for your guests to have during the reception? A food bar gives your guests a chance to personalize their own snacks and have fun while doing so! Check out some of these tasty options to include at your wedding! 

    Sundae Bar

    A sundae bar is the perfect dessert bar for a wedding that has both adults and children. Guests have the freedom to make any ice cream combination they can think of. All you need is the ice cream and toppings. This is fun for the whole family as they get to mix and match their favorite sweets!

     

    Mac & Cheese Bar

    You can’t go wrong when it comes to Mac & Cheese! This bar allows guests to have one of America’s favorite foods while putting their own spin on things. Guests can add different toppings such as bacon, buffalo sauce, and maybe even a little extra cheese. 

     

     

    Coffee Bar

    A coffee bar is the best for a wedding in the evening! This bar can help to refuel your guests after all the dancing and fun they will be having. Both you and your guests will be thankful that they can stay high energized the whole time and won’t miss anything!

     

     

     

     

    Late-night Snack Bar

    After a night out I think we can all agree we want some nice junk food. Why would a wedding be any different? A late-night snack bar gives guests that fast food fix they have been craving.

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Hot Chocolate Bar

    A hot chocolate bar is perfect for a winter wedding. What better way to stay warm in the winter months than to drink hot cocoa. Let people cozy up with some of their favorite hot chocolates such as peppermint, mocha, and many more. 

     

    Smores Bar

    A smores bar would be great for a summer wedding! Just like a campfire, weddings bring friends and families together for a night full of memories! Why not bring together two great bonding experiences to help your summer wedding be unforgettable!

    Trail Mix Bar

    For those outdoorsy brides and grooms, a trail mix bar will be great for you and your guests! Guests can mix and match sweet and savory to make their favorite combinations! Not only will it taste great but guests can take their combination after the wedding!

    Candy Bar

    You can never go wrong with the classic candy bar. People love this bar as they can fill baggies with their favorite candies, and maybe even try some new ones! This bar is great for children and adults. 

     

    Donut Bar

    A donut bar could also be a fun addition to your wedding! Donuts are loved by almost everyone. And even better donuts make for cute puns such as “holy matrimony”  and “donut worry be happy”

    Chocolate Fondue bar

    This is another classic dessert bar that guest absolutely love! With this bar people can dip a variety of sweets, savory snacks, and even fruit! A chocolate fondue bar gives guests the freedom to pick and choose their favorite snacks to cover in delicious chocolate!

  • Fun and Memorable Ways to Propose

    Fun and Memorable Ways to Propose

    How you propose is a memory that is bound to stay with you for the rest of your life. You spent nights tossing and turning, trying to figure out how you’re going to pull it off. We get it; you want it to be memorable, unique, and relatable to your relationship. If you’re the creative type, perhaps you’ve already figured out how you’re going to pop the question, and you’re 100% sure it’s going to wow your partner. If you’re stuck like a barnacle, then don’t overthink it because here at HitchSwitch, we’ve got your back. 

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    Here are some of the most memorable and exciting ways to propose to the love of your life. 

    Because every relationship is different, it’s always best to know what you think will appeal the most to your partner. Let’s say your partner is a foodie enthusiast. A few ideas would be:
      • Taking them to their favorite restaurant and ordering their favorite dish. When you choose to do this is entirely up to you; it could be early in the morning, late in the afternoon, or nearing midnight. You know your partner’s preferences better than anyone. Some couples have the chef place the ring in a slice of cake or the bottom of the breadstick basket. I’ve always considered that to be a choking hazard, so instead, when the waiter brings out dessert, get down on one knee, declare once again for them (and the public) how much you love them, and put a ring on it!
      • Are you the baker in the relationship? If not, don’t worry about it, you can always learn a thing or two on Youtube, and if not, you can still order a customized cake. Have the baker write the proposal in frosting and present it to your partner alone, at work, in front of the family, or what you think feels right! This goes without saying, but make sure the cake is flavored to your partner’s taste preference. 
      • Love wine? Tie a string around the ring and wrap it around the cork of the wine bottle. Over dinner or something as simple as movie night, ask your partner to open a bottle, and watch their jaw drop! You’ll probably be super hungover the next day, but yay, you’re engaged!

     

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    If you and your partner both work, and you can’t seem to find the right time or way to propose, you can try:
      • Asking their co-workers to help you with the proposal. You can personally work on a sign yourself, or have it done at a print shop. You could buy a sign the size of a room if you want! But of course, it doesn’t have to be that outrageous. Letter balloons are a great way to propose, as well. Buy the letters you need and have the employees each hold a letter, so it spells out “Will You Marry Me?” This could happen as your partner is coming in to work or leaving. 
      • Send “little” gifts throughout their day. For example, you send them flowers in the morning, a box of pizza for lunch, a love note or text reminding them you cherish them, and the final item, a box of chocolates with a diamond ring in place of one of the chocolates!

     

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    If you and your partner are the outdoorsy type and are always looking for adventure, then get ready, because you’re going to adore these proposals!

      • Not only is hiking a great way to bond and keep fit, but it’s also a great place to dedicate your life to your loved one. You both spend an hour (or hours) hiking to the top of a mountain, appreciating nature, and pumping happy hormones, and finally get to the top and…the view is unforgettable, ergo you bend the knee (RIP Mother of Dragons) and pop the question.
      • Beaches are another beautiful place, especially if you both love to swim. After taking a dip, you take your partner for a stroll on the beach. You might need some help from friends with this one, though. As your walking, take your partner to higher grounds (if there’s any) and take a selfie of the two of you. There, in the background, written in the sand, are the words your friends worked so hard to write, “Will You Marry Me?” 

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    So far, a majority of our proposals have been in public places, so why not a couple for at home or with the help of family?
      • Two words. Scavenger hunt. What’s better than leaving riddles and having your partner run around trying to figure them out? This is an excellent activity to involve family and obviously, have them in on the whole thing. To conclude the game, make sure that the last riddle won’t be a riddle at all. At the moment that your partner is facing away from you, you get the chance to get down on one knee, before they eventually turn around and become awe-struck. 
      • Another two words? Movie marathon. Pick some of your partner’s favorite films along with snacks, drinks, and of course, the ring. There are two ways you can do this. One, you propose when a love scene comes on or when your partner is entirely distracted, or two, you play a recording of yourself you’ve taped prior to this event. In the recording, you’re talking about everything you love about your partner and how you want to spend the rest of your life with them. 

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    Then proceed to do what you got to do!

    For more great proposal ideas, click here! Happy proposing!

  • The Four Types of Couples on July 4th

    The Four Types of Couples on July 4th

    Bye, Bye Miss American Pie! Summer is finally here and it’s time to put some thought into your 4th of July of plans. Independence day is the perfect opportunity to let loose or lay back. Whether it’s your first or twenty-first 4th of July spent with your significant other, here are foolproof tips to make it one for the books.

    The Party- Going Couple

    Shots, shots, shots, everybody! So, you took the Friday off of work and you plan to waste no time getting your groove on; more power to you! The options for celebrating America are endless. If you really want to get out there, east- coasters take the train to the Hamptons for a lively day at the beach. Looking for something in NYC? Head to one of the many rooftops downtown for a time that won’t disappoint. For those on the West Coast, you can’t go wrong with spending the day at Santa Monica or Manhattan Beach. Come on, you deserve to live it up decked out in red, white, and blue.   

    The Chill Couple

    Maybe you started a new job this Summer,  just moved, or simply aren’t in the mood for all the frills this time around. Use your time away from work to spend quality time with your loved ones by making low-key plans. You never know, it just may end up being even more memorable than something over the top. To do this, make dinner at home together (#DIY style) and check out the best spots in your area to watch the fireworks. If this doesn’t sound like your jam, grab a bottle of wine & some refreshments, and head to the park/beach/rooftop for a chill time. Sending good vibes your way.

    The Adventurous Couple

    This ain’t your first rodeo. In the past you’ve spent this holiday partying from sunset to sundown, relaxing at the pool, and at your family’s for a BBQ. This year your longing to do something off the beaten path. One suggestion is to map out vineyards near you and spend the day hopping around to different wineries. Nothing sounds like summertime more than sipping on some rose and taking some insta worthy pics.

    The Long-Distance couple

    Although nothing beats in-person plans with your loved one, there are ample ways to still seize the day. Luckily for you, the year is 2019 and not 1777 (the first year Independence Day was celebrated). A nice idea is to order some of your favorite take out, crack a cold one and hit call on FaceTime to your special someone. Have him/her virtually show you the firework show they are at! Or…invite you best gal pals to a BBQ and smores by the fire pit. Cheeseburgers and melted marshmallows are sure to cure any melancholy you have from being apart from your bae.