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  • Fun Socially Distant Summer Date Ideas

    Fun Socially Distant Summer Date Ideas

    Even though the summer of 2020 is coming to an end, there’s still time to get some fun summer dates in! If you’re not sure what your options are in this uncertain time, don’t worry. We’ve got you covered. Here are some of best socially distant summertime dates.

    Outdoor Dining

    Going out to dinner is a cherished date night tradition, but it’s been long overdue since quarantine. Thankfully, restaurants are finding clever and creative ways to make dining safe again. They’re doing a great job of following state guidelines and only seating people at every other table or spreading their tables farther apart.

    Try to go during off-peak hours to avoid any crowds. If you’re lucky, you’ll be able to find a restaurant located on the water. A gorgeous view and an ocean breeze will be the cherry on top of a perfect dinner date. 

    Do your due diligence before you go. Call ahead and ask what kind of precautions the restaurant is taking. Staff should be wearing masks, customers should have to wear masks when they’re not seated at their table, and all of the tables should be cleaned in between customers. 

    Bonus points if they have one-time use menus or digital ones. It’s also great if they have personal ketchup and sauce containers to prevent germ spread from communal bottles.

    Go On A Picnic

    Picnics are a classic and romantic date idea. Now, they serve another purpose by keeping you socially distant! They’re fun and easy to throw together last minute. 

    This is your opportunity to shine. Show off your skills and make a beautiful charcuterie board. Everything tastes better when it’s aesthetically pleasing. Add a bottle of wine and you’re set up to have a great time with your partner.

    If you’re more low maintenance, a picnic doesn’t have to consist of Instagram-able food in a wicker basket. Grab a pick-up order from your favorite restaurant, sit on an old bed sheet, and eat out of the to-go containers.  

    Drive-Ins

    An attraction that is rapidly increasing in popularity during quarantine is the drive-in. Beaches, parks, restaurants, movie theaters, and basically any business with a big parking lot are trying to get into the drive-in business. 

    Of course, it’s fun to watch a classic movie sitting next to your boo, but movies aren’t the only drive-in option anymore. Comedians and concerts are also finding cool and creative solutions to bring you live entertainment. Keep an open mind and see who’s coming to your area.

    Staying in your car could seem boring, but you should think about it the same way you think about tailgating. Bring food, snacks, and drinks to enjoy during the show. Bring your friend with the pick-up and hang out in the bed of the truck.

    If you don’t want to sit outside of your car, I don’t blame you! The hot and humid summer weather can be a killer. Drive-ins give you the perfect excuse to blast your air conditioning and escape the suffocating heat. 

    Don’t Be Afraid To Stay Home

    Staying home is a great way to stay safe. This option is also an affordable date, if not completely free! Staying at home leaves you with a variety of date options from making playful pillow forts to having a bake-off.

    You can get as creative as you want, but let’s go over some of the underrated stay at home dates. 

    The Classic Movie Night

    Don’t skip over this date night idea just because it feels overdone. All it takes is a little effort to make it feel special. You know that movie you keep saying you’ll watch but never do? Now is the time to watch it. If you don’t know what you want to watch, everyone loves Hamilton.

    If you have more time, consider doing a whole movie marathon. There are dozens of fun series out there like Back to the Future or the Marvel superhero movies. Use the series as inspiration to decorate your home and really get into the spirit.

    Take advantage of the nice weather and set up a projector in your backyard. Hang a white sheet for your screen and you’re all set. If you don’t have a projector, take your laptop outside and create a little movie theater in a tent or on a table. 

    Either way, you’re going to need a boat load of snacks. Movie theater popcorn, pizza, and ice cream always hit the spot on movie night. Throw caution to the wind and get some movie theater candy too.

    Game Night

    Board games are the best. Two player games, like Guess Who, create hours of fun. Search up different two player games on Google or Amazon to find the best one for you. You don’t have to get too fancy; a deck of cards is all you need to have a great game night.

    Video games are an amazing alternative, especially if you’re partner is a gamer. Find out what’s so special about the game they devote hours of their life to. If you’re the gamer, open up this part of your life to your partner and show them why you love it.

    This is also a great activity to take outdoors. Video games can be set up on a projector and board games can be played literally anywhere. Summertime also brings in the opportunity to play pool games, like Marco Polo. Everyone loves a competitive round of Marco Polo. 

    No matter what game you play, you’ll learn something new about your partner. It’s always interesting to see someone’s problem solving skills at work! 

    Keep An Eye Out For Local Hotspots

    Sunflower, lavender, and other flower fields are really popular in the summer. Sunflowers can even be turned into mazes, just like corn. These gorgeous spots make a great day trip filled with photo ops. 

    Same goes for blueberry, peach, and other fruit farms that allow picking. Then you can come home with a bucket of your favorite fruit and make pies and other delicious desserts together. 

    Check your local newspaper or website for any outdoor art installations or displays. Some museums have an outdoor section that could be available to walk through.

    They’re all outdoors which makes them a great socially distant date. Plus, you’ll finally have something to add to Instagram that will break up your feed full of quarantine selfies.


    Final Tips

    Don’t be afraid to get dressed up for these dates, even the stay at home ones! Wear that dress that’s been sitting in your closet since March. Break out the wedges and the curling iron. It will feel so good to put on real clothes after wearing sweatpants for three months straight.

    Step out of your comfort zone. Watch a movie you would never think about watching or cook that meal you’re afraid of messing up. There aren’t any rules, so you can’t go wrong. Get creative and get out there!

  • Top 15 Items That Need to Make Your Wedding Registry

    Top 15 Items That Need to Make Your Wedding Registry

    Raise your hand if you’re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and are about to get hitched.

    Hey there. Yeah, you. As if planning a wedding wasn’t hard enough, now you have to think about what you need for your newlywed home. Organizing a wedding registry could either be the most relaxing task you can do, or the most dreadful. It all depends on you and what’s going through that pretty head of yours.

    When I first got married, I only knew how to do one thing, and that was pouring water into an ice tray and throwing it in the freezer. I am a coffee addict but yet never learned how to use the espresso machine (not that K-Cup crap, an actual espresso machine with a filter). I had no idea what a new home would need!

    I did what any inexperienced bride would do and bought several sets of nonstick pans, chef knives, kitchen gadgets I still don’t know how to use, and as many towels as I could (23 to be exact).

    I was still at that His and Hers phase, so almost everything was monogrammed… and boy, do I regret it.

    Well, I’m here today to help you figure out what is a necessity and what isn’t. Remember, in the end, it all depends on your preference, so don’t go registering things you don’t need or don’t know how to use!

     

    Coffee/Espresso Machine

     

     

     

     

     

    I’m just going to go ahead and say it (again). I’m an addict. A coffee addict. I once drank eight cups in one sitting. So you can understand why this would be number one on my list. If you’re an early bird whose work consists of mostly sitting at a desk in front of a computer screen, then owning a coffee machine wouldn’t be such a bad idea.

    Amazon Choice: Mr. Coffee 12-Cup Coffee Maker, Black

    I mean, honestly, why spend $6 bucks every day at Starbucks for fancy coffee when you can save your money and time at home?

     

    Stand Up Mixer

     

     

     

     

     

     

    If you have the counter space, then a stand-up mixer is a great investment. Not only will it be a great addition to any kitchen, but it has been a lifesaver for me when baking.

    Here is a list to help you convince you of what a great product it truly is.

    Amazon Choice: Hamilton Beach 64650 6-Speed Classic Stand Mixer, Stainless Steel, 4-Quart Bowl and Accessories

     

    Food Processor

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    While food processors perform fewer tasks than stand up mixers, don’t underestimate their working power. Most food processors come with separate discs, which help in shredding and slicing food. This is great if you’re short on time or need extra help in the kitchen. Most importantly, they are great for dips and homemade hummus.

    Amazon Choice: Hamilton Beach (70730) Food Processor & Vegetable Chopper with Bowl Scraper, 10 Cup, Electric

    Here are just some ways to use a food processor.

     

    Blender

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Yay! Another multipurpose kitchen product. I know I’m going overboard with kitchen products, but it’s the best room in the house, so you know we have to go the extra mile here!

    Amazon Choice: NutriBullet NBR-1201 12-Piece High-Speed Blender/Mixer System, Gray (600 Watts)

    Now, before buying a blender, keep in mind that a blender and food processor can perform several similar tasks, so there’d be no need to take both. But if smoothies are your to-go-to every morning, evening, and night,   then a more unadorned blender would be better than buying a whole set.

     

    Dutch Oven

     

     

     

     

     

     

    A cooking pot made mostly with heavy ceramic or metal and can be used on your stovetop for nearly everything. It can be used for roasting, making stews, and because it can be transferred into an over at any time, it’s excellent for making casseroles.

    Amazon Choice: AmazonBasics Enameled Cast Iron Dutch Oven – 6-Quart, Blue

     

    Cooking and Knife Set

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    You will need a set of nonstick pans and pots. You will use them for everyday tasks from boiling your eggs to making lasagne. A knife set doesn’t have to be extravagant, just something useful that will cut fruit, vegetables, and meat.

    Amazon Choice: T-fal C530SC Signature Nonstick Dishwasher Safe Cookware Set, Nonstick Pots and Pans Set, Thermo-Spot Heat Indicator, 12 Piece, Black

     

    Vacuum Cleaner

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Is your new home mostly carpet? Do you own cats, dogs, or any other animal that sheds fur? Do you have babies, toddlers, or teenagers?

    Amazon Choice: Bissell Cleanview Upright Bagless Vacuum Cleaner, Orange, 1831

    If you’ve answered ‘yes’ to any one of those, then no need to think twice about this one.

     

    Television

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Where else are you going to rewatch every Game of Thrones season and cry yourself to sleep?

    Amazon Choice: TCL 40S325 40 Inch 1080p Smart LED Roku TV (2019)

     

    Bath Robes

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Don’t worry; it doesn’t have to His and Hers. When you invest in quality bathrobes, you will not regret it. Sitting in a towel after a shower is one thing, but sitting in a robe is an entirely different experience. You’ve basically dressed already, so you are in no rush to get dressed.

    Amazon Choice: Classic Turkish Towels Luxury Terry Cloth Bathrobe – Premium Hotel Robes – Made with 100% Turkish Cotton

     

    Bath Rug

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I know what you’re thinking, but hear me out. A bath rug can really shape the look of your entire bathroom if you know what to look for. Pottery Barn said it best.

    Amazon Choice: Genteele Memory Foam Bath Mat Non Slip Absorbent Super Cozy Velvet Bathroom Rug Carpet

     

    Bed Sheets

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Make sure you know the size of your mattress before purchasing! Also, make sure you’re familiar with their return policy in case the bed sheets do not fit your comforter!

    Amazon Choice: Mellanni Bed Sheet Set – Brushed Microfiber 1800 Bedding – Wrinkle, Fade, Stain Resistant – Hypoallergenic – 4 Piece

     

    Plush Robes

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    For all those early mornings and late nights. Plus the comfort makes it feel like someone is hugging you, and isn’t that what we all need?

    Alexander Del Rossa Women’s Plush Fleece Robe with Hood, Solid Bathrobe

     

    Cotton Towels

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Towels are essential for the bathroom, bedroom, children’s room, and any guest room in the house.

    Amazon Choice: Pinzon by Amazon Collection Pinzon Organic Cotton Bath Towel (4-Pack), Indigo Blue

     

    BBQ Grill

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Great to have when summer comes rolling back around!

    Amazon Choice: Barbecue Charcoal Grill Stainless Steel Folding Portable BBQ

     

    Lawn Equipment

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    If you own a yard, this is something to consider. If you’re a gardener, then you already know the necessities of lawn equipment for your planting.

    Amazon Choice: GreenWorks 20-Inch 12 Amp Corded Lawn Mower 25022, 20 inch

    For my simpler folks, investing in a lawnmower might be something to contemplate.

     

  • 9 Essential Questions to Ask Before Booking a Wedding Venue

    9 Essential Questions to Ask Before Booking a Wedding Venue

    Wedding season is upon us, my good people. Love, joy, and excitement fill our polluted air, and I, for one, am so ready to dance on top of tables and get escorted out by security. It’s only happened once so far, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have a reputation to uphold.

    Finding your dream venue is a chore all on its own. For some, it could be love at first sight and others might need a little more time before saying “I do” to the venue of their dreams. Nonetheless, it’s an exciting endeavor where you and your loved ones will create the memories of a lifetime.

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    To help make this task more comfortable, we’ve come up with nine questions that are a must ask before booking any venue.

    What dates are available?

    No doubt, you have a specific date in mind. Before discussing anything with the vendor, the first thing you need to know is if they are available on your target date. If you are set on a date, and the venue isn’t accessible, then quickly move on. If you’re flexible about the whole thing and are willing to go with the first open day, then finding a venue will be a lot easier.

    How much to rent the space? Plus what’s included in that fee?

    According to Value Penguin, “Couples spend between $12,343 and $14,006 on average for their wedding venue…This cost includes any general location fee as well as food, drinks and incidentals like tables, chairs and linens.”

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    I’m sure this comes as no surprise to many as wedding venues are known to- as my father-in-law says- bite the wallet. If you are trying to stay within a budget, then this is another question you need to get out of the way quickly. Some venues offer food, setup, stereos, lights, and much more with their rental fee, but some offer little to nothing. That means that aside from renting the space, you will need to take into account the tables, caterers, decorations, DJ, and much more.

    If the weather turns, is there an indoor space available?

    “It doesn’t even rain in California.”

    A moment of silence for my dumb friend who decided on a venue in Malibu. Towards the end of February. Did she take Mother Nature seriously? No. Did Mother Nature show her who the freakin’ boss is? Yes. It rained all day and spoiler alert, there was no Plan B: no indoor space, no other venue, nada. Do yourself a huge favor and settle on a site that can accommodate you and your guest in case the weather decides to take a turn.

    Is catering provided, or do I need to bring in my own caterers?

    Critical, critical, and I mean critical that you know the catering situation before you book a venue. If they can provide caterers and food, you need to know what to expect.
    What does the menu look like? How will the food be presented? Will they be able to accommodate their list of foods to those with gluten allergies, lactose intolerance, nut allergies, or vegetarians? How many courses will be provided? Will it be worth the money you put in?

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    Speak to the head chef and get an idea of how things work. If a caterer is not provided, then you will need to discuss bringing in your own caterers and setting up food for your guests.

    What makes this venue a better choice for my guests?

    Look around you. How does the air feel? How is the location? Is there enough parking spots for my guests? Are there enough tables? Chairs? Will there be any handicapped attending and if so, are there ramps or elevators available? Accessibility should be a priority for your guests. There should be at least four bathrooms per 100 people.

    You’ve been a guest at a party before, what would you expect at an event like this? The best gift you can offer your guests is a comfortable environment.

    When can we start setting up the venue?

    If you are responsible for setting up your venue, ask if the location offers any equipment you can rent out. Do the staffing provide any help, or is it an all-me job? Take into account how much time you will need to get everything set up. Some venues come built with beautiful decor, but some can be plain and require extra work, which may cost you a pretty penny.

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    Are there any hotels near, and if so, are you partnered with any of them?

    Several venues have a partnership with nearby hotels so you can score a discount. Think of this one as a plus, not a must. If the location of your venue is far from most of your guest’s hometown, then look into it. After a long night of partying and drinking, most people would prefer to stay close.

    Can we bring in our own alcohol for the bar? If not, how is your bar priced?

    Tough one. Unfortunately, the majority of venues do not allow you to bring in liquor from the outside world. Considering it’s something they can massively profit from, I don’t blame them. Nonetheless, you should be familiar with the range of prices.

    What is the cancellation policy?

    Just like not knowing if the weather’s going to turn on you, you also never know when something else might pop up. You might need to reschedule for several reasons you weren’t expecting. Hell, you may have even found another venue that has won you over. Either way, it’s best to know how much you will be refunded if you decide to cancel. Some places offer a full refund if you cancel far enough in advance, but if you cancel close to the target date, you will have a hard time receiving a full refund.