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  • ROMANTIC WEDDING MOVIES YOU SHOULD WATCH WHILE PLANNING YOUR 2022 WEDDING

    ROMANTIC WEDDING MOVIES YOU SHOULD WATCH WHILE PLANNING YOUR 2022 WEDDING

    Whether you’re looking for wedding inspo, a feel good drama, or some comedic relief to take you out of the woes of wedding planning, we have a movie recommendation for you. We have a few recent movies to check out, some classics you should go watch right now if you haven’t already, and a couple new releases to look forward to this year.

    EMMA (2020)

    Emma (2020) is a modern depiction of the 1816 classic novel by Jane Austen, the last to be published in her lifetime. This comedy follows a very fortunate woman, who does not need to marry for money like many heroines of this time period. She also turns out to be a very confident, but perhaps misguided, matchmaker who likes to meddle in the love lives of her friends and family.

    PALM SPRINGS (2020)

    A comedy featuring the time-loop trope, Palm Springs (2020) follows two wedding guests stuck re-living the same day over and over. As such, a romance between the two begins to form. Starring Andy Sandberg and How I Met Your Mother’s Cristin Milioti, this one is sure to make you laugh out loud.

    LOVE, ROSIE (2014) 

    In Love, Rosie (2014), Rosie (Lily Collins) and Alex (Sam Claflin) are two lifelong best friends that, despite having fallen in love with each other along the way, keep getting separated by life’s circumstances. This heart-wrenching movie showcases the meaning of friendship, family, loss, and love in a real and raw way.

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    MY BIG FAT GREEK WEDDING (2002)

    A wedding classic that touches on family, heritage, and culture, My Big Fat Greek Wedding (2002) stars comedian Nia Vardalos. She plays Toula Portokalos, a 30 year old unmarried woman deemed “failure” by her family’s standards. She falls in love with a non-Greek, the first one of her family to do so, and they must come to accept him. All the while, Toula has to come to accept herself, her large and loud family, and her cultural identity.

     

    BRIDESMAIDS (2011)

     

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    Full of comedy and chaos, Bridesmaids (2011) follows Annie (Kristen Wiig) who’s only light point in her life is being asked to be the maid of honor at her best friend’s wedding. Things go south when she discovers one of the bridesmaids is competing with Annie to take over the organization of bridal festivities, as well as Annie’s spot as best-friend-of-the-bride. 

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    27 DRESSES (2008)

    In 27 Dresses (2008), Katherine Heigl plays Jane Nichols, a perpetual bridesmaid who’s collected all 27 of her bridesmaid dresses. She’s caring and selfless, and ensures everything goes right for the bride on her special day, while in turn gets overlooked and holds herself back from pursuing her own desires. She only starts to really resent her continual role of bridesmaid when her sister gets engaged to the man she’s in love with. Meanwhile, a handsome reporter (James Marsden) picks up on her odd story.

     

    THE WEDDING PLANNER (2001)

    This throwback and classic stars Jennifer Lopez and Matthew McConaughey. While chock full of familiar tropes and drama, it’s still one of the most iconic wedding movies of all time. It follows a successful wedding planner who winds up falling in love with someone else’s husband-to-be.

     

    MARRY ME (FEBRUARY 2022)

     

    JLo is back for another rom-com in Marry Me (2022). In this upcoming movie, two music superstars are about to wed live in front of millions of fans when Kat Valdez (Jennifer Lopez) learns her fiancé and performing partner is cheating on her. Instead of being humiliated onstage, Kat decides to marry a strange man (Owen Wilson) from the crowd.

     

    TICKET TO PARADISE (OCTOBER 2022)

    Ticket To Paradise (2022) is an upcoming romantic comedy starring Julia Roberts, George Clooney, Billie Lourd, and Kaitlyn Dever. Two college graduates Wren (Lourd) and Lily (Dever) take a celebratory trip to Bali. When Lily winds up in an impromptu engagement to a Balinese local, her divorced parents race to Bali to prevent their daughter from making the same mistake they did. Amidst all the drama and wedding festivities, Wren begins to find her own romance with a local doctor. 

     

    Sources:

    https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/best-movies-to-watch-wedding-planning

    https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/movies/a38805473/best-romance-movies-2022/

    https://www.harpersbazaar.com/wedding/planning/g32435048/wedding-movie/

    https://www.imdb.com/title/tt9214832/?ref_=ttpl_pl_tt

    https://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/palm-springs-movie-review-2020

    https://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/my-big-fat-greek-wedding-2002

    https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1478338/?ref_=ttpl_pl_tt

    https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10223460/?ref_=vp_back

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ticket_to_Paradise_(2022_film)

     

  • VALENTINE’S DAY DATE IDEAS TO TRY WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER IN 2022 

    VALENTINE’S DAY DATE IDEAS TO TRY WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER IN 2022 

     

    Do you need a last minute date idea for you and your significant other this Valentine’s Day? We’ve got you covered! 

     

    This list is compiled with a variety of interests and types of couples in mind. Whether you two are ones to enjoy going on adventures, or prefer staying lowkey, we have a suggestion for you! Most of the following ideas also have a stay-at-home option for those with health concerns in regards to the pandemic.

     

    TAKE A COOKING CLASS

     

    This idea is not only perfect for bonding, but you will also be learning a useful skill. You can learn how to make a recipe outside of your comfort zone, or how to perfect a family favorite. Search for public cooking classes in your area, or you can find one online and learn from the comfort of your own home! Not only is this hands-on and romantic, but you will end the class with a delicious home cooked meal that is sure to beat carry-out.

     

    ATTEND A WINE TASTING

     

    Visit a local vineyard and enjoy the different flavors of wine they have to offer. If going out is a concern, or you simply prefer staying in, some vineyards even offer virtual wine tastings. In this case, you would preorder the wine and go through the virtual tasting at home while learning about the vineyard’s history and wine making process. Whether you choose to go out or stay in, make it more of an event by dressing up nicely for each other.

     

     DINE-IN MOVIE THEATER

     

    Dinner and a movie has never been easier when you can enjoy them at the same time! Dine-in theaters often have large, comfortable seating with attached tray tables. They provide a full food and drink menu to order from, and bring out your meal at the start of the movie. Alternatively, you can also order in and set up a movie night right on your couch. Enjoy a romantic comedy or, if that’s not your thing, a thrilling suspense together while enjoying food and drink and you’ll call it a successful Valentine’s date.

     

    AT HOME SPA DAY

     

    Time to have a self care and pampering day! This would be a great date idea for the couple looking to decompress and relax. Set the atmosphere with dim lighting, scented candles, and relaxing music. Then, you can soak together in a bubble bath and give each other foot and shoulder rubs. Apply face and hair masks for a full spa experience. 

    TAKE A DANCE CLASS

     

    Taking a dance class is a great idea for a couple looking to do something fun but also intimate and romantic. During a dance class, you and your spouse will maintain physical contact and closeness, and also have to work as a team. It’ll be a good workout as well, for both your body and communication skills! You can find a local dance studio to join in on a public class. Or, if you’d like to stay home, you can put on a video dance tutorial and turn your living room into a dance floor.

     

    COUPLES MASSAGE

     

    This one is a no-brainer, especially for the super busy couple. Book a couple’s massage at your favorite spa to treat yourselves this Valentine’s Day. Alternatively, you could give each other the massages. Watch a quick tutorial video, and set the scene. You can warm up some towels, pick out your favorite scented lotion, and light some candles. Turn on slow relaxing music and massage out all of you and your spouse’s stresses.

     

    HAVE A VIDEO GAME COMPETITION

     

    Do you or your spouse enjoy video games? Order takeout or assemble some snacks and have a video game marathon!  Pick out your favorite multiplayer games and don’t be afraid to get competitive. While this route may seem more lowkey and less intimate, for the right pair, this type of date creates bonding moments and memories that last a lifetime.

     

    RECREATE YOUR FIRST DATE

     

    While this one can be tricky, if possible, it will make for a very special date. Visit the same restaurant, coffee shop, or park where you had your first date. Or, simply replicate the location to the best of your ability. For the day of, try to wear the same clothes you wore for that first date. If you can, get ready in different locations to build up anticipation. Then, meet at the date location or have one of you pick the other up, just like you would on that first date! 

     

    During the date, keep the conversation away from the house, your marriage, your kids, or any topic you normally discuss. Focus on talking about each other’s aspirations and goals. Even if you already know everything about each other, ask and answer all those first date questions. You may be surprised to learn new things about one another!

     

    Sources:

    https://www. To womanandhome.com/travel/valentines-day-date-ideas/

    https://parade.com/1325147/jessicasager/valentines-day-date-ideas/amp/

    https://ballroominboston.com/the-top-10-reasons-couples-should-dance-together/

    https://smrnation.com/recreate-your-first-date/

     

  • 7 FUN ACTIVITIES TO TRY WITH YOUR KIDS IF YOU’RE STUCK INSIDE THIS WINTER

    7 FUN ACTIVITIES TO TRY WITH YOUR KIDS IF YOU’RE STUCK INSIDE THIS WINTER

     

    For many families, winter means bundling up inside to avoid the harsh weather and colder temperatures. Whether or not you live in a place with milder winters, you may be looking for seasonal activities for your family in the comfort of your own home. Every idea on this list is kid-friendly and can be enjoyed indoors.

    CREATE CLAY SNOWMEN

    Don’t get a lot of snow where you live? Your kids can still build their very own snowmen, and these ones won’t melt! Just get a container of bakeable clay and start creating. Mold a classic three-tiered snowman, or let them go outside the box and build a sculpture from their imagination. Keep the clay moldable by adding small amounts of water until you have your perfect creation, then bake it per the container’s instructions. Continue the activity with paint, or enjoy your clay snowmen as is!

    INDOOR OBSTACLE COURSE

    This idea is for the parents of kiddos who have some energy to kill! With only objects within your home, you can create your very own obstacle course. Use the coffee table or chairs for them to crawl under. Then use pillows, blankets, or other soft objects for them to jump and climb over. Come up with some unique challenges and this will be a fun game as well as a learning experience for them! You could keep it lighthearted or make it competitive by timing them.

    INDOOR SCAVENGER HUNT

    A more low key idea in comparison to an obstacle course, is to host an indoor scavenger hunt. Collect random items, or perhaps a few of your children’s toys, and hide them throughout the house. Be sure to keep a note of the items you use and where you place them- we don’t want anything getting lost for good. Then, write kid friendly clues leading them to the hidden location! This is another activity that is not also fun but gets their little brains going as well.

    MAKE IT SNOW INDOORS

    Turn your house into a winter wonderland by creating snowflake paper cutouts. For this activity you probably have all you need already at home: paper and scissors! Of course, this will be an activity requiring adult supervision. 

    Fold up a piece of paper multiple times, then use the scissors to make creative cutouts along the edges. Once you’ve made all your unique snowflakes, use string and tape to attach them to the ceiling and create a constant snowfall all throughout the house!

    WRITE AND PERFORM A PLAY

    For the families with older kids, or the more theatrically inclined, you could put on your very own play. Let them create their own characters and world, and help them write a storyline. Go into their closets or dress-up bin to create costumes, and perhaps even bring out the makeup. Create a makeshift stage and let them put on the play for you and your spouse and other non-performing family members. You may want to have the video camera going for this one!

    MASON JAR SNOW GLOBE

    This winter craft requires a bit more preparation and items from the store. However, it’s sure to be a winner as you will be creating your very own snow globes from mason jars! You’ll need mason jars, glue, a small foam ball, glitter, and whichever figurines are going to be inside your snow globe. Then, you’ll need distilled water and glycerin. Glycerin suspends the glitter in the water to create that snowfall effect, while also preserving the decor items in the globe. It can be found at your local craft store or pharmacy section in the grocery store.

    Simply cut the foam ball in half and glue the flat side to the inside of the jar’s lid. Then, use glue to place your winter trees, houses, deer, or other figurines. Don’t be afraid to get creative with paint and glitter. After it dries overnight, fill the jar with water, glitter, and glycerin and secure the lid onto the jar. Allow it one more night to dry before turning or shaking it. Finally, enjoy your very own snow globe creation!

    NAIL AND HAIR SALON

    Give your kids a day of glam and self care by setting up a home nail and hair salon. Get all the supplies you have like nail files and polish, curling irons or straighteners. Let them pick out their favorite color and choose a hairstyle. THey will love getting pampered! You could even let them pick out special outfits from their closets or dress-up. Then, put on a mock photoshoot to let them show off their new looks!

    There are plenty of ways to have fun at home indoors. These activities simply take some planning, creativity, and your loved ones to enjoy them with!

     

    Sources:

    https://kidsactivitiesblog.com/63623/indoor-activities-winter/

    https://www.popsugar.com/family/photo-gallery/45706330/image/45710778/Sing-Karaoke

    https://www.familiesfirstindiana.org/winteractivities?locale=en

    https://www.makelifelovely.com/easy-clay-snowman-decoration/

    https://www.bhg.com/crafts/mason-jar-snow-globes/

     

  • 8 MUST HAVE ESSENTIALS FOR A PERFECT WINTER WEDDING

    8 MUST HAVE ESSENTIALS FOR A PERFECT WINTER WEDDING

    Winter can often be the most sophisticated and romantic season to wed in. When one thinks of a winter wedding, soft falling snow, candlelight, and closeness all come to mind. With that being said, the colder weather can bring with it some event challenges. However, with some simple preparation and tips and tricks, you can ensure your day goes smoothly and embraces all the charm of winter while avoiding any obstacles it brings. In this list, we will go over those must-haves for a perfect winter wedding day.

    DRESS COAT OR SHAWL

    For the brisk weather, the bride should consider adding a formal coat or shawl to wear over her dress. Whether she wears it simply to keep warm in between venue locations, or as a statement in her photos, this piece will be a must have in lower temperatures. This accent piece comes in many different styles. For a more glam look, a bride could choose a faux feather or faux fur shawl. For a delicate bride, a knitted or crocheted shawl is perfect to keep warm. An even warmer choice could be a bridal trench coat. Be sure to pick a style that suits your day while protecting you from the cold.

    EARLY PHOTO SESSION

    In winter, the sun sets earlier than during the rest of the year, in some months as early as 4:30pm, and that can present some challenges for wedding photos. Depending on the time of your ceremony, you may want to consider taking bridal party photos before the ceremony or scheduling it for earlier in the day to make the most of the daylight. 

    Ask your photographer about when golden hour, the prime time for taking photos in the best light, will fall on your winter day. Photos are for many couples a very important takeaway of their wedding and will hold memories for years to come, so it is crucial to plan ahead to ensure you are able to get all the photos you’d need.

    AN ACCESSIBLE VENUE

    Depending on your location, weather can be a major obstacle for travel for both you and your guests. You may want to avoid a more remote location or one that requires going off road, in the event there could be snow or ice preventing safe transportation to and from the venue. You could choose to have a destination wedding, and venture a little farther to someplace warmer. Or, simply choose a venue closer to town and where it is easily accessible by roads. 

    APPROPRIATE FOOTWEAR

    Another wardrobe tip for both the bride and groom is to plan to have weather-appropriate footwear. You could either choose to wear a more sturdy shoe, without sacrificing style, for the entirety of the day, or at least bring an extra pair as a backup. If there is any chance you will go trekking out onto ice or snow, or even just wet ground, you will definitely want something other than heels and dress shoes. 

    WARMING GIFTS FOR GUESTS

    For a wedding day that holds some of the festivities or events outside or exposed to the winter air, blankets or hand warmers are an essential for your guests. Have a decorative display indicating to the guests to pick up a blanket to keep warm, and they will surely be grateful. Not only that, but bundled up guests will make for adorable photos and memories. 

    For a more practical approach and if blankets aren’t formal enough, supply your guests with hand warmers instead.

    A BACK UP PLAN

    For any part of the event that is planned to be outdoors, whether that be the ceremony, the photos, or the reception, consider having a back-up plan. Winter weather can be unpredictable, and while a soft snowfall is beautiful and nondisruptive, a snowstorm would not be. Be sure to have somewhere indoors to hold your events just in case the weather or temperatures are no longer manageable for you or your guests.

    In addition, consider the potential of power loss, and perhaps choose a venue with a generator if this is a concern for you. Lastly, have a backup plan for traveling guests. Serious weather can postpone or prohibit guests from flying or driving to your destination. For this, consider live streaming your day in the event some guests cannot make it. 

    HOT CHOCOLATE BAR

    This one is simply a bonus, but a hot chocolate bar would be a fun way for your guests to keep warm on your wedding day. Display it with different flavors and toppings, such as whip cream, chocolate chips, and peppermints. This is also a family friendly drink option in addition to signature cocktails. A sweet and cozy drink is sure to warm everybody up during a brisk winter day.

    TRUST IN YOUR PREPARATIONS

    After going through this list and making the proper preparations, being sure to plan for any possible scenario that winter weather can bring, you’ll want to then trust in those plans and enjoy your day. Once every backup plan is in place, let go of any unnecessary stress. What is most important is that you are getting married to your future life partner amongst all your loved ones. With that in perspective, everything else will fall into place.

     

    Sources:

    https://www.cherokeedock.com/winter-wedding-must-haves-december-10-2020/

    https://www.realsimple.com/weddings/weddings-planning/winter-wedding-ideas

    https://onefabday.com/winter-wedding-tips/

    https://www.brides.com/best-bridal-shawls-4783192

     

  • Here Are the Five Safest and Most Exciting Travel Destinations for 2022

    Here Are the Five Safest and Most Exciting Travel Destinations for 2022

    As we come out of the past few years of limited travel and staying home, people will begin to feel the itch to get out again in 2022. Many places are beginning to open up while still implementing safety precautions. 

    Whether you’re looking for someplace warm, someplace adventurous, or someplace lowkey, there is a destination for you. 2022 is the year to explore the world again, take in the sights, all while remaining safe. Let’s take a look at the best locations for travel in 2022.

    Fiji

    Fiji is one of the largest honeymoon and destination spots for many couples. Fiji begins 2022 at Level 1 on the State Department’s travel advisory scale, and it currently has a low level of virus. This makes it a great and safe destination this year. 

    Should you choose to visit, consider stopping at Kadavu island and getting a proper taste of the culture of the Fiji islands. It is surrounded by one of the world’s largest barrier reefs, Great Astrolabe Reef, in which visitors can experience a snorkeling experience like no other. For the adventurous traveler, trek 10 kilometers through the Lavena Coastal Walk and wind through tropical rainforest to find a hidden waterfall.

     


    Canada

    Canada has been known as one of the safest countries in the world, and it remains that way in 2022. It landed third on Berkshire Hathaway Travel Protection’s list of the safest places to travel in 2022. 

    Perhaps you could choose to stop in Alberta to experience lakes and mountains. Alberta is also home to Fort Edmonton Park, which is Canada’s largest living history museum and now homes a 30,000 square foot exhibit that immerses the visitor into the First Nations and Métis culture. In winter of 2022, the park launches a new experience titled Whispers from the Stars, in which visitors will hear Métis stories of the constellations. Alberta is a destination full of adventure and rich in culture.

    British Virgin Islands

    The British Virgin Islands started the New Year strong with receiving Level 1 travel advisory from the CDC and State Department and is open for international visitors. There is also eased protocol for fully vaccinated individuals. Should you choose the British Virgin Islands as your 2022 destination, there are a few excursions you won’t want to miss. 

    First, take a dip in Baths National Park, located on Virgin Gorda’s shore. These natural wonders are pools formed by molten rock. Another sight to see is the all-coral island of Anegada. It is the British Virgin Islands’ largest and only all-coral island. Visitors can arrive here via a ferry or charter flight and enjoy the day snorkeling or scuba diving.

    New Zealand

    New Zealand has been locked down the past few years to outside visitors due to the pandemic. However, there is hope that in 2022 that New Zealand will reopen its doors to tourists once again. It’s limited traffic however has ensured it would be a very safe travel destination with low risk of exposure to the virus.

    New Zealand is known for being one of the most beautiful countries in the world, so any tourist arriving here would not be lacking for sights to see. One of these is the Te Whakarewarewa Geothermal Valley, where you’ll find Pohutu, the biggest active geyser in the Southern Hemisphere. For a city experience, visit Queenstown, the country’s adventure capital. For adrenaline junkies, try the Shotover Canyon Swing, the world’s highest cliff jump.

    The Bahamas

    Another hot spot for many, 2022 vacationers will be happy to learn that the islands received Level 2 travel advisories from the CDC and the State Department in December. 

    While the Bahamas are known for its beaches and clear, blue waters, it’s not for a lack of history or culture. On Paradise Island, travelers can visit the remnants of a 14th century French Monastery that was brought to the island. For a more lighthearted and fun excursion, take a tour to Big Major Cay and see the swimming pigs of the Bahamas. Lastly, visitors can take a dive along the world’s third largest reef. The Andros Barrier Reef is 190 miles long and home to exotic fish and a 6,000 foot trench named the Tongue of the Ocean.

    Safe Travels

    Of course, it is always recommended that you do whatever makes you feel the most safe and comfortable. However, if travel is on your agenda in 2022, be relieved in knowing it can be perfectly attainable and enjoyable with correct precautions. There is much of the world to see and places to explore, and if you so decide, there’s no better time to get out there.

     

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  • HERE ARE THE TOP 10 WEDDING TRENDS FROM 2021 THAT WILL LAST IN 2022

    HERE ARE THE TOP 10 WEDDING TRENDS FROM 2021 THAT WILL LAST IN 2022

    The new year is finally here and with it comes new and updated wedding trends. We will likely see many changes with weddings as we do every year, certain styles come and go. However, there are many trends that took hold in 2021 that are likely to last into 2022, and perhaps forever. Coming out of the pandemic of 2020, weddings had to undergo many changes, and couples realized that some were for the better. So, let’s take a look at some of the trends of 2021 that will likely stand for the next foreseeable future.

    MORE INTENTIONAL GUEST LISTS

     

    The pandemic caused many wedding guest lists to shrink significantly. And, as things started to open up in 2021 allowing guest lists to grow again, couples intentionality behind their list continued. Many couples are taking a hard look at their invitees and choosing a more careful curation of the list. Careless, courtesy invites are a thing of the past as couples prioritize celebrating with the truly important people in their lives.

    DIY WEDDING DECOR

    Couples looking to be intentional or save money are deciding to DIY some of their wedding decor. Via painted vases, DIY bouquets, or custom created centerpieces, couples are saving money by getting creative. The extra funds are being reallocated for aspects of the wedding that are becoming more nonnegotiable, such as the honeymoon or a wedding videographer.

    RESTAURANT STYLE PLATES

    In 2021, we saw a drop in popularity of family, buffet style dinners. Couples are now opting for the more formal, restaurant style dinner plate. Individually served plates will avoid communal serving utensils and reduce the spread of germs. Not only that, but in 2021 and predicted for 2022, couples are seen shifting to focus more on the meal and make it an experience for their guests. Couples are customizing the meal to tie back to their love story and create a grand dinner party now that there is more freedom post-pandemic.

    WEEKDAY WEDDINGS

    Due to the pandemic, couples struggled to book their venues on the traditional Saturday, and instead had their weddings on Friday or Sunday. However, we are seeing that couples are enjoying the flexibility of weekday weddings and will continue to consider different days for their wedding in the future. Couples are also welcoming the idea of separating their festivities for added flexibility, allowing them to have an intimate ceremony on one day, and a brunch or large dinner party the next.

    COLORFUL WEDDING SUITS

    The more traditional all black suit is seeing a decline as couples are opting for a more fun and bold color for the groom’s outfit. For fall, we’re seeing deep burgundy and emerald greens. Groom’s getting married in spring are seen wedding in pastel blues, ivories, or soft pinks.

    YELLOW GOLD JEWELRY

    In years past, white gold and platinum wedding bands were the popular wedding look. However, the more vintage look of gold jewelry is back for the foreseeable future. We are seeing a rise in couples desiring for the more traditional gold bands for their engagement rings and wedding bands.

    A FOCUS ON SUSTAINABILITY

    More and more couples are prioritizing sustainability, frivolousness and wastefulness is a thing of the past. Brides are shopping secondhand for their dresses, couples are searching for recycled gold for their wedding bands. Continuing in 2022, we will see more vegan and inclusive meal options for receptions. Couples are also looking for ways to be zero waste, such as repurposing wedding florals, donating or reusing decor, and choosing vendors that align with their sustainable priorities and values. 

    ASSIGNED SEATING

    While open seating was becoming increasingly popular in previous years, we are seeing a shift as couples notice assigned seating is more of a comfort for guests. Unassigned seating was simpler for the couple, but guests prefer knowing where they should sit for dinner. Assigned seating also ensures families and close friends stay together and limits contact with guests outside of their social sphere.

    ELECTRONIC INVITES & LIVE STREAMING

    While travel is still restricted, broadcasting weddings for faraway guests will continue to be the norm. Technology has been vastly improved over the pandemic allowing live streaming to truly flourish. Now, family members and friends from afar, or high risk guests can tune into and celebrate the event from everywhere.  Not only that, but the event would be watchable afterwards for guests that were unavailable the day of, as well as allow the couple to relive the day.

    FOCUSING ON WHAT’S IMPORTANT

    The final lasting trend for 2022 is that couples are no longer fretting over the smaller, trivial aspects of their wedding. The past few years have put into perspective what really matters for the couple, and that is creating memorable moments with the special people in their life. Small decor items or details are no longer worth the stress in comparison to creating lasting experiences with loved ones.

     

  • START THE NEW YEAR OFF STRONG WITH THESE FOUR IMPORTANT STEPS

    START THE NEW YEAR OFF STRONG WITH THESE FOUR IMPORTANT STEPS

    In just a few short weeks, we will welcome in the year 2022. Some of us may be embracing it with open arms, ready to put 2021 behind us, while others are riddled with anxiety over the prospects of the upcoming year. Wherever you fall, there are steps you can take now to set your New Year up for success. No longer must we let the New Year simply happen to us, we can take the reins with confidence with these strategies.

    DO A REVIEW OF THE PAST YEAR

    The first step to moving forward is to do a thorough reflection on the year that’s passed. 

    First off, you will ask yourself what went well. Celebrating your wins is just as important as going over areas to improve. Write down 5-10 accomplishments or “wins” you have achieved this year and why they matter to you. This will show you truly all you have done this year and bolster your confidence for reaching next year’s goals.

    Next, reflect on what didn’t go so well. Jot down any unmet goals or unfinished projects, as well as any losses or disappointments you’ve had over the past year. Then, you will record how you feel about each of these. This will help you measure if these are items you are eager to fix and work on, or if you are content to leave them be.

    Lastly, you will want to record what you have learned. It’s important to remember that these lessons can be in any aspect of your life whether that be family, work, health, finances, and more. Write down at least 5 lessons you’ve learned this past year and how you will implement the necessary changes for the upcoming year. By recognizing and applying what you’ve learned you will ensure you’re always making progress.

    SET SMART GOALS

    While it’s fun to make the traditional New Year’s Resolutions, they are often vague and unrealistic. In fact, studies show approximately 80% of New Year’s Resolutions fail. A better way to set goals is to set SMART goals.

    SMART goals are:

    S – Specific

    M – Measurable

    A – Attainable

    R – Realistic

    T – Timely

    The resolution of “start healthier habits,” is destined to fail. Make specific goals such as “drink 8 cups of water a day,” or “put 20% of each paycheck into savings.” Being sure they are specific and measurable will help you know when they have been achieved. 

    Next, make sure the goals are attainable and realistic. For instance, it is not physically attainable to train for a marathon in one month, so setting that goal is setting yourself up for failure. Going one step further, make sure it is realistically attainable. Break your goals up into bite size pieces, so your confidence will grow as you reach each one. Following the running example, a realistic goal may be to start walking for 30 minutes each day.

    Setting timely goals keeps them from being open ended and leading to procrastination. Give yourself a realistic timeframe with a set date so you know exactly what you’re working towards.

    DECLUTTER

    A great way to start fresh in the New Year is to give your physical and digital spaces a thorough declutter. Messy spaces can affect our mental health and productivity, so it’s important not to let them get out of control. Donate unneeded items and give your home a refreshing clean.

    Your digital spaces are just as if not more important than our physical ones. Delete old photos and do an inbox clear out. Log into your social media accounts and unfollow anyone toxic or brings up feelings of insecurity. You do not need these influences in the upcoming year. 

    For more tips, check out our comprehensive cleaning guide blog post.

    MAKE TRAVEL PLANS

    Or, if you don’t like to travel, plan a staycation. Whichever way you like to relax, it’s important to plan this into your year ahead of time. Numerous studies have shown the positive effects vacations have on both your physical and mental health. From the decreased risk of heart disease and high blood pressure to depression and anxiety, the benefits are all-encompassing. 

    Not only that, but vacations will improve your motivation in your job and nurture your family relationships. Planning this ahead of time will ensure you have it set in your calendar and can notify your work. Not only that but planning itself may increase happiness. Some can experience an elevated mood up to eight weeks before the trip.

    WELCOME THE NEW YEAR

    Taking these steps will set yourself up for success in all areas of your life. If the past year has been difficult or felt stagnant, hopefully, this list will better prepare you for the one ahead. You will be able to welcome the coming year with a new confidence that you’ve covered all your bases from refreshing your home to setting realistic goals, to planning much deserved downtime.

     

    Sources:

    https://www.ramseysolutions.com/career-advice/6-tips-to-start-the-new-year-right

    https://blog.rescuetime.com/personal-annual-review-2021/

    https://smallandmighty.co/how-to-set-smart-goals/

    https://www.forbes.com/sites/kathycaprino/2019/12/21/the-top-3-reasons-new-years-resolutions-fail-and-how-yours-can-succeed/?sh=50c253ea6992

    https://clubsolaris.com/blog/7-reasons-why-you-should-plan-your-vacation-ahead

    https://www.allinahealth.org/healthysetgo/thrive/importance-of-taking-vacation

     

  • GIFT INSPIRATION FOR YOUR FIRST HOLIDAY TOGETHER AS A NEW MARRIED COUPLE

    GIFT INSPIRATION FOR YOUR FIRST HOLIDAY TOGETHER AS A NEW MARRIED COUPLE

    So, your first holiday as a newly married couple is approaching and you may be starting to search for the perfect gift to commemorate this day. Even though you have celebrated together before, the first holiday together after marriage is something special. Whether you’re looking for a gift for the sentimental spouse, or perhaps seeking ideas that may have been left off your registry, we’ve created this list with you in mind.

    PRINTED VOWS

    Did you and your spouse share personal vows on your wedding day? Get these important and loving promises documented in a keep piece you can display for years to come. This set of prints from Etsy is a beautiful way to showcase your vows as wall art and would be the perfect intimate gift for your first holiday.

    DATE NIGHT BOOK

    For the fun and adventurous couple, try gifting your spouse with this date night book. Packed with 35 unique date ideas, each one is hidden behind a scratch off. Once the idea is scratched off, the date idea must be attempted. This is a great way to keep date night exciting and new, and would make a fun first gift for your spouse.

    MATCHING PAJAMAS

    Holiday pajamas are a classic, and matching ones are a must for your first holiday together. If you have a fur baby, feel free to include them and bundle up in your pj’s for your festivities. Don’t forget to take a family photo gathered up under the tree!

    GROOMING KIT

    Skincare and spa kits can often be misconstrued as primarily for women, but men love to feel pampered too. If your spouse takes care of a beard, consider gifting him with a beard kit. It will make every shave day feel like a spa day, and he will be sure to feel special and cared for.

    JEWELRY 

    What would a holiday gift list be without this suggestion? A precious testament of love, a piece of jewelry is a perfect gift for your first holiday together. You could grab a piece he or she has been eyeing, or pick out a surprise. Along a similar vein, if your spouse works with their hands at their job and their wedding band is at risk of damage, you could gift him or her with a silicone wedding band. This wearable keeps your special wedding rings safe, while still allowing you to have the special symbol on your finger.

    APRON

    If your spouse is the one who does most of the cooking, an apron is a thoughtful gift for the holidays. You could get one personalized, or go for one with many pockets and places to keep tools. This gift may be something your spouse would not have thought to get for themselves, but will be glad to have on hand when the daily task comes around.

    CARRY ON LUGGAGE

    Perfect for the couple with plans of travel, gift an upgraded pair of carry on luggage bags for you and your spouse. Inside, you could include travel brochures of the place you two plan on visiting next, or mementos of places you’ve been before. Not only will it spark those dreams of travel when your spouse receives it, this gift is a practical one that will last years.  

    WINE SET

    For the spouse who enjoys quality time and a glass of wine, consider gifting a wine gift set. This gift set includes two bottles of wine and a rustic style cheese board. To use for date night, pair with your spouse’s favorite fruits and cheeses. This gift packs meaning as it is not just an item, but an avenue to nurture love and create memories together.

    PERSONALIZED DOORMAT

     

    If you or your spouse has decided to change their name, consider displaying your new family name as you welcome visitors with this custom doormat. You can order it in various styles and sizes, ensuring it’s right for your home. This gift is a fun way to personalize your first home together and celebrate becoming a newly formed family.

    TOOL SET

    This gift may be one that gets overlooked on the registry, but is a must have for a new home together. If your spouse is the handy type, they’re going to need a drill and tool set. Whether it’s to hang some shelves or fix a leaky faucet, the right tool is a must have in your home and this would be a much needed first holiday gift.

    WALL ART

    If you’ve yet to decorate the walls of your home, consider gifting your spouse with a piece of wall art. This could be a piece from an artist or photographer they’re a fan of, or a shot of one of their favorite places. Another way to personalize the walls of your home is with photos of each other. Printed and framed photos of one of your favorite days, your wedding day, is a lovely first gift for your spouse.

    THE PERFECT GIFT

    Finding the right gift for your spouse shouldn’t be stressful, but rewarding and fun. Don’t overthink it, and keep in mind your spouse loves you and will be grateful for anything they receive. It isn’t so much about the material things, but the love and care that went into choosing the gift for each other.

     

    Sources:

    https://www.marthastewart.com/7933802/first-married-holiday-gift-guide

    https://www.brides.com/gallery/holiday-gift-ideas-for-your-first-christmas-together

    https://www.thekitchn.com/5-small-appliances-that-belong-on-your-wedding-registry-and-2-that-don-t-241726

    https://www.insideweddings.com/news/wedding-registry/17-items-couples-often-forget-on-their-registry/41282/

    https://www.etsy.com/listing/742560694/wedding-vows-set-of-two-custom-art?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_ps-a-art_and_collectibles-prints-digital_prints&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAiAhreNBhAYEiwAFGGKPGqTb_NS133vJ2D9W0nl1MHqSjOZkL1OoPKAwfeYNJhMqauPsAy3fRoC6asQAvD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_12565614185_119519592917_507187203534_pla-328046931108_c__742560694_12059121&utm_custom2=12565614185&gclid=CjwKCAiAhreNBhAYEiwAFGGKPGqTb_NS133vJ2D9W0nl1MHqSjOZkL1OoPKAwfeYNJhMqauPsAy3fRoC6asQAvD_BwE

    https://www.ulta.com/p/beard-grooming-kit-xlsImpprod17001043

    https://www.wine.com/product/90-point-wine-and-slate-cheese-board-gift-set/529993

    https://www.saferingz.com

    https://www.etsy.com/listing/1020453439/housewarming-gift-wedding-gift-custom?plkey=363d4f334e13c49b0a905b28e5c3a14bb89421af%3A1020453439&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=custom+doormat&ref=sc_gallery-1-8&pro=1

    https://www.walmart.com/ip/BLACK-DECKER-12-Volt-MAX-Lithium-Drill-And-59-Piece-Project-Kit-BDCDD12PK-Tool-Sets/55171907?wmlspartner=wlpa&selectedSellerId=12988

     

  • 6 DREAMY WEDDING DRESSES INSPIRED BY THE SEASON OF WINTER

    6 DREAMY WEDDING DRESSES INSPIRED BY THE SEASON OF WINTER

    Winter wedding planning comes with many choices for a couple to make from venues, to food, to drinks and music. A decision of utmost importance to many brides is the gown she will wear on her day. The variety of dress design can create an overwhelm, from lace to chiffon, a-line to mermaid, there are so many possibilities. And with the wedding falling in the winter, the bride may wonder how to incorporate the beauty of the season into her dress. If you’re looking for inspiration, you’re in the right place. This list has been compiled with six winter dress details to consider for many different types of brides and weddings.

    TURTLENECK DRESS

    The time of year known for brisk weather brings the annual fashion trend of the turtleneck sweater. Adding this detail to your dress, as seen in this wedding dress from David’s Bridal, is a flattering testament to the season you’re marrying in. Vintage inspired, this mock neck gown showcases floral lace and cap sleeves with eyelash-trimmed scalloped detail. The dress is inclusively available in various sizes and body types, including petite, tall, plus, and tall plus.

    LONG SLEEVES

    A classic way to bring the style of winter season into your gown is to add long sleeves. Not only does it protect your bare arms from the cool air, it showcases the sophistication of the season. This long-sleeved Riki Dalal Joan Gown from BHLDN is an off-white ivory color with a lace overlay and features a plunging v-neck. It’s brought in at the waist with a crystal belt and flows down into a gathered train. Available in sizes 0 to 16, this charming dress is perfect for the winter bride with a softer style while still staying cozy in the cold.

    BUTTON DETAIL

    A romantic and classy detail to feature in your winter gown is a button enclosure. As shown in the Danea Bridal Gown by Azazie, it has white buttons clasped all the way to the train of the dress. The buttons cover the hidden zipper, which makes it much easier for the wearer to take on and off. The Danea gown has a sweetheart neckline with long sleeves and lace. This off-the-shoulder dress comes in three colorways and over ten sizes and can even be made custom at no extra cost.

    SATIN FINISH

    The sheen of a satin finish is a romantic reflection of the gleam of a new fallen snow. Winter is arguably the most elegant season to wed in, and the cowl neck Elliat Aisle White Maxi Dress from Lulu’s is a timeless look that captures this elegance. Simple but distinguished, the Elliat is a sheath style and features faux buttons to conceal the zipper and clasp enclosure. It hugs the hips and falls longer in the back along a ruffled hem. It is available in sizes small to extra large and ships for free within the US.

    LONG TRAIN SKIRT

    Winter is a striking season full of drama and passion, and what better way to encapsulate this than with a cathedral train like the one in this beaded mermaid dress by David’s Bridal. Featuring diamond patterned tulle, as well as lace and bead work, the faux plunging neckline is followed by a trumpet skirt and full cathedral train. The gown marries vintage and modern style and is available in three colors, many sizes, and can be ordered petite, tall, plus, or tall plus.

    GO DARING

    Where’s the rulebook saying the bride must wear the expected white? Bring the moodiness, drama, and boldness of the cold winter months by wearing a black gown instead. In the Persephone Bridal Gown by Azazie, the black tulle and lace overlays either a white, champagne, or nude fabric creating dimension and interest. The heart shaped bodice is trimmed with velvet and meets a full ball-gown skirt. Available in many sizes and can even be custom made-to-order, this dress is a show of romance and mystery and is sure to turn heads.

    A DRESS TRUE TO YOU

    Every bride is unique and deserves a dress true to herself and that makes her feel confident and beautiful on her wedding day. These suggestions are merely to inspire, not to limit or pressure a bride to wear a certain style in a certain season. The best way to find the dress right for you is to remove the limitations and try on as many styles that are of interest as possible. You may be surprised by the one that feels the most “you!”

     

    Sources:

    https://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_embroidered-illusion-mock-neck-wedding-dress-ms251205

    https://www.bhldn.com/products/joan-gown?via=Z2lkOi8vdXJibi9Xb3JrYXJlYTo6Q2F0YWxvZzo6Q2F0ZWdvcnkvQ0E3MjA3QjY

    https://www.azazie.com/products/azazie-danea-wedding-dress?color=diamond-white%2Fchampagne

    https://www.lulus.com/products/aisle-white-satin-cowl-neck-maxi-dress/816392.html

    https://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_beaded-brocade-embellished-plus-size-wedding-dress-9swg835

    https://www.azazie.com/products/azazie-persephone-wedding-dress?color=black%2Fdiamond-white

     

  • THE ULTIMATE FALL/WINTER CLEANING GUIDE FOR A HEALTHY HOUSE AND MIND

    THE ULTIMATE FALL/WINTER CLEANING GUIDE FOR A HEALTHY HOUSE AND MIND

    Studies show there are more than just organizational benefits to a deeply cleaned home. Clean spaces are healthier for both your mind and body. While you may already do an annual spring cleaning, you may want to consider doing a deep clean this fall as well. With cooler weather comes cold and flu season, and bugs and dust can do a number on you especially if you already suffer from allergies. Luckily, this detailed cleaning guide can ensure your space is prepped and optimized for your health this coming season.

    What can often get ignored is the effects your spaces have on your mental health. It is shown that cluttered spaces decrease productivity, and may increase feelings of depression and anxiety. Going to bed in a messy room can also negatively affect your quality of sleep.

    Investing some time this season to clean and declutter your home can improve your mental and physical health. So as the cold and holiday season approaches, now is the perfect time to take a deep dive into your space and clear out the cobwebs (both literally and metaphorically). This guide is here to help you achieve just that.

    THE KITCHEN AND DINING SPACES

    • Start with the refrigerator, being sure to take everything out, and cleaning both the interior and door shelves. Throw out old food and unused condiments. Don’t forget to clean off the door handle and exterior.
    • Deep clean the oven and stovetop and consider pulling the oven away from the wall to sweep out the floor underneath.
    • Declutter unused kitchen utensils and/or appliances and clean out the cabinets.
    • Be sure to wipe up all nooks and crannies, including the baseboards.
    • Give your trash can a good scrub and refresh.
    • Shine up your sink. To remove rust marks, you can try out products such as Bar Keeper’s Friend.
    • Give your dining table and chairs some love. If you have a wood table, consider giving it a wax polish treatment. If your dining chairs are upholstered, spot treat any stains.

    THE LIVING SPACES

    • Most living spaces could use a good dust down, especially if anyone in the home suffers from allergies. Dust off lamps, tables, appliances, and even the ceiling fan if you have one.
    • Give the space a vacuum or two. Pull furniture away to get to those overlooked places. You may be surprised to find a lost item or two!
    • If your room has carpet or rug, go ahead and give it a shampoo. If you don’t own a carpet cleaner, you can always borrow one from a friend or family member or even rent one from a home improvement store.
    • If you have any display or storage shelves, remove the items and wipe down the shelves. Now is a great time to declutter any unused items or switch out the decor for seasonal items.

    THE BEDROOM SPACES

    • For the bedroom, repeat the tasks from your living space list. Dust shelves and ceiling fans, vacuum and shampoo rugs or carpet, and declutter any decor and storage shelves.
    • In addition, go ahead and strip down the bed and wash all bed linens according to the washing directions. 
    • Clean out and declutter your nightstands, throwing out unused items.
    • Do a closet clean-out. To really slim down your closet, try on pieces you haven’t worn in a while to see if you still need and/or want to keep them. Donate any items of clothing you no longer wish to keep. This is also a good time to put away your spring and summer wardrobe and bring out your fall and winter clothes.

    THE BATHROOM SPACES

    • First up, throw your shower curtain and bath mats in the laundry. 
    • While they wash, start a detailed declutter of the space. Get rid of expired items including medications as well as makeup, face, and hair products. Be honest with yourself over products that are still within date but have not had much use. For these, feel free to offer them to a friend or family member that may actually use them!
    • Wipe down the mirror, sink, and storage containers that hold items such as makeup brushes and toothbrushes. 
    • Give the shower and bath a good scrub, removing any water and rust stains. Throw out any empty product containers.  
    • Deeply clean and disinfect the toilet. Remove the toilet seat to clean every surface. Wipe the base and floor around the toilet. 
    • Sweep and mop the floors, and replace the curtain and bath mats.

    THE MISCELLANEOUS SPACES

    • In the laundry, pull out the appliances to sweep and mop behind them. Vacuum off the dryer vent.
    • Change out your home’s air filters.
    • Declutter and reorganize the linen closet, getting rid of unused items.
    • Clean out and organize the coat closet.
    • If you haven’t in a while, replace the batteries in your smoke detectors.

    THE DIGITAL SPACES

    A task that’s just as beneficial as tidying physical spaces but is often overlooked is a thorough cleanout of your digital spaces.

    • Go through and remove any unused applications from your devices.
    • Delete old messages and emails.
    • Consider removing toxic or discouraging accounts from your social media. While you may feel hesitant in doing so, this can greatly improve your experience on social media as well as your mental health. If you don’t want to permanently unfollow or unfriend someone, many platforms have the option to “mute” an account. By muting, you remain friends or followers of the account without having their posts and updates show up on your feed. Your social media feeds should be uplifting and inspiring, so feel free to make them so. 

    A FRESH START FOR FALL/WINTER

    Upon completion of this guide, you will hopefully begin to see benefits immediately. Cluttered spaces can drain us of motivation and inspiration, or worse, bring us anxiety or feelings of depression. For the health of everyone in the home, getting to those overlooked tasks and spaces is crucial. Now is as good of a time as ever to improve your space and health. So what are you waiting for? Let’s get to cleaning!

     

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    https://www.housebeautiful.com/uk/lifestyle/cleaning/a2523/house-cleaning-autumn-season/

    https://www.healthline.com/health-news/5-health-benefits-of-spring-cleaning

    https://katiecrenshaw.com/clean-home-clear-head-how-a-clean-space-affects-our-mental-health/

    https://www.brandondempsey.com/importance-cleaning-mental-physical-spaces/

    https://tmsneuroinstitute.com/a-spring-cleaning-list-for-your-mental-health/

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