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  • Nick & Grant Q&A

    Nick & Grant Q&A

    How did you two meet?

    We met a little over 5 years ago on Instagram. After 2 weeks of talking, I asked Grant to fly out to Santa Barbara, where I was going to school at the time. We ended up splitting a plane ticket and he flew out the very next week. From the moment we first met at the airport, we knew we had something special. Grant was relieved that I was as tall as I said I was and I thought Grant was even more handsome than his photos could have ever shown.

    What’s the most memorable date you’ve ever had?  Why was it so special?

    Our most memorable date was our first. We went to a sushi restaurant in Santa Barbara, and unknown to me at the time, this was Grant’s first time eating sushi even though he said he did. He ended up taking the large chunk of wasabi sitting on his plate and said, “I love avocado”! I, of course, thought he was kidding, but he ate the entire thing and tried not to let me notice how uncomfortable he actually was. We still laugh about that moment today. After dinner, we enjoyed an early evening walk down State Street and ended our night with cake at a little Danish bakery, which was important to me because I am Danish. This date was perfect and our most memorable.

    When did you know that you wanted to get married? 

    We knew we were getting married probably about six months into our relationship. Grant started hinting at getting married about a year and then I finally popped the question after about 2 years.

    Tell us more about your proposal! 

     I ended up proposing to Grant in Central Park in New York. The night before, we ended up staying at the Ritz Carlton in Central Park. Grant was blown away and he thought it was my Christmas gift to him. The very next morning, his family flew into New York and it was perfect time to propose. We were checking out of the hotel and he did not suspect a thing. We walked into Central Park to get some photos with his family, and while he was turned around, I got on one knee, in front of the bridge in the Home Alone 2 scene, and asked him to marry me.

    Where was your wedding? 

     We ended up getting married at the Four Seasons in Orlando Florida. This was the perfect place for our family in Florida and also for our guests out of town to come visit for the wedding, but also make a vacation out of their trip.

    What was the most fun part of planning your wedding?

     The most fun part about planning our wedding was picking the venue. We ended up getting married at the Four Seasons Orlando. The entire process from picking the space to trying out the food was definitely our favorite part of planning.

    What is your favorite wedding memory?

    Our favorite wedding memory was a moment shared at the reception. All of the music seemed to go away completely and we looked over at everyone eating their dinner and began to realize how perfect the night was. This moment was very special to the both of us because it was a way to recognize all of the hard work we put into the wedding but also a time to realize how much we loved each other and that this was the beginning to the rest of our lives together.

    What does your current name mean to you? Or what did your birth name (name at birth) mean to you?  

    Our birth names mean a lot to us, however, they do not define who we are individually or as a couple. We are still able to carry on traditions from both families while we begin to create our own.

    Are you both changing your name? If not, how did you decide who would change their name?

    Only one of us is changing their name. The way this came about was actually very simple and funny at the same time. A week into dating, I told Grant he had to switch his name if you ever plan on getting married to me and he said yes. Some people say that is unfair or demanding, but it was very important to me and Grant knew that.

    What does changing your name mean to you?

     Changing our names means the world to both of us. We plan on having kids someday and want to share the same name with our entire family. This way, we can grow as a family by having the same last names as our kids, and their kids in the future. 

  • When Is the Best Time to Take Your Honeymoon

    When Is the Best Time to Take Your Honeymoon

    (Plus the Details on Having a Mini-Moon!)

    For those of you wondering, the answer is no, a honeymoon and a mini-moon are not the same things. Both are great and have their pros and cons but share a slight difference. By definition, a honeymoon is a long break taken in a faraway place which is most likely on the list of dream destinations. A mini-moon is made closer to home, consists of less vacation time, and probably won’t cost you half the price of your traditional honeymoon. 

    More people are opting for mini-moons for various reasons, and I can’t blame them! After spending thousands of dollars on a wedding, the last thing I need is to spend more money on places like Aruba or the Caribbeans. Would it be ideal? Of course, but I prefer to save my money for more reasonable things…like a two million dollar beach house.

     

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    Kidding. But seriously, the amazing thing about mini-moons is that you still have the chance to decompress after the wedding. Being closer to home just means you’re familiar with the terrain, it’s inexpensive, and you can bring your dog along! Plus, if you’re a workaholic like me, you’re closer to work in case something urgent pops up (don’t judge me). 

    This little mini-vacation doesn’t have to be boring! You can still visit somewhere exciting, depending on where you live. For example, someone who lives in a small town in California can head to San Francisco or book a hotel at Disneyland! Every state has it’s “Eiffel Tower,” somewhere everybody wants to visit. 

    Granted, this isn’t the vacation you’ve been dreaming of since you were twelve, but it will give you a chance to save up and plan for the future. 

    With that being said, let’s talk about the best time for you and your partner to take that honeymoon you’ve been anticipating. 

     

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    By now, you probably already know that when it comes to planning a honeymoon, three things need to be on your side: timing, weather, and a budget. You also probably already know it’s going to be tough to have all three. So listen closely…

    Budget

    You’ve just spent thousands of dollars on a wedding that took months (maybe even years) to plan and now, it’s over. A honeymoon requires its very own budget for plane tickets, hotels, fare, food, souvenirs, and $25 for a spiked coconut drink that I am still very outraged about till this day. 

    Don’t worry; there are ways to save. Scott’s Cheap Flights allows you to receive notifications anytime tickets become more affordable, and can help you save “up to 90% on international flights”. That’s a lavish deal and a ton of savings! 

     

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    When it comes to booking a hotel, keep in mind shoulder season. According to Insider, “Both flights and hotels are often discounted during the fall because fewer people are traveling during that time…so in addition to saving money, you’re also likely going to avoid crowds and long lines in typically tourist-filled cities if you travel in the fall.”

    Weather 

    Do not rely on the internet for accurate weather forecasts. I will repeat it because I have been a victim of the buffoonery. 

     

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    Do not rely on the internet for accurate weather forecasts. 

    You are better off calling the location of which you are planning to visit and get an answer from them. Whether it’s Aruba or the African Savanna, weather plays a huge role and maybe the difference between an exceptional or regretful honeymoon. 

    Timing 

    Visionary and author Stefan Emunds once said: “Time is an illusion; timing is an art.” 

    Timing is everything. Nobody wants to schedule a honeymoon on the busiest months of the year. You get to the airport, its flooded with people and delayed flights and crying kids and cranky people and the worst part of all…the TSA. You finally get to your destination, wherever it is, and it is overly crowded, and you don’t get the chance to enjoy your stay the way you envisioned. 

     

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    All I’m saying is be cautious of your planning because this is your honeymoon. It’s meant to be a memorable stay, so set aside some time to figure out what works best for you and your partner!

    Best of luck!

     

  • Wedding Vendors That Are Worth Going the Extra Mile for

    Wedding Vendors That Are Worth Going the Extra Mile for

    Your wedding day is the most exclusive, most anticipated day of your life. Or at least, I hope it is. Other people may not, but you will always remember this day to the last detail. That is if the circumstances are worth remembering, of course. 

    While your typical American wedding consists of the usual vendors, revenues, and traditions, why not make it a day to cherish for all your wonderful guests as well? Nothing too outrageous, I promise, but a little something that has people wondering, “Why didn’t I think of that?” 

    Here a few ideas worth having on your special day to win your audience over and leave a lasting impression. 

    Ice Cream TRUCK

    Of course, something edible is going to make the top of this list, because people are always hungry. If they say they aren’t, they are lying. What says thank you for coming more than ice cream? No, no scratch that, what says I love every one of you individually more than ice cream? You’d think it’s not that serious, but when was the last time you went to a wedding, and they had an ice cream stall or truck? 

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    Answer: never.

    This is an excellent idea to implement if you’re hosting a summer wedding and if children are going to be in attendance. Contraband Events works internationally and offers two designs for hire: A 1930s Art Deco or 1960s Yellow Psychedelic. Their award-winning flavors are the missing piece to your guest’s fantastic stay. 

    Sparklers

    While I did believe fireworks should make #2, it suddenly dawned on me, “what’s something sensational that can involve my guest without any of the hard work?” 

    Sparklers are a pleasant way to make your guests feel like they’re a part of something bigger. You can set a box of sparklers on each table with a note asking the guests to participate in due time. It could be when you’re walking the aisle, or your first dance as a married person, or any moment you feel like sparks should fly! 

     

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    You can purchase customized wedding sparklers on amazon without hurting your budget. Please use caution if children are present!

    Photo Booth 

    Do you have a theme for your wedding? Or is your plan to be as traditional as possible? 

    Either way, a photo booth is a must. It could be set when guests first walk in, or after dinner. I believe there are more pros than cons regarding a photo booth. Your friends and family will have the chance to surprise you with photos, especially if props are available. Because we all know how busy the bride and groom are, and as much as you want to see all your loved ones, time will simply not allow it. 

     

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    It’s important to consider that a photo booth might take up too much attention from the reception, so have a schedule set with the vendor, so people don’t get distracted. If you’re looking to hire an affordable photo booth, click here. 

    Jazz Band 

    Ok, but why Jazz? Because of Ray Charles, Quincy Jones, The Duke, and Ella Fitzgerald. I could go on and on…and on. The legends that have made this sweet, sweet music that you can’t help but move and swing your body to all night. Even if you’re not a fan of Jazz, you have to admit; it’s musical powers grips onto you tighter than spandex. 

     

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    No, you do not have to go with jazz; everything, in the end, is a preference. I’m merely showing you one path that will lead to exhausted and ecstatic dancers. It’s tough to find a great jazz band, but not impossible. 

    Jazz Bands for Hire is a great place to start looking. 

    Comedian 

    Whatever type of entertainment you had in mind, abandon it. Ok, not entirely, but if you’re not thinking of hiring a comedian to make you laugh your ass off, then what are you doing? Weddings are tear-jerker events, damn it, and people want to laugh. 

     

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    You could set 30 minutes for a comedian to come in after you’ve made your marriage official,  your father-daughter dance, before dinner, or any time you have to spare. 

    Comedians can drastically change the wedding atmosphere into fun, casual, and friendly. Just make sure to review the comedian’s skit if you’re looking to hire. It’s improbable that a comedian won’t have some crude humor, so make sure everyone is old enough to be there! The last thing you want on your wedding day are the judgemental eyes of several parents who brought their kids along. 

    Trust me; I’ve been there. 

     

  • Procedures of Real ID

    Procedures of Real ID

    If you have not yet heard from your local news channel or read about it somewhere on social media, you now officially have one year to obtain a Real ID from your home state. If this is your first time hearing of Real ID and you have no idea what we’re talking about, don’t panic. 

    To put it as plainly as possible,  a Real ID is your driver’s license or identification card with one little tweak: a star in the top right. It’s the federal government’s way of verifying that you are you. 

    Before we dive into what Real ID is and how it works, let’s brush up on our history, shall we? 

    The Real ID act dates back to 2005 and was implemented by President George Bush following the 9/11 terrorist attacks. The idea was to alleviate fraud, protect people’s real identity, and increase national security. By February 2017, 25 states and D.C. adhered to the Real ID procedure, and the government granted the extensions of the remaining states to change their I.D. practices.

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    By October 2020, all states must be Real ID compliant. When applying; you must provide your full legal name, SSN, birth certificate, and documents proving your residency ( bills, bank statements, etc.). So yes, it will be a little more complicated than just renewing your driver’s license. For this particular method, more documents are needed to verify your identity. 

    The Real ID allows you to board commercial flights and enter federal buildings. According to the Department of Homeland Security website, if an air traveler does not possess a Real ID by October 2020, they will need another form of identification, like a passport. 

     Now, I know what you’re thinking. Is it mandatory? Personally, if I’m going to waste hours of my day on something, it sure as heck won’t be the DMV. To answer your question, no, it is not mandatory. The picture below will give you a better idea on whether you should apply for a Real ID or not. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     Of course, any ID you have on hand will do, but if you’re a constant traveler, then Real ID is recommended. According to the DMV, if you choose to stick with your current identification, the phrase “Federal Limits Apply” will be written on your card. That way, if you are traveling within the U.S., that card will hold no use and cannot be considered a legitimate I.D. by the federal government. In other words, the TSA will be trained to not accept any other form of ID, and complications will arise, which will lead to delayed flights and holding.  

     

     

                                                               

     

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    If you’re wondering what the difference is between your current I.D. and Real ID, it’s the little star that will be printed out on your card. According to Real ID expert Alexis Campbell, all the star does is “verify that this person is who they say there are.” Keep in mind that your state government is responsible for your old forms of I.D. Think of the star as a federally approved stamp.  

    What else makes this procedure different? Public informant Charlie Moore states that “the real I.D. compliant credentials don’t ever require fingerprinting,” while other I.D.s do. When the Real ID Act goes into effect in October 2020, the need for fingerprints will be gone completely. 

    If you have any questions that have not been answered in this article, please visit your local DMV website to find out what your state requires for this procedure. 

     

  • Best Ways to Celebrate a Birthday as You Get Older 

    Best Ways to Celebrate a Birthday as You Get Older 

    Remember when you were a kid, and birthdays were something you always looked forward to? Why not, considering the cake, presents and all your friends from school would show up. Plus, there was always a pinata full of Snickers and Twix bars. 

    I remember being excited about birthdays until I became a teenager because after that, I just wanted to go out with friends and get away from my parents as much as possible. Yes, I regret it, and I know I’m not the only one. My early twenties consisted of college parties and birthdays were spent in bars getting wasted with friends and crashing at someone’s house. 

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    Oh, how times have changed. It’s incredible what a serious relationship and a baby can do to a person’s life because after the age of 23, I started to take shit seriously. It’s true; you’re not getting any younger, so if there’s a perfect time to re-examine your health status, your goals, and your future, it is now.

     Hey, that doesn’t mean we can forget about our birthdays entirely. We can still have a grand time with friends and family, but with less drinking… because hangovers nowadays feel like I’ve been running into a brick wall repeatedly and on purpose.  

    Here are some ideas to help you celebrate your special day.

    Treat Yourself to a Spa Weekend/Hunting Trip 

    I have a little girl who is not only super hyper but loathes naps with every fiber of her being. Those rare moments she does decide to go down for an hour, you better believe I’m going down with her. 

    So if you’re like me and a one hour nap excites you, then why not extend a nap to a whole frikin’ weekend? I’m talking manis, pedis, mud baths, full body massage, peel off masks, and a little pool filled with chamomile milk ready for my tired soul and me to dip in. 

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    While you can invite a few friends to join you, contemplate going alone on your birthday so you can reap the full benefits of the relaxation process. You can see your friends any other weekend of the year. I once sought to take my husband for his birthday, but he’s not the relaxing type, so instead, he headed to a shooting range to celebrate. 

    Which is great! Some men have their own way of celebrating, and shooting ranges, cigar bars, and hunting trips are just a few of them. 

    Have Dessert for Every Meal of the Day 

    What do you want breakfast? Not two sunny side up eggs on avocado toast, that’s for damn sure. It’s party time; I’ll have my cake and eat it too! See what I did there? 

    For lunch, I’m having two slices of Reese’s cheesecake, and for dinner, I will be having a lava cake the size of my face because it’s my birthday and I can. I get this one day a year! 

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    The other 364 days, I’m striving to eat healthily and workout as much as possible because hello, I am aging horribly. Not going to lie, I’m not where I want to be body-wise. So if you see me with a mouth full of carrot cake with icing smeared at the corner of my lips,  chin, and the tip of my nose, please leave me alone. Just because we’re getting older does not mean we shouldn’t give our inner two-years-old a chance to come out every now and then. 

    Go on a Shopping Spree (No Holding Back)

    In the words of Ariana Grande, “I want it, I got it.” And indeed you should get it. Today, at least. 

    Now, I’m not saying you should go out there and spend two grand on a new wardrobe. No holding back means if you’ve had your eye on something and you’ve wanted it for a while, this is the day to treat yo self. Whether it’s a new dress, running shoes, the latest headphones, or a pricey bag you can’t stop thinking about! Treat yo self. 

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    Keep in mind how hard you’ve been working this past year, you deserve to brighten up your own day! We don’t receive presents like we used to, so get out that Amex card and get to receiving.

    Fancy Dinner with Your BFF

    These days, it seems like everyone you used to party with is now either your co-workers or live halfway across the world. People move on when the post-adolescence stage is over, and it’s time to grow up. 

    Birthday dinners are amazing when it’s just you and someone you’re very close to. It could be your partner, your friends, and even your parents. I used to take my partner to Outback Steakhouse for my birthday dinners, but now, I enjoy it better alone. 

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    As time passes, you realize you need time alone and time away from people to recharge, and that includes your loved ones. So whether it’s a fancy dinner at a five-star restaurant or a homemade dinner, make sure you end your birthday with a delicious meal. 

    Netflix, Wine, and Take-out

    That’s it. That’s literally it. 

    Turn on Netflix, pop open a bottle of wine, and order takeout. For some people, this is an average day, but for others such as myself, this is a miracle. It always feels like you’re never done with housework, schoolwork, or regular work that something as simple as this is the perfect way to celebrate. 

    Hell, if you want, hang up some streamers and put on your party hat. Celebrate how you’re another year closer to your goals, how you’re more experienced, how proud you are of yourself for not losing your shit despite everything that has happened this past year. Celebrate you alone. 

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    I’ve always hated those arrows people hang in their homes with the words “Live, Love, Laugh,” and I still do, but what better advice than to genuinely live, love, laugh, and enjoy another year learning and growing. 

     

  • Fun Recipes to Cook with Your Significant Other

    Fun Recipes to Cook with Your Significant Other

    In the twenty-six years that I have been alive on this planet; I can safely say that food is the number one thing that delivers joy to people like nothing else. It’s a known fact, but really, it does more than that. It sparks a few joyful memories, childhood memories, sad memories, and sometimes even bitter memories.

    You get my point. No matter what culture you come from, everyone has a unique way of bonding over food. It’s fun, time-worthy, and if you know what you’re doing in the kitchen, people will ultimately fall head over heels in love with you.

    We’re nearing 2020, so trust me when I tell you that the way to anyone’s heart is through their stomach. So what are you waiting for? Get hold of your soulmate and get ready to feel the heat!

    New York Strip Steak with Sweet Potato Fries

    When we think romantic dinners, our minds tend to stray to candlelit steak dinners. Social media has succeeded in conditioning our mind to think that, at least.

    Let’s be honest here; just thinking of a steak dinner for only the two of you is sexy as hell. While some people go to extremes when preparing steak, I can tell you now that a sprinkle of sea salt and freshly cracked pepper will do the trick. Years of watching Gordon Ramsay yell at other chefs for being incompetent; I’ve become somewhat of an expert.

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    While you can go for regular potato fries, there’s something about sweet potato fries that complements the taste buds. For sides, try something light like an arugula salad or grilled veggies. Wine, of course, is a must.

    Steak dinners are inexpensive, require little seasoning, and are thoroughly delicious. What’s more tender than a romantic dinner you’ve cooked up together? To learn how to cook the perfect steak, click here.

    Spaghetti & Meatballs

    How did I jump from steak dinners to something as juvenile as spaghetti? Steak dinners were pre and post marriage, and spaghetti dinners were post-babies. Yup.

    But still, have you seen Lady and the Tramp? Spaghetti should be the original steak dinners. Because spaghetti requires numerous steps, it’s perfect to have your partner to help you out. While placing the pasta in hot water is manageable, the sauce is what makes it perfect.

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    Lucky for you, after several attempts of different sauces (and countless, useless hours scrolling through Pinterest), I have the perfect one. You can choose to mold the ground beef into meatballs or leave it as is with the sauce. Because both my kids are under the age of three, I leave it as is. Or because I’m too lazy to shape them.

    So whether your home is a kids-free zone or not, cooking up some spaghetti is a great way to spend the afternoon and reminisce about old times.

    Stuffed Chicken with Jasmine Rice

    One of my personal favorites! A recipe that was passed down from my grandma to my mother and from my mother to moi.

    This is a weekly dish in my home because it is easy, delicious, and my husband always lends a hand. It’s our special dish that we enjoy cooking together. When you google stuffed chicken, the results are endless, the ingredient list is too long, and sometimes too fancy.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    Well, fear not, because fancy has no place in my home! All you’ll need is a large chicken and a quarter cup of Calrose rice. We season the rice with salt, pepper, and wait for it, two pinches of cinnamon. I preferably add a diced onion and cut up the liver that comes with the chicken and add it to the mix. Proceed to stuff the chicken, sew it up, and place it in a preheated oven.

    Sea salt and freshly cracked pepper have always been my go-to for chicken seasoning. We prefer a side of Jasmine rice with our chicken, but a house salad is a great choice as well, considering it’s already stuffed with rice.

    Pizza

    Did someone say pizza party?

    Yes, it was me, ready to eat two whole pizzas, if necessary. The one who doubts me will be made a fool. When it comes to making pizza, be distinctive.

     

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    Add gouda or ricotta with your mozzarella, choose anchovies as a topping, learn how to make the stuffed crust! If pizza isn’t your thing (impossible), then consider making calzones.

    They’re literally pizza burritos.

    Homemade Tacos with Pico De Gallo

    Yes, I saved the easiest and most fun for last. First order of business: head over to your nearest Ralph’s and purchase some taco seasoning.

    The joy in making tacos genuinely comes from putting together your taco. I admit, my tacos always end up being a sort of burrito, but I take comfort in knowing I am not alone. Prepping for tacos is excellent because all you’re doing is dicing tomatoes, cutting up lettuce, and slicing jalapenos while shooting up a conversation with your partner.

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    In our home, we make a tahini sour cream dressing that is out of this world, and we add pomegranate (yes, pomegranate) arils to our tacos. Simple, quick, and always leaves you craving more.

    For the perfect pico de gallo recipe, click here.

    No matter what recipes you come up with, you should know that the quality time you spend with your loved one is all that matters. If the whole point is to be around them, even PB&J sandwiches will do! If this list has taught me one thing, it’s that I should seriously consider starting a food blog. Happy eating!

  • What You’ll Need for the Ultimate Labor Day Weekend 

    What You’ll Need for the Ultimate Labor Day Weekend 

    With Labor Day weekend fast approaching, it is time for us to bid summer a bittersweet farewell. While the holiday doesn’t officially mark the end of this scorching summer, it appears like it’s our last chance to fire up the grill, plan one final road trip, and drive our kids to the beach before school starts (finally!). 

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    Personally, Labor Day weekend has always been one of my favorite holidays to celebrate because it gives me a chance to reunite with friends and family. With that said, here are some little known facts about the tasty weekend, according to HydroWorx:

    • What are we celebrating? The contributions and achievements of the 155 million men and women who are in the U.S. workforce.
    • Oregon was the first to declare Labor Day an official holiday in 1887.
    • Labor Day is considered the ‘unofficial NFL season kickoff.’ 99.44 percent of the time, the NFL plays its first official season game Thursday after Labor Day.
    • It is always on the first Monday in September. 

    You really do learn something new everyday. If you’re unsure on how to spend this 3-day weekend, we’ve got you covered. 

    Backyard BBQ

    The necessities: grill, meats, veggies, family & friends

    What better way to say ‘sayonara summer’ than hosting a barbeque? Besides, this may be the last time you use your grill this year, so let’s make it count. Whatever you do, please don’t be dull with your food choices; you go big, or you go home. Outback said it best. 

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    So while burgers and hotdogs are the traditional go-to’s, do your guests a favor and slap on some ribs, chicken thighs, eggplants (they’re delicious, don’t judge), and most importantly, corn on the cob. Also, don’t forget the side dishes!

    Watch the Labor Day Parade

    No matter where you are in the country, there is no doubt a parade boasting red, white, and blue colors somewhere around you. You can find events on your city’s website. If not, then you can google on where to find the nearest parade and head on over there. 

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    This is an excellent activity if you have kids since there’s little to no planning when it comes to the event. The music, the colors, the crowds, and the great food afterward reminds you of the diversity that makes this country great. 

    Take a hike

    The necessities: hiking equipment, snacks, partner

    Wake up and smell the roses. Literally. 

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    If you wish to get away from the business and loudness that is Labor Day weekend, then what’s more zen than trekking through nature with one or few of your closest friends? You get the chance to embrace the wildlife, take advantage of the beautiful weather, gulp down fresh spring water, and might end up at a waterfall for a swim before camping out underneath the stars. 

    Go shopping

    The necessities: nearest mall, money (obviously)

    Like all our favorite American holidays, this one, too, comes with a great, grand sale. So if you’re an impulsive shopper like so many of us out there, then it’s time to make some savings, girl! You might even find something you’ve had your eye on, but couldn’t afford before! If Labor Day is not about the food, then trust me, it’s about the outrageous sales. 

    Visit a Winery

    The necessities: your love for fine drinking

    Why visit a winery this weekend of all weekends? Because you can. 

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    There is no wrong time when you can go on a wine tour and drink tasty wine and then purchase three bottles that cost you a month’s paycheck. C’mon, I know I’m not the only one guilty of this…right? You can grab your partner or even your mother and take a 2-hour tour that will educate you on the fermentation process of wine and give you tasty samples! 

    Spend the weekend at the beach

    The necessities: a tent, blankets, swimwear 

    Malibu Beach, 2016, Labor Day weekend. Best possible weekend of my life. 

    Here’s the thing, if you are at a getaway with your most beloved, then memories you create will not fade. The beach has always been my getaway for absolutely everything, for every mood, and every event. 

     

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    When you’re diving in under every wave that comes at you, it reminds you no problem is ever too big. You will likely find tons of people out on the shore on this particular weekend, so you’ll have lots of people to celebrate with. The water at night and the night sky is just a bonus.

    Road trip

    The necessities: a car, GPS, good music, a plan, closest friend

    How to plan a road trip: you do it spontaneously. You avoid major cities that will be overcrowded unless that’s your goal. Count this activity as an adventurous one where you will not only have the time of your life, but you will experience the holiday with strange faces, new foods, and great times in a new city. 

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    You’ll have the chance to meet new people and cross a few things off your bucket list. 

    Happy Labor Day!

     

     

  • Tips on How to Keep Your Guests Comfortable at a Wedding

    Tips on How to Keep Your Guests Comfortable at a Wedding

    It seems like your whole wedding planning experience is focused on the dress, the cake, the reception, the food. It’s your special day so who else should you be focused on more than you? Sometimes, weddings are a once in a lifetime experience for us, so attempting to make it the best possible event is understandable. While only thinking of yourself is your God-given right on this particular day, there are some thoughts you need to leave room for. How are you going to make your close friends and loved ones more comfortable at your party?

    You can play both the beautiful bride and gracious host! Here are a few tips on how to make comfort priority at your reception. 

    Comfortable Seating

    How many times have you been to a wedding and had to sit for hours on an uncomfortable wooden chair until your ass got numb? 

    Please don’t be shy to admit it, because we’ve all been there. Safe to say, wedding chairs provided by the venue or family are not always the most comfortable. 

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    Hey, I get it, you’re looking to save as much coin as possible, and chairs are the last to cross your mind when it comes to comfort! Plus, you expect people to be more on their feet than their butts, so there’s not much to think about. Cushion pads such as these are a great way to add a tiny bit more comfort to your guests behind, and most are affordable so you hopefully won’t be breaking the bank. 

    Sandals /flip flops/socks

    If you like to throw your hands in the air and wave them like you just don’t care, then keep them up. 

    I’m just going to go right out and say it; if you go to a wedding and don’t get jiggy with it, then what are you doing there? If you’ve downed a drink or two and still haven’t found your way to the dancefloor, then you need to reassess critical parts of your life. 

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    Now, I’ve learned from past mistakes and now only show up to events wearing flats, or any other shoes that feel like Tempurpedic for my feet. You can find flip flops as low as 3 dollars and socks in bulk for an incredible price on amazon! If you’re a woman and you know the pain of dancing in heels, then providing your female (or male) guests with wearable footwear is an excellent idea!

    Toiletries in the bathrooms

    Storytime: when I first became a mother, I had to ditch my Michael Kors bag to a diaper bag. 

    Best. Decision. Ever. I could fit Narnia in that frikin’ diaper bag, but Michael Kors? A cell phone, car keys, wallet, and deodorant stick was the limit. 

    But I can’t bring a diaper bag to a wedding…or can I? Nope, I can’t. 

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    Aside from the bathrooms being clean and posh, placing baskets full of toiletries for both men and women is a lifesaver. It’s a wedding! Your guests are going to be dancing, laughing, and yes, sweating. Deodorant, sample perfumes, pads/tampons, combs, mouthwash, lotion, and body powder are just some idea of what could help ease your guest’s mind! 

    Easy access to entrances 

    I cannot stress this enough! Please keep in mind any of your handicapped and/or elderly guests. 

    When selecting a venue, make sure there ramps, elevators, and not too many stairs! The entry to your venue should be easily accessible, like the bathrooms, and other room you’re using for your celebration. 

    I once had a friend host her wedding on one floor, and dinner on the second floor. While most of the staff was there to help, why make it so difficult from the very beginning? With that said, please remind yourself to remember those of us who have a difficult time with such things. They may not thank you in person, but trust me, they are eternally grateful to be considered. 

    Weather appropriate accessories 

    Summer weddings are all the hype. With that said, know what to provide your guests with at every table. Items such as sunscreen, sunglasses, bug spray, shade, and fans are a must in this summer heat.

    You should be willing to provide these simple items if your loved ones are coming out to celebrate, say, in the middle of July. 

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    Winter weddings don’t demand as much, but the weather can be very unpredictable. Providing simple favors such as blankets and umbrellas is an excellent way of thanking your guests and showing them you care. 

    Taxis on wait for tired/intoxicated guests 

    Not much to be said here. 

    Someone is bound to have one too many drinks and will need help when driving home. If they live far, make arrangements with the nearest hotels to let them know that guests may be coming to spend the night, and you are responsible for them. Their safety should be your priority. 

    Most importantly, food. 

    One, I don’t care what you serve and two, just make there’s enough to go around, ok? 

    No little salmon fillet with creamy lemon dill sauce that I can finish down in two bites, I beg you. I don’t have time to stop at the nearest Del Taco on my way home. Maybe you won’t hear it from anyone else, so here it is: I’ve been busy all day trying to figure out what to wear and what color eyeliner I should apply to bring out my brown eyes, that I forgot to eat. 

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    Yes, I know it’s your wedding, but that doesn’t mean I can’t look my best. Now that the truth has been set free…do your guests a favor and provide them with enough food. That’s all we ask. 

     

  • Top 5 Things Worth Embroidering Your New Name on 

    Top 5 Things Worth Embroidering Your New Name on 

    Alright, I know what you’re thinking, and yes, I was thinking about it, too. 

    Do people still embroider anything these days? The answer to that question, my friend, is yes, they still do. 

    Why? Because embroidery has been and still is one of the unique methods of designs when it comes to apparel decorating. People see an embroidered item and immediately think it’s exclusive, it required steady work and consists of high quality. The art of embroidery is no small task, and if you’re looking to learn, then you can. But if time is not on your side yet you want a specific item embroidered; then some companies will do the embroidery for you! 

    Honestly, with the advancement of technology, it feels like you can accomplish anything with the push of a button.

    Anyways, moving on. If you’re newly married and want to see your new name embroidered everywhere, we got you. There are tons of options, but just so we don’t spiral out of control, here are our top five. 

    Apron 

    For someone who isn’t that big of a fan of the kitchen, I sure spend a generous amount of paycheck on it. Like Mario Batali said, “The kitchen really is the castle itself.” 

    If you or your partner are cooks, bakers, YouTubers, or the chefs of the family, then the reasons to get your last name embroidered on an apron just shot up. Just think about it. You waltz into that kitchen with your partner; you find the apron with your new name on it, you wear it knowing you’re about to cook up something that will set your partner’s taste buds on fire. It’s an accomplishment in and of itself! 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    If you think I’m over exaggerating, you’re probably right. Years of watching MasterChef, I now genuinely believe the kitchen is more of a warzone than another room in the house. 

    Anyhow,  if you’re looking to embroider an apron for you and your partner and want the absolute best quality and your own design, then head on over hear to Embroidable Linens. 

    T-shirt 

    A t-shirt, a sweater, tank top, or crop top; anything you can wear can be embroidered. 

    Of course, that doesn’t mean it should be. But hey, if you want to get crazy, then get crazy because we only live once, after all. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    When placing your first or last name on a T-shirt, you want to keep it simple and tiny. For example, if there’s a small pocket on your shirt, you would place your name there. If it has a collar, then you would embroider the name there. The choices are endless when it comes to garments because of the large amount of space provided. You can choose the hemline, the neckline, the back of the shirt, the middle front, and even sideways. It’s how you wish to be creative at that point. You can even get matching shirts for you and your partner to celebrate your new identity. Time for selfies!

    Towel & Robes

    You’ve heard of Mrs. and Mr., His and Hers, Bride and Groom. 

    Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you (drumroll, please)… Harry and Sally!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Monogram Shop

    It’s not those specifically, but you get my point. C’mon, what screams “newlyweds” more than towels & robes? 

    When you think of towels and robes, you think of hot showers, cleanliness, cuddling, and the end of a long day with your partner-in-crime. Embroidered towels and robes are a great vision for you and a great addition to your home. It may seem like towels have little meaning, but a ton of memories can be made from just sitting wrapped in a towel. If you know, then you know…

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    The Mr. and Mrs. robes are just the cutest and best way to hang out in your honeymoon suite and relax with your new husband or wife.

    Baseball cap 

    When I was a kid, I found a cap with my name embroidered on it. I was twelve at the time, so it was a pretty big deal. Growing up, you’re not going to find your name on the back of caps that often, so you keep the memory alive by embroidering your own. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    See, that’s what I did because 1) I grew up in Southern California and the sun never disappeared and 2) I looked really good in them. Also, a bad hair day was every other day for me, so let’s add that to the list. 

    Caps are great if you and your partner are planning a getaway. Adding your new last name to a cap is another cute reminder of who you are now. People will automatically know you’re newlyweds!

    Pillowcases  

    It’s time to take pillow talk to a whole nother level. While you can just get your last name embroidered on a pillow, you can add a few words to make it more special. Some examples are: “Yours Forever”, “Be Mine”, “The New Mrs.”. Keep in mind that the bedroom is the most important room for a married couple, so why not make it memorable?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    If you’re looking to learn embroidery, click here. 

     

  • Outdoor Activities To Check Off Your Summer Bucket List

    Outdoor Activities To Check Off Your Summer Bucket List

    Summer is great. The kids are out of school, the weather is hotter, there seems like there’s nothing to do yet for some reason, your to-do list keeps growing longer and the day seems never to end. 

    Unfortunately, nowadays, the majority of people would rather spend their days inside with the air conditioning blasting on high. If you’re not a parent, you might have your own plans on how to spend your summer days, and that’s ok, but for those of us with children…

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    Let’s just say it’s not the most spontaneous thing watching your kids spend the whole day watching TV and playing video games till their minds grow numb. 

    No matter how busy you are (parent or not), here are just a few activities to help you kick off the summer and keep you hustling.

    Go on a hike

    Why not, right? The weather is perfect for this particular activity, and your friends have been begging you to spare a day and join them on some new trail they discovered! 

    Fortunately, this is a beautiful family activity, as well. 

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    Even if you’re a fitness enthusiast, nature will always have the upper hand when it comes to getting a workout in. The best part (for me at least), you can include your dog. Not only that, but hiking requires little to no equipment! It’s an excellent experience for the little ones, the sights you’ll see are remarkable, and getting to be all around that greenery and fresh air is stimulating and very rejuvenating! 

    Set up a camping trip

    I remember as a child; I never had to think about planning a camping trip, because hello, ‘that’s what mom was for. 

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    But now, being a mom myself, I had to learn how to do all that myself. 

    First, acknowledge that camping is possibly the best thing in the whole world. You get away from whatever life ‘you’ve got going on; you get to spend quality time with your family and friends, you uncover new things such as fishing, setting up a tent, and even building a fire. If that’s not enough, you will also get your daily dose of Vitamin D, peace of mind, the sounds of nature, and of course, the second-best possible thing in the world…S’mores. 

    For more information on setting up your very own camping trip, click here.

    Spend the night at the beach

    By night, I do mean: get there in time to watch the sunset and the sky fill with orange, red, violet hues and gaze in awe at the jaw-dropping beauty that is our planet. 

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    If you thought meditation was good for the soul, try stargazing at a beach in the middle of the night. The sound of the waves coming and going, the crisp night air filling your lungs, and the smell of the ocean decluttering your mind. This is one of those spurs of the moment plans. You can bring a sleeping bag or set up a tent, and that’s it! 

    Visit an Amusement Park

    Growing up in SoCal, this was our thing. Our family would at least hit three amusement parks a week. Despite long lines and the expensive food (we eventually started sneaking in our own), the atmosphere encompassing an amusement park makes you feel giddy all over. If rides aren’t your thing, then that’s fine. You can still join in on the fun because now, several parks offer entertainment, plays/shows, and tours. 

     

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    If it’s too hot for roller coaster rides, then find the nearest water park in your area. Whether you’re going with friends, family, or by yourself, it’s a smart and exhilarating way to cool down.

    Build your very own waterpark

    Yes, you read that right, you can build a waterpark right in your backyard. If you’re looking to save money, invent something new, and be in the comfort of your own home, then this is the activity for you. The best part about this activity is that you can have your little helpers give you a hand so they can keep busy, as well. It’s all part of the fun experience before setting everything up and enjoying the ride. 

    If you need help getting started, click here.

    Learn something new

    I get it. School’s over, and we want to have fun only. I don’t mean to be that person-especially since it’s summer- but learning something new is fun. 

     

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    You don’t even have to sign up for a class or get up early or make it feel like a responsibility. Learning something new could be as simple as perfecting a recipe or as complicated as learning a new language. 

    Granted, you will not learn a new language in 3 months, but getting started is what counts.

    Seriously, it could be anything! Two summers ago, I learned how to rollerblade, and now I practice it religiously. My point being, you never know what your next addiction could be, so why not?

    For a list of fascinating and inspiring things to learn this summer, head on over here.