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  • Kaitlyn & Ahmed

    Kaitlyn & Ahmed

    How did you meet?

    On New Years Eve 2015 at my sister’s house. After a couple of drinks and chatting about how our grandmas went to the same school and got married in the same church (were both West Seattle natives) he got the nerve to ask me out on a date. I told him that if he remembers asking me out tomorrow that I would. Well…it only took some Instagram stalking and post liking on my end and 3 months later for us to finally go on that first date.

    First or favorite date?

    My favorite date was our 4th or 5th one. He took me to a Cuban restaurant in North Seattle called Mojitos. On the way back from that date he played the song Love by Musiq Soul Child and as crazy as this makes me sound….I knew right then and there he was the one and I was falling in love. I may have also thought he was subtly trying to tell me something by the song choice….Love…I mean come on what girl wouldn’t? Well maybe it’s just me but Mojitos became a special place…its where he proposed and who we had cater our wedding, the song he played that night, Love is the song we had our first dance too at our wedding (he didn’t know I picked that song until the day of the wedding when it began playing during our dance)

    How did he propose?

    After visiting a ring shop I accidentally left a ring I would wear there. So one day he said let’s go pick up your ring and grab lunch at Mojitos. Thinking it was like any other day we stopped and had lunch at Mojitos. We sat at the same table we had our favorite date (see above) which later I found out was not intentional. The entire room was filled with people and as the place began to empty he began acting super weird. I think I even got mad at him thinking he was getting ready to tell me something terrible or break up with me haha. All of a sudden he began to stand and move around the table towards me. I’m thinking….this guy is pulling a prank on me (wouldn’t be the first time) but then I saw the ring box…and even then I still wasn’t convinced. Once the box opened and I saw the ring and he said “ Kaitlyn Diane will you marry me? “ I realized it was actually happening. It was a complete outer body experience and he’s knelt there holding the ring out and I snapped back to reality and said like a fool “you’re supposed to put the ring on my finger” and he responded well you haven’t said yes yet….so of course while balling my eyes out I said Yes over and over again and there you go!

    When did you know they were the one?

    For me, it was that date after Mojitos in the car listening to that song. For him, it wasn’t a specific moment he says but several moments over time and about 6 months into our relationship we took a trip to Vashon Island and its when he told me he loved me for the very first time.

    Fun fact about the two of you?

    I am 5th generation West Seattle and he is 3rd and we grew up literally down the street from each other as children and never knew!

    Most difficult part of wedding planning process?

    Cutting down the guest list and getting him to cut down his groomsmen’s list lol…he started off with 16! I was able to get him down to 11…

    What’s your favorite memory from wedding day?

    It’s nearly impossible to pick just one…the entire day was everything we could have ever dreamed of. I think seeing him for the first time during our first look was one of my favorite moments. Waiting for him to turn around to see me for the first time I was beyond excited. I was grinning from ear to ear in so much anticipation. That and seeing the entire thing come together after 16 months of planning and styling the entire thing myself.  He said his favorite moment was seeing me for the first time during our first look as well!

    How did HitchSwitch make your post-wedding name change process easier?

    Dealing with planning a wedding which was all in the middle of dealing with the disaster of having a tree fall on our home and do extensive damage was super stressful, then getting back from 2 weeks of travel the last thing you want is another stressful experience. HitchSwitch took what is one of the most stressful things and made it so simple and stress-free. Having an entire checklist that was in the order of the proper process of switching my name was the best part! Without that I know I would have forgotten something or messed something up big time. Especially being a homeowner and having student loans etc knowing I won’t forget something was such a relief.

    Vendors:

    Photographer: @AlderPhotgraphy

    Venue: @GalvanizeSea

    Styling: Me @PineandWeave

    Catering: @Mojito.Seattle

    Dress: @BHLDN

    Suit: @Nordstrom @TopMan

  • Top 5 Places To See This Holiday Season

    Top 5 Places To See This Holiday Season

    Whether you’re planning on staying home for the holidays or wanting to escape to some exotic location, everything around us is a constant reminder that a new year is upon us. With the streets being decorated and everyone carrying a red cup filled with something cinnamon or pumpkin infused. Everyone is completely engrossed in preparing for the holidays or getting ready to book with an airline that’s offering a great deal.

    Whether you choose a warm Christmas, a cold Christmas, or even no Christmas, here are the places you need to see this holiday season.

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    Nuremberg, Germany

    What do CNN, Business Insider, and Forbes all have in common? They all agree that Nuremberg will not only warm your heart but create some of the best memories of your life. Known as Germany’s “Christmas City,” Nuremberg is infamous for its Christmas market, AKA Christkindlesmarkt (try saying that three times), that sets its stalls right in the middle of town.

    The people of this fantastic town come together and sell homemade ornaments, wooden figures, sweet gingerbread, and the delicious aroma of food and spices fill the night air. Holiday music, twinkling lights, and a possible snowfall that will make you feel like you’re in a fairy winter wonderland.

    New York, New York

    Does anyone else read “New York, New York” and immediately start singing the classic Frank Sinatra song?

    No? Is it just me?

    I find it so strange when I hear that people are trying to get out of the city when the holidays are just right around the corner. It’s the most wonderful time of the year after all and what’s more wonderful than Christmas in New York?

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    The Big Apple is filled with incredible historical landmarks that all get a makeover for the holidays. New York is known for its tree lighting ceremonies,  Triumph Hotels Holiday Window Walking Tour, botanical gardens, ice skating at Bryant Park, Central Park, and so much more.

    Many places around the world get a makeover for the holidays, but New York is one of those places that seems to capture the soul of Christmas.

    Vienna, Austria

    Pack up your gloves and fur boots because once you know that magic that is Vienna, you will want to add it to your bucket list of places to see. Vienna is quickly growing to be one of the most popular destinations for tourists in the holidays. Vienna holds their Christmas Market from mid-November till New Years.

    The market is held in Schonbrunn Palace and is one of the attractions you cannot miss.

    If you get sick of the cold, you can always go for a good craft beer as Vienna is known for its famous breweries. If beer’s not your thing, you can always visit the Imperial Butterfly House.

    Sounds fancy, right?

    All you gotta do is sit there, watch the butterflies, and enjoy your natural surroundings.

    Tromso, Norway

    Two words. Northern Lights.

    I feel like people from Norway have Norway on their list of places to see. There’s one thing you need to know about Norwegians, and that is that they love their Christmas holiday. On November 26th, the sun sets in Norway, and you will not see it again until January 21st.

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    Dead. Serious.

    This will not only give the city’s holiday makeover a chance to shine because it will be complete darkness (known as polar night).

    This sets the stage for the flickers of blue, pink, orange, and yellow light that will flicker across the night sky. It’s like the sunset but in a pitch black sky. The Northern Lights are one of Mother Nature’s most miraculous sights, and if you’re lucky, you might see them.

    Other than all the Christmas markets and mouthwatering food that will be held at the town’s square, there will also be a giant Christmas tree that will light up the city and people’s mood!

    There will be dancing, singing, and let’s face it, lots of drinking.

    Aruba

    Aruba?? Why’s it even on this list?

    Well, because unfortunately, not everyone likes the cold. Some people like sandy beaches, and warm weather, and suntan lotion. I was raised in California, so I kind of get it.

    Other than being known as one of the safest islands in the Caribbean, Aruba is also famous for its amazing sunny weather all year round. Their crystal blue waters are some of the most beautiful beaches in the world.

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    This little island is filled with rich culture, kind people, killer waves, and endless adventures. If that’s not enough to sell you, wait till you try their food! Because Aruba is so diverse, your taste buds will get a taste of Italy, Columbia, Dutch, and so much more.

    It’s always bikini season here! Nothing to do but tan up and live it up.

     

  • Jessica & Peter

    Jessica & Peter

    How did you meet?

    We met at work. Peter had actually accepted a new position while living in Minnesota to move to Boston, Massachusetts. We stayed in touch as friends and finally reconnected 2 years later when Peter was home for Christmas.

    First or favorite date?

    First (P): We went to an NBA game. (Jess hates the NBA, I didn’t know that) I picked her up and we went to dinner and the game…she must’ve been alright with the date because I got a smooch at the end!

    His Favorite (P): My favorite date was that we went to New Orleans Louisiana and had a great day walking on Bourbon Street, we went to the WWII Museum and then had an awesome dinner at Emeril’s!

    Her Favorite (J): It’s hard to pick a favorite date when you’re with a guy as romantic as Peter. One of my favorites was while we were living in Cali we went up to LA to see his buddy perform at the Laugh Factory. We got VIP treatment at the show then had dinner after. I think he knew the way to my heart was through food and a good laugh. He definitely succeeded!

    How did he propose?

    (P): Woof, I should’ve known this would come up. We had a beloved dog and my plan was to cut open a tennis ball, place it in the ball, go to the park and play fetch with our dog. When the dog brought the ball back…I’d be on one knee and propose. The best laid plans don’t always work out, I was getting ready for a work trip and couldn’t find my phone…she came into the closet to try to help me look for it, as she’s digging around the tennis ball slowly rolls out of its hiding spot and falls directly into her hand. As she inquisitively stares at why a tennis ball is on the shelf of our closet she sees a cut in it, opens it and sees the ring…I dropped on one knee and we got engaged in our storage closet. What a romantic guy I am!

    When did you know they were the one?

    (P): We met in Chicago for a date, we had been meeting up off and on as we were living in different cities at the time. We walked through the city, played life-size Connect 4 and took a helicopter ride to see all of the city at once. I fell head over heels for her over a Chicago Style Deep Dish Pizza!

    (J): Ditto! After that date in Chicago I knew he’d be the one I’d marry. We had always had a good connection but the connection became a lot deeper that weekend. I think we both felt it while chatting over our deep dish pizza.

    Fun fact about the two of you?

    We’ve lived in 4 different states in 3 years of being a couple (Ohio, Minnesota, California and North Carolina)

    Most difficult part of wedding planning process?

    We had Kate Deegan (http://co-me.net) …she made the process seamless. I think we were nervous that she wasn’t more nervous but everything ended up FANTASTIC!!!

    What’s your favorite memory from wedding day?

    (P): The setting in the Abbey with an open roof, all of the people that I love were there and my beautiful future wife comes walking down the aisle. When I look back on all the days of my life…this moment will be one of the most important.

    (J): Since Peter already touched on my favorite memory, I’ll go with second favorite- After dinner, in lieu of a dance, we did a pub crawl in Ennis, Ireland. All of our guests piling into the tiniest pub to have a pint with us was such a blast. My husband and Maid of Honor soulfully karaoking to Lisa Loeb’s “Stay”, a group of Irish men singing us a wedding song and pouring my husband a Guinness behind the bar in my wedding dress are memories I certainly will never forget.

    How did HitchSwitch make your post wedding name change process easier?

    I didn’t even know where to start with the name change process. I loved that they gave me everything I needed to do (in order) and had already prefilled in a ton of my info saving me time. I probably would still be a Ratke if it weren’t for HitchSwitch’s help!

     

  • Partner Moving In? Here’s What You Need To Know

    Partner Moving In? Here’s What You Need To Know

    First comes the engagement, then comes the marriage and then comes the moving in together. It’s not easy sharing your home with another person, even if that person is your significant other.

    I mean, this is your safe place. Your sanctuary!  Everything has its place, and you can’t imagine having to shuffle things around just to fit in some of your partner’s stuff. But hey, you said it: “till death do us part”. It’s going to happen sooner or later! Here’s how you can cope with it.

    Communication is key

    Here’s what to keep in mind. Needless to say, it’s pretty obvious that your taste and your partners may not exactly line up perfectly. It’s like the classic Ella Fitzgerald song, you like tomato, and they like tomahto. But hopefully, you won’t need to call the whole thing off because, in the end, this is just another step that will bring you closer to building your new life together.

    As they start moving in, try not to make any faces (as tempting as that is) at their items of choice and always keep honesty priority. Of course, you can’t point at their armchair and claim that it is “the ugliest thing” you have ever seen.

    That won’t work. Trust me.

    Eh, you live and you learn.

    Instead, express how you feel and help them understand why this piece of furniture doesn’t go with the rest of the room. You don’t want to end up with three different colored couches and a red plaid leg rest. There will be a lot more furniture, but still, the same amount of space so choose carefully.

    Speaking of choosing…

    How do you calmly and gently settle on what stays and what goes? I don’t care how big of a hoarder you or your partner are because at the end of the day, there’s going to be a lot less furniture and I’m sorry to say that some of yours will have to go! One way to figure what to keep is to both agree that you love it. For instance, you both really enjoy the coffee table from Pottery Barn, so you both decide to keep it. You can always pick a few things that are dear to you and are utterly irreplaceable. It could be a family heirloom or something you’ve had since your college days.

    And no, you can’t pick everything in the room, that’s not how it works. By both taking turns saying what stays and what goes, you’ll find out more about each other’s style and figure everything out together.

    Prepare for trouble, and make it double

    Ok, so now you got two mattresses, two (or three) couches, two tables, two coffee machines…you get the idea. In this scenario, you can always pick depending on how much space is available. The size of the item is important because now it will be serving two people. If your home is spacious, you can then check the condition and quality of the item. Is it worn out, is it new? Can it last a few more months, let alone years?

    4 hours and six arguments later

    Hey, I didn’t say this was going to go smoothly.

    At this point, you both have probably disagreed on…a lot? Yeah, a lot sounds good. You’re probably thinking one of you has to give and no way in hell it’s going to be you!

    Relax, what if I told you there’s a way where you both can be (slightly) satisfied?

    BUT HOW?

    You might not like it but here are some options:

    1. You let your partner have it their way. It’s simple; you love them so much that you’re willing to let them keep their foosball table or that weird painting of puppies they got for sale at Michaels.

    Hey, it happens, I’ve been there.

    1. The 3 Re-s. Repaint, remodel and recover. You might not like an item because of its color or how old it looks, but somewhere deep down you’d be willing to accept it if were retouched.

    Hey, another Re-.

    1. You both don’t agree, so you sell, donate, or burn it. The last one is a little too intense but I’ve seen things…

    This is your last resort because if you can’t keep your teardrop table lamp, then neither can they. Go big or go home!

    Kidding, that’s an entirely different article.

    1. Shopping! Buy something entirely new that you both agree on.

    Before the big move, you probably had the perfect vision to make your home the perfect home. Granted, you won’t say eye to eye on everything, but always remember what led you here in the first place. This is going to be your new home and your children’s first home! Memories are just waiting to be created.

    The beginning will undoubtedly be rough, but what beginning isn’t? Believe me when I say, in a few months, it won’t even matter and you’ll just be glad you’ve got the love of your life laying down right there beside you.

     

  • Grace & Matthew

    Grace & Matthew

    How did you meet?

    We met on Bumble! After chatting for about a week we decided to meet up for a first date.

    First or favorite date?

    We had our first date downtown LA at Birdies. We had fried Chicken & Donuts!

    How did he propose?

    I spent Thanksgiving 2017 with Matthew’s family in Phoenix, Arizona. He suggested that since we were so close, we should take a quick trip to Sedona. I agreed because traveling is my main jam. After exploring the town a bit he suggested that we go to Airport Mesa because he read that that was the best place in town to see the sunset from. After hunting a bit, we found a secluded bench to sit and enjoy the evening. As we sat in that beautiful place, Matthew began to recap the year we’d had together. He talked about all the amazing places we’d been, things we’d eaten, meeting each other’s family’s, and falling in love (I had no idea what was really happening yet but I was already sobbing). As Matthew said all these beautiful things to me he said “And I have no doubt that you’re the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with” and I thought to myself “Oh my God. This is happening now”. Then he got down on one knee and asked me to become his wife. How could I say anything but yes!

    Most difficult part of wedding planning process?

    Managing family and their expectations was far and away the toughest part.

    How did you decide on a wedding venue?

    We picked the first one we liked in our budget!\

    What’s your favorite memory from your wedding day?

    How do you pick 1! Matthew’s favorite moment was right after I walked down the aisle/before our vows. We didn’t do a first look so it was our first moment together that day! We were holding hands and both just so giddy! The vows were my favorite moment. We wrote our own as well as doing traditional ones so they were so personal. I was sobbing through all of them but I think it was the happiest moment of my life.

    How did HitchSwitch make your post-wedding name change process easier?

    Two things: It’s told me exactly what to do and when to do it and it’s nice having someone who I know I can go to with any questions about the process I may have. I feel like none of my friends remember how they did anything which I can only assume is because it is a horrendous, traumatic process.

  • Sarah & Anthony

    Sarah & Anthony

    How did you meet?

    We actually were first introduced to each other back in 2006 through a mutual friend. We had run into each other throughout the years, but we were always off in different directions. Anthony then made the first move, by sending a FB message in 2015 to ask how I had been. We had met up one weekend out at a local bar, went on a date the following day and we knew it was meant to be! He claims he had a crush on me for 4 years before finally making an attempt to reach out to me, and it’s safe to say I’m SO happy he did!! 

    First or favorite date?

    I would have to say my favorite date is when we went in our first hike together followed by dinner in Old Forge, NY! It’s where we both realized our love for the outdoors/ that little town was a big thing we had in common. It was also such a laid back “date”, that it was a day of just truly being ourselves and getting to know each other!

    How did he propose?

    Grab your popcorn… this is a story… haha! When Anthony and I first got together, he was stationed in Ray Brook, NY, a tiny little town in Lake Placid where he was working as a State Trooper at the time. A month before we got engaged, he was stationed closer to home and with hopes of buying a house we both moved into my parents’ house to save money. It was Valentine’s Day, which was also our one year dating anniversary and we had the house to ourselves because my parents were staying overnight elsewhere to have their own evening together. After a very long day of work for both of us, we decided to have a relaxing night in with wine and pizza. We go to exchange gifts and I give him mine first. Next is my turn and he tells me that he didn’t have time to get anything (which is why he sent me beautiful flowers earlier in the day to work) and not worried about a gift I say that’s totally fine! We laugh, and talk and the night continues and he says “Oh, wait! I do have something for you!” He goes into the bedroom and has a 2018 NYS PBA card and on the front it says, spouse. So confused as to why he gave me the spouse card (I had no idea what was happening) I tell him that it wouldn’t work for me because I’m not your spouse! As those words leave my mouth he’s getting down on one knee!! I had absolutely NO idea it was coming and I was in shock!! It was so special, even though it was just the two of us in our pajamas, a box of pizza and half a bottle of wine deep in my parents’ kitchen… it was a beautiful moment and one I’ll never forget.

    Most difficult part of wedding planning process?

    Okay so honestly, I did everything for this wedding. From designing my own invitations to setting up the final finishing touches the morning OF the wedding… I thought of and put everything together and had a lot of people who helped bring my vision to life. No wedding planner, no venue planner or set up team, myself and my bridal party/ family DID. IT. ALL. With that being said, I can’t really place my finger on anything that was difficult. Everything fell into place and I stayed on top of everything pretty well. I’m a very laid back person who can keep a very level head and not get stressed out. Planning my wedding was actually enjoyable and very fun with just a little dash of stress! :$

    How did you decide on a wedding venue?

    In my earlier explanation on our favorite date, we LOVE Old Forge, NY. The distance from the hustle and bustle of “city life” and the serenity and stillness that the lakes and mountain air provide is something like no other place. So we were determined to find our venue there. We looked into one venue and one venue only, Adirondack Woodcraft Camps and it was love at first sight!! Even when seeing it in the wet and muddy month of November, I could still envision how beautiful it would be and it was absolutely more than beautiful. I told you everything fell right into place, our venue hunt did not take long!

    What’s your favorite memory from wedding day?

    Ahhh our wedding day. How do you pick just ONE memory?! I would have to say my favorite part of the whole day was our ceremony. Standing at the start of the aisle (which was the woods haha) with my Father at my side, and seeing the big open field, filled with sunshine and all of the people I love was the most beautiful thing I’d ever seen. Finally making my way down to the aisle, the look on my husband-to-be’s face absolutely melted my heart and witnessing him get emotional for the first time ever while saying his vows showed me how much love he has for me. Ugh talking about it is getting me all emotional. So in the end, my favorite part of our wedding day was our short, sweet and beautiful ceremony in the woods.

    How did HitchSwitch make your post-wedding name change process easier?

    I’m self-employed and work long days without much time to spare. Especially on business days when there is only so much time in the day to get things done!! Knowing of all the paperwork and stops I had ahead of me with the name changing process, I was looking to make it as easy as possible and HitchSwitch has done just that! I will forever recommend them to all, anyone and everyone who loves smooth transitions! Thank You HitchSwitch!

     

  • How to Survive Your First Thanksgiving Dinner as the Host

    How to Survive Your First Thanksgiving Dinner as the Host

    You’ve done everything in your power to avoid it. You’ve come up with excuses, little white lies, and even used up your “I won’t be in town” card more than once even though we both know you ordered in Pizza Hut and watched Game of Thrones for the tenth time.

    But the time has come, and you’ve been selected to host this year’s Thanksgiving dinner. One of the most important family gatherings of the year where relatives you haven’t seen for months are coming to take a seat at your table to commemorate this luscious holiday.

    first time hosSo now what?

    Well, the first step is to pour yourself a glass of whiskey to calm the nerves because my friend…

    Can’t Spell Menu without Me N U…and Aunt Mildred Who has a Stuffing Recipe that Will Make Your Taste Buds Dance

    Turkey. The centerpiece of your table. It needs to be large enough to satisfy all your guests and cooked to perfection. Otherwise, you’ll be incorporated into everyone’s conversations for the rest of the year as “the one who ruined Thanksgiving.”

    Don’t be that relative.

    Don’t feel like you need to prepare a whole menu alone. So if Aunt Mildred believes her stuffing recipe is what’s going to be the talk of the table, then so be it. This is a potluck holiday, which means all your friends and family should all prepare a dish and bring it along. That way, you won’t be feeling overwhelmed to do everything alone.

    Find Out What Recipes Can Be Made The Day Before, And Make Them!

    If you’re a busy bee and you’re losing your sanity thinking about how you are going to manage hosting while working a full-time job, there are some steps you can take to ease that weight off your shoulders.

     

    Anything that can be reheated such as pies or casseroles can be made and frozen until Thanksgiving Day!

    Here is a list of food that can be made ahead to save you some time.

    Set the Table, the Table Rules, and Ban Politics Talk

    Once you know how many people are attending, it’s best to set the table the night before. That includes silverware, cups, utensils, and napkins. If you want to add candles or any decoration, this is the time to do it.

    Why table rules?

    Uh, because you don’t want your Uncle Jim and Cousin Luke going at it regarding topics that are just not convenient for a family dinner. Believe me; nobody wants to discuss immigration laws and how they’ve changed in the past four years when you can be laughing at inappropriate jokes and predicting Jon Snow’s fate in season 8.

     

    If it gets too intense and things spiral out of control, calmly request that they take it outside.

    Have Appetizers and Drinks Available in Case the Turkey Needs More Time

    If you’re a diehard chef, you probably already got appetizers covered. But if you don’t, then don’t worry. Store bought will work just fine, I promise. Keep in mind that Thanksgiving dinner is a huge meal and there will be plenty of leftovers.

    Pass out some drinks to your company to keep them occupied until dinner is ready.

    What’s Missing…Other than Your Aunt from Your Mother’s Side Whose Travelling the Globe in Order to “Find Herself”?

    Listen, when it comes to that “one last thing,” and whether it’s a pie or bread rolls, don’t feel ashamed to buy it from your local grocery store. If this is what will help you feel more relaxed, then let it be. When you attempt to do everything from scratch, you will not only despise Thanksgiving, but everyone that is present.

     

    We Like Lists Because We Don’t Want to Die

    Wise words from a wise man.

    Here’s the thing about lists: They’re pretty much the most amazing thing on this planet.

    Think I’m joking? I’m not.

    Here is an example of a list that can help make this day less… You can keep it in plain sight so you can always see it. They make matters more orderly, and every time you complete a task, you can check it right off.

    Most Importantly, Don’t Freak Out!!

    My mother took down all the windows in her house the year she was hosting. Believe me; nobody noticed the spotless windows and how squeaky clean they were except for her.

    If kids are attending, plan a few activities, or you can even involve them in helping with the setup and clean up.

    This is your four day weekend so that grants you the right to overdrink, overeat, and oversleep. We have to overdo it on this day, you guys, as it is our patriotic duty.  Once you’re done with the dinner and everyone’s settled down, take turns on why you are thankful.

    Really, it’s a day where we get to remember how blessed and lucky we are and how so many people around the world don’t have the privileges we do.

    Once everyone gets up to leave and thanks to you for a great dinner, you can cuddle up under your blankets and convince yourself that you will never host another party again.

     

  • Taylor & Daniel

    Taylor & Daniel

    How did you meet?

    Danny and I actually met online. It’s silly to think back on now. I had just moved from California and Danny just moved back to his Hometown Wimberley, TX. We were both at the time NOT looking for anything serious and 5+ years later we’re married. He was very persistent when we were started texted one another. I was caught off guard by his wanting to be a gentleman and get to know me. His last name is Happley so it only seemed appropriate to give this fairytale Prince a chance.

    First or favorite date?

    Our first date was funny. He asked me what I wanted to eat and I randomly tossed out the idea of Fish Tacos and beer. Danny said he knew the best place in town and told me to meet him after work there. It was Lavaca Street Bar in Austin, TX. I showed up in rain boots and a scarf even though it was like 85 degrees outside. It had been raining earlier that day and of course, typical Austin forecast changed in two seconds leaving me with no option but to wear that. So naturally, I showed up nervous and slightly sticky from the humidity. We instantly kicked it off. I don’t think we stopped laughing, smiling, or even talking that night. Our topics were wide range and some deep which looking back was a bit unique for a first date. As we walked out he put his arm around me and it didn’t feel uncomfortable at all. It was when he kissed me and ran away leaving me hanging that I thought hmm that’s how it’s going to be huh?

    I don’t necessarily have a favorite date. With Danny, all of our experiences were pretty much firsts for either myself or him. I was learning about a new State and trying to build my career. He was raising his daughter and building his. So as our relationship bounced along we did things together. It was never about needing a truly expensive date or having to do something lavish. It was about having fun together. We went paddleboarding, fishing, he introduced me to Sushi, locally vacationed, he introduced me to his daughter, attended rodeos, went to theme parks, bar hopped, and tubed down the Blanco River all in the first 6 months we dated. The second week we were officially dating was Valentine’s Day and he surprised me. He showed up at work with a card, sushi, and a dozen cupcakes. SOLD right? I was smitten by him just by his wanting to love and care for me.

     

    How did he propose?

    Danny had actually been out of town on a medical mission trip in Guatemala but before he left he mentioned keeping the Sunday he got home open. I just thought he wanted to spend time together with myself and Madi, his daughter. That morning we put plans together to go to the drive-through zoo and play with the animals. I thought that was good enough. Then we randomly stopped by a nail salon- his idea and on the way home, he mentioned that we had plans. I assumed it was dinner plans in a place that we had never been to before. Danny wouldn’t budge when I kept pushing him. That car ride seemed LONG. When we arrived at this gated home I never had been too I was a bit confused until I saw the helicopter! I still was too caught up in the moment to even think this whole day was set up for a proposal. I thought the helicopter ride WAS the surprise. Should have been a sign when the man helping strap me in told me that I needed to talk very close to the mic in order to be heard on the trip. We floated through the sky for a while before we hovered over Montesino Ranch, our wedding venue, that’s where he proposed! The little sneak had actually secured our venue and wedding date weeks prior to our helicopter ride. I guess it’s a good thing I said yes! He couldn’t even hear me say yes the first few times I said it because I hadn’t listened and wasn’t saying it close enough to the mic. The whole thing is on video. We landed after a while (and lots of motion sickness on my part looking down at my sparkling finger) and had champagne chilled waiting for us. The best part was that we got to share the experience with our daughter. I love looking at photos from this day because I can feel the excitement and butterflies all over again.

    Most difficult part of wedding planning process?

    There were three very challenging things for me. One was wedding planning without my Mom and all my bridesmaids in the same state. Danny and I styled and made most of our wedding so it was difficult without close ones to help at times. Two we also live in a very small town so rehearsal dinner was a challenge finding a place to host it with our guest count. Ultimately we just held it on our property and it was beautiful. Three playing tango with the wedding. I honestly could care less if it rained out our day because I was getting married regardless and I can’t control the weather, but I felt bad for those who had traveled distances to be there to enjoy a muddy rainy day on our behalf. It RAINED and FLOODED the day of our wedding. We had to implement Plan B, but when it came time for things to begin the Rain halted. I like to think it’s a sign and that all those sayings about rain being good luck on your wedding day were true. 

     

    How did you decide on a wedding venue?

    Father’s Day the year before Danny wanted to spend time by the River. Montesino offers cute lodging on their Ranch with River access. The very first night we went and watched the sunset from the pavillion area and the view sold us. We both knew that ultimately when we married it would be there. I just didn’t know he would actually secure a date before I said yes!

    What’s your favorite memory from wedding day?

    You gain advice from married people in your life prior to your wedding about what they found to be important or helpful the day of. My brother and sister in law said the best thing they ever did on their wedding day was take 15 minutes after the ceremony to themselves. So after our ceremony was over we hopped into our Landcruiser with our photographer and drove off for a bit. We had popped a bottle of champagne and just absorbed the moment together. It was the calm after the storm and the first time that day that I took a deep breath. It set up the rest of the wedding for me and gave us those few precious moments together without distraction. When we entered the reception I also enjoyed looking at all of our guests over the twinkling lights. I loved to see that they all came to support and love us on our big day. That’s kind of a big deal.

    How did HitchSwitch make your post-wedding name change process easier?

    It has made it SO easy! I wasn’t sure really where to begin before. I, of course, looked on Pinterest and scrolled through online make easy situations but it was still confusing figuring out where to start. I also didn’t realize how many things actually involve your name and changing your name. We live pretty far away from local offices involved with name change scenarios, without HitchSwitch I probably would have started in the wrong place and wasted a lot of time bouncing between offices and driving for no reason. I greatly appreciate this service. I’ve already suggested it to some girlfriends who have recently gotten married or are about to get married! Thank you.

  • Classic Wedding Movies To Watch

    Classic Wedding Movies To Watch

    Father of the Bride

    It may be the happiest day of YOUR life, but this 1991 Rom-Com with Steve Martin just goes to show you what every parent has to go through on their baby girl’s big day. Get ready to cry, laugh,  and call up your folks to let them know just how much you genuinely love them.

    My Best Friend’s Wedding

    Remember when you were younger, and you convinced your best friend that if you both weren’t married in ten years, you’d just marry each other?

    Me neither.

    Julia Roberts stars along some of the best actors and actresses in Hollywood to teach you one of life’s cruelest lessons: We don’t always get the happy ending we dreamed of and sometimes our soulmates…have other soulmates. Get ready for a reality check and learning to cope with disappointment.

    Wedding Crashers

    Pretty self-explanatory title. John and Jeremy (played by Owen Wilson and Vince

    Vaughn) are best friends who know exactly what (and who) they want. Little do they know what fate has in store for them. Love may be blind, but it’s also unexpected, cruel, and can appear in the most unlikely of places. Ready to laugh your ass off from start to finish? This is the movie for you.

    Bridesmaids

    I know in reality bridesmaids aren’t like this, but I can’t help but feel like they should be! Kristen Wiig dominates as Annie, a character whose life is total chaos and somehow keeps getting worse as she finds out her best friend is getting married. Make sure to invite all your lady friends and join the craziness that is Bridesmaids. And for God’s sake, somebody bring margaritas!!

    Bride Wars

    What happens when the wedding planner schedules you and your best friends wedding on the same day and same venue? Well, apparently that’s not your best friend anymore. You are officially bitter rivals! I mean, c’mon, you’ve been dreaming of this day since you were probably… I don’t know… five? And there will be hell to pay of someone’s even thinking of stealing your thunder. Anne Hathaway and Kate Hudson in bride wars, who will come out victorious?

    My Big Fat Greek Wedding

    Finally, a film where cultures clash. This entire film is simply funny, romantic, and irresistible. Follow Toula as she follows her heart while trying not to disappoint or upset her strict traditional Greek parents. This film is well written, very entertaining, and goes to show you that no matter how different someone is, love will always prosper.

    The Wedding Date

    What’s the surefire way to make your ex-fiancee green with envy at your half sister’s wedding? Well, you hire Dermot Mulroney to pose as your lover, duhhh!! That way, everyone in the room is jealous! What can I say about this film other than to get ready for some jaw-dropping surprises!

    Also, keep in mind the quote: Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth. -Buddha, who apparently didn’t trust too many people

    The Wedding Singer

    What hurts more than being abandoned at the altar? Having a job that requires you to sing at them! We all know Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore to make fantastic collaboration, but this by far is one of their best. Heartbreak, forbidden love, and great music. This is the perfect movie to watch when you need some cheering up and a good laugh.

    Mamma Mia!

    It always seems like no matter what role she plays, Amanda Seyfried is always on the hunt for someone. A man, a wolf, and this time, her father. The beautiful cinematography of the film will have you wishing you were on vacation in the Greek islands, where the film takes place. Before her big day, Sophie invites three of her mother’s past lovers and is determined to find out who her father is. Hey, someone needs to escort her down the aisle! Get ready for an all good feeling and fantastic music that will have you on your feet for the duration of the film!

  • Ashley & Mike

    Ashley & Mike

    How did you meet?

    At a party Columbus Day weekend 2011 at Babson College! He was a senior at the time and I was a junior. He was captain of the hockey team and I was on the volleyball team. Campus is usually empty since it’s a long weekend and everyone leaves, but because we were both in season we had to stay on campus. The hockey team had a party that I went to with some friends and the rest is history!

    First or favorite date?

    Any time that we travel together is the best. Does that count? It’s like one long date! We’ve been to so many places and I can’t wait to continue exploring. It such a great way to disconnect from other people and focus on the two of us. Mont Tremblant is a favorite as well as Italy!

    How did he propose?

    On the frozen Lake Tremblant in Mont Tremblant, Quebec, Canada. We were away for the weekend and had just finished dog sledding (so fun!!) and he asked if I wanted to take a walk in sub-zero temperatures (literally!).

    Most difficult part of wedding planning process?

    The little things! Finding a veil, a chuppah and choosing table linens.

    How did you decide on a wedding venue?

    Mike actually found it! We were married at the Pierce House in Lincoln, Massachusetts. We wanted somewhere local to where we live that was unique and had the ability to be outside.

    What’s your favorite memory from your wedding day?

    Our first dance. We took 4 lessons before the wedding and practiced SO much- but totally forgot everything that night. We surprisingly didn’t panic but instead had so much fun making up our own steps on the spot.

    How did HitchSwitch make your post-wedding name change process easier?

    Having all of the forms in one place is SO helpful! No searching a million websites and wondering where to start. The staff has also been super helpful and quick to respond in answering so many questions!