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  • 7 Ways to Improve Communication With Your Partner

    7 Ways to Improve Communication With Your Partner

    It’s no secret that we as humans crave connections with others. We love to talk about ourselves, and we love to see our needs being met. The majority of our life, we tend to be egotistical creatures. While focusing on yourself has its moments, this selfish behavior that’s all “me, me me!” can be the reason for your downfall, be it mentally or physically. 

    When we enter relationships, it’s important to remember that the other person(s) needs affection, love, and acknowledgement. That’s the foundation of most relationships. For relationships to strive, both parties need to give more than they receive, which ironically always leaves both of them satisfied. 

    Here a few tips to help you engage in better conversations with your partner and improve your communication skills for a healthier relationship. 

    Acknowledge the Miscommunication 

    Do you know what’s worse than not communicating? Not acknowledging that miscommunication. 

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    There are no perfect relationships out there. There is no ideal marriage; there is always more that goes on behind the curtains than what most people see. You don’t realize you have a miscommunication problem until someone finally breaks down, or worse, the relationship ends with no closure. If you believe you or your partner are guilty of not communicating, you need to acknowledge this. The first step to continual communication is first realizing there was none in the first place. 

    Prioritize Their Needs 

    See how I said needs and not wants. Every person is different, and your partner might have special needs that need fulfillment every day. You knew this before entering the relationship, otherwise, you wouldn’t be there. 

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    This need can come in the physical form (sex) or more on the emotional side (love affirming). If you feel like your partner is slacking on fulfilling your needs, the best thing you can do is remind them. Who knows? Maybe you’re slacking on their behalf, which will open the door to more dialogue and understanding. 

    Harsh Honesty Is More Than Ok 

    As stated previously, no relationship is perfect. We understand that, and we love that because if a relationship has no obstacles, something is off. Naval Ravikant said, “Honesty plus love will get you through most situations.” 

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    Sugarcoated white lies may seem to satisfy your partner in the short term, but if you’re in it for the long haul, you might want to change it up. Surely there is something your partner does that annoys you or makes you lose your shit. It’s okay; it’s not the end of the world. A more straightforward method is informing them what they’re doing wrong, why it’s bothering you, and how both of you can work together to prevent it in the future. Teamwork makes the dream work. Or in this case, the relationship. 

    Put Your Phone Down and Listen

    Pay attention to your partner. Sit next to your partner. When your partner is speaking to you, listen. There is power in listening! That’s literally the key lesson in any self-development book. 

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    When you listen to your partner, you are confirming you care about the problem at hand. Imagine speaking to someone, and every two minutes, they check their phone? What does that tell you? Other than that person being incredibly rude, it tells you they’re not interested in what you have to say. How do you expect anything to work if you don’t pay attention and listen? 

    Can’t Budge Holding a Grudge 

    You’ve had issues in the past, that’s understandable. If you’ve moved past them without fully resolving them, then you’ve got a dilemma. 

    If a few issues are left unresolved, then all issues will be left unresolved. If you’re in a relationship where you feel like bringing up past concerns to resolve them will create more predicaments than you’re in the wrong relationship. It hurts to hear, but that’s the truth. 

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    Couples regularly bring issues to light so they can acknowledge their faults, find a solution, and move on. You can’t expect to move on, let alone be open with your partner if you refuse to identify a relationship’s difficulties. Grudges are never let go by silence alone. 

    Grudges are never let go by silence alone.

    Create Healthier Habits Together 

    Here are a few habits you can build with your partner that will bring you closer and help grow the relationship: cook breakfast together, workout at the same gym, go night jogging, journaling, meditation, have an “honest hour,” plan a date night every week, and so much more. 

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    Why is spending time together so important? Two researchers from the Minnesota Population Center at the University of Minnesota have found that married couples in the U.S. are happier and more fulfilled when they are together than apart, underscoring the importance of spending time with a spouse for individual well-being.

    Appreciate Your Partner

    Easy enough, right? If you genuinely love them, it won’t be that difficult, I promise. This has been a life-changer for my partner and me. 

    Personally, I want nothing more than to be appreciated as a wife and mother. A study of divorce conducted by law professor Margaret Brinig and economist Douglas Allen found that the number one reason women leave their partners is that they feel unappreciated or ignored (Source). Why do you think men leave? They feel neglected. It’s a two-way street. 

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    Take some today to express to your partner how important they are to you. You’ll be stunned at their reaction.

     

  • Preparing for Fall: Home accents you might need

    Preparing for Fall: Home accents you might need

    Fall is finally here! It’s time to transition into dark autumn colors and heavier fabrics. Out with the flip-flops and in with the cozy sweaters. For a lot of people, this is their favorite time of year and who could blame them? Since the leaves are changing the scenery outside, it’s time to transition to fall décor inside. 

    Let’s go room by room and talk about all the fall details you can add to your home.

    In Your Living Room

    This is the heart of your home. Your goal for this room should be for it to feel cozy and inviting. It should be the perfect place to watch Halloween movies and drink some apple cider. 

    Start by focusing on your seating area. Add fall-themed throw pillows and blankets. They’re not expensive and they’re super easy to find. The best part is that there is a huge selection to choose from so you can find the style that best suits your home.

    Something that most people don’t realize, is that curtains have a huge impact on the vibe of a space. Warm-up your home by putting up your fall and winter curtains. The rich color scheme will help the rest of your living room feel like fall. 

    Small decorations strategically placed on coffee tables, mantles, or any flat surface will add the finishing touch. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to decorate for fall. Use decorations from previous years, check out your local thrift stores or get crafty and DIY a new wreath or garland. 


    In The Kitchen

    Kitchen accents are the best! So much of fall has to do with cooking and food. Naturally, you need to integrate fall décor into your kitchen so you can get into the spirit. 

    First things first, decorative pumpkins. They’re everywhere and they come in a million different sizes, colors, shapes, and designs. Put them everywhere. On your countertop, above your sink, on top of your refrigerator, or even hide them in your cabinets. If you can dream it, you can put a pumpkin on it. 

    If pumpkins aren’t your thing, you can decorate with leaves, apples, owls, foxes, or even a simple autumn color scheme. 

    The easiest items in your kitchen to switch out are your hand towels and oven mitts. Hand towels are always around and they’re frequently used. Same goes for your oven mitts. Seasonal styles are easy to find, in fact I would bet that you already have one or two. 

    Soap is another easy item to switch out. You don’t even have to switch it out, just wait for your current soap to run out and simply choose a fall scent when you buy the new one. Apple cinnamon is always the autumn go-to, but brands are always coming up with new fun fall scents for you to try out.

    If you’re looking to get really fancy, go apple or pumpkin picking and bake some fall treats in your newly decorated kitchen. It’s pie season, you have to make at least one. Don’t forget the ice cream! 

    In Your Bedroom

    Need an excuse to change your bedding? Here it is. A darker colored bedding with a new burgundy comforter is a great start, but if you really want to make your room a fall retreat you should consider adding a faux-fur throw blanket to bring in some dimension.

    Change the curtains in your bedroom to match the ones in your living room. It really will change the entire space. It will also add a cohesive feel to your entire home.

    A quick hack to get the fall décor vibes flowing is to start with a candle. Everyone goes wild for the fall scents and they come in any price range. Even if totally decorating for fall isn’t your thing, no one can pass up a pumpkin maple candle.

    In The Dining Room

    In addition to the décor that has been named prior to this, like candles, small fall decorations like pumpkins, changing your curtains, and adding candles there is one huge change you can make in your dining room.

    You can change the entire set up and style of your table. By adding leaves and other fall décor accents to placemats, place settings, and most importantly your center piece. 

    Your dining table center piece is an important aspect of home décor and should change throughout the year to reflect the current circumstances. It doesn’t have to be a huge change. You can switch out either real or fake flowers and the vase to better fit the season.

    You could also go all out and create an intricate and beautiful centerpiece for the fall. You can purchase one, but why not be as unique as possible? DIY your center piece and create a decoration that you can be proud of and appreciate all season long. 

    Don’t Forget About The Bathroom

    Never overlook the bathroom when you’re making your home festive! It’s easy to make changes, similar to ones that you can make in other areas of the house.

    You can change the towels to reflect the fall theme. You can also change the soap and bathroom spray to an autumn scent like apple or maple. This is also a great place to add a candle or two. Light them before you take a bath to help you relax.

    Other Changes You Can Make

    When you enter your home there are two things that grab your attention, the doormat and the door decoration. This is the first opportunity you have to set the tone for your guests when they enter your home. 

    Doormats give you the chance to show your personality and humor. Sure, you could get a very cute leaf covered mat, but wouldn’t you rather have one that says “Hey there pumpkin” to greet you when you get home?

    Decorating for fall doesn’t have to cost a lot of money, or any money at all. Utilize dollar stores, thrift stores, and decorations from previous years. It doesn’t all have to be pumpkins and autumn leaves; a good color scheme can get you far. 

  • Fun Socially Distant Summer Date Ideas

    Fun Socially Distant Summer Date Ideas

    Even though the summer of 2020 is coming to an end, there’s still time to get some fun summer dates in! If you’re not sure what your options are in this uncertain time, don’t worry. We’ve got you covered. Here are some of best socially distant summertime dates.

    Outdoor Dining

    Going out to dinner is a cherished date night tradition, but it’s been long overdue since quarantine. Thankfully, restaurants are finding clever and creative ways to make dining safe again. They’re doing a great job of following state guidelines and only seating people at every other table or spreading their tables farther apart.

    Try to go during off-peak hours to avoid any crowds. If you’re lucky, you’ll be able to find a restaurant located on the water. A gorgeous view and an ocean breeze will be the cherry on top of a perfect dinner date. 

    Do your due diligence before you go. Call ahead and ask what kind of precautions the restaurant is taking. Staff should be wearing masks, customers should have to wear masks when they’re not seated at their table, and all of the tables should be cleaned in between customers. 

    Bonus points if they have one-time use menus or digital ones. It’s also great if they have personal ketchup and sauce containers to prevent germ spread from communal bottles.

    Go On A Picnic

    Picnics are a classic and romantic date idea. Now, they serve another purpose by keeping you socially distant! They’re fun and easy to throw together last minute. 

    This is your opportunity to shine. Show off your skills and make a beautiful charcuterie board. Everything tastes better when it’s aesthetically pleasing. Add a bottle of wine and you’re set up to have a great time with your partner.

    If you’re more low maintenance, a picnic doesn’t have to consist of Instagram-able food in a wicker basket. Grab a pick-up order from your favorite restaurant, sit on an old bed sheet, and eat out of the to-go containers.  

    Drive-Ins

    An attraction that is rapidly increasing in popularity during quarantine is the drive-in. Beaches, parks, restaurants, movie theaters, and basically any business with a big parking lot are trying to get into the drive-in business. 

    Of course, it’s fun to watch a classic movie sitting next to your boo, but movies aren’t the only drive-in option anymore. Comedians and concerts are also finding cool and creative solutions to bring you live entertainment. Keep an open mind and see who’s coming to your area.

    Staying in your car could seem boring, but you should think about it the same way you think about tailgating. Bring food, snacks, and drinks to enjoy during the show. Bring your friend with the pick-up and hang out in the bed of the truck.

    If you don’t want to sit outside of your car, I don’t blame you! The hot and humid summer weather can be a killer. Drive-ins give you the perfect excuse to blast your air conditioning and escape the suffocating heat. 

    Don’t Be Afraid To Stay Home

    Staying home is a great way to stay safe. This option is also an affordable date, if not completely free! Staying at home leaves you with a variety of date options from making playful pillow forts to having a bake-off.

    You can get as creative as you want, but let’s go over some of the underrated stay at home dates. 

    The Classic Movie Night

    Don’t skip over this date night idea just because it feels overdone. All it takes is a little effort to make it feel special. You know that movie you keep saying you’ll watch but never do? Now is the time to watch it. If you don’t know what you want to watch, everyone loves Hamilton.

    If you have more time, consider doing a whole movie marathon. There are dozens of fun series out there like Back to the Future or the Marvel superhero movies. Use the series as inspiration to decorate your home and really get into the spirit.

    Take advantage of the nice weather and set up a projector in your backyard. Hang a white sheet for your screen and you’re all set. If you don’t have a projector, take your laptop outside and create a little movie theater in a tent or on a table. 

    Either way, you’re going to need a boat load of snacks. Movie theater popcorn, pizza, and ice cream always hit the spot on movie night. Throw caution to the wind and get some movie theater candy too.

    Game Night

    Board games are the best. Two player games, like Guess Who, create hours of fun. Search up different two player games on Google or Amazon to find the best one for you. You don’t have to get too fancy; a deck of cards is all you need to have a great game night.

    Video games are an amazing alternative, especially if you’re partner is a gamer. Find out what’s so special about the game they devote hours of their life to. If you’re the gamer, open up this part of your life to your partner and show them why you love it.

    This is also a great activity to take outdoors. Video games can be set up on a projector and board games can be played literally anywhere. Summertime also brings in the opportunity to play pool games, like Marco Polo. Everyone loves a competitive round of Marco Polo. 

    No matter what game you play, you’ll learn something new about your partner. It’s always interesting to see someone’s problem solving skills at work! 

    Keep An Eye Out For Local Hotspots

    Sunflower, lavender, and other flower fields are really popular in the summer. Sunflowers can even be turned into mazes, just like corn. These gorgeous spots make a great day trip filled with photo ops. 

    Same goes for blueberry, peach, and other fruit farms that allow picking. Then you can come home with a bucket of your favorite fruit and make pies and other delicious desserts together. 

    Check your local newspaper or website for any outdoor art installations or displays. Some museums have an outdoor section that could be available to walk through.

    They’re all outdoors which makes them a great socially distant date. Plus, you’ll finally have something to add to Instagram that will break up your feed full of quarantine selfies.


    Final Tips

    Don’t be afraid to get dressed up for these dates, even the stay at home ones! Wear that dress that’s been sitting in your closet since March. Break out the wedges and the curling iron. It will feel so good to put on real clothes after wearing sweatpants for three months straight.

    Step out of your comfort zone. Watch a movie you would never think about watching or cook that meal you’re afraid of messing up. There aren’t any rules, so you can’t go wrong. Get creative and get out there!

  • COVID Safe Labor Day Weekend Getaways

    COVID Safe Labor Day Weekend Getaways

    Cabin Fever has been setting in for a few months now. No matter how beautifully decorated your home is, you’re getting sick and tired of looking at it. Thankfully, Labor Day is coming up and it’s the perfect excuse to getaway for the weekend. 

    Your typical Labor Day getaways might not be available this year, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have options. Here are a few ways that you can enjoy the holiday while staying safe.

    Go Camping

    If you’re in the need for a complete reset, you need to get in touch with nature. Camping is one of the only ways you can completely disconnect from the world. Nature is one of the only things that remains unchanged because of the pandemic. That will give you a sense of normalcy again.

    For your first time camping, you can set up at a camping ground. It’s a predesignated camping area that has everything you need for a safe and fun camping experience. Camping veterans can take their chances by finding their own spot in the woods. If you want to get really crazy, you can go backpacking and rely on your natural instincts while you spend a few nights deep in the forest. 

    The best part about camping is that it gives you the chance to completely isolate from everyone else. Once you’re out there, you don’t have to worry about exposure or if other people are wearing their masks. Camping is the definition of social distancing.

     

     

     

    Go On A Road Trip

    Driving is the best mode of transportation to avoid COVID-19 exposure. Planes, trains, and literally any public transportation all come with a risk, so why do it? There are a million different drivable destinations where you will have a great time while staying safe. 

    Driving also happens to be the best way to find new and interesting sites off the beaten path. Take a day, or take the whole weekend, to drive around your part of the country. Now is the time to go see that weird sight-seeing attraction in your state. Whether it’s the world’s biggest ball of yarn or a giant duck statue, this is your opportunity to finally see it.

    Go the extra mile and spring for an RV. It will enhance your road trip in ways you would have never imagined. RV’s are like having a vacation home on wheels. It’s an amazing experience everyone should have at least once.

    If you want to travel out of state, keep an eye on their COVID cases. Don’t travel somewhere that could put you in a risky situation. No destination is more important than your health.

    Vacation Home

    If you’re lucky enough to have a vacation home, you have to take advantage of it. Stay for as long as you can and enjoy the change of scenery. The best part is that it feels as comfortable as when you’re home, you won’t feel like a guest or out of place.

    Of course, not everyone has a vacation home, but you can always rent one! Rental sites have very clear COVID-19 guidelines that help maintain safety standards for the guests and owners. Read the fine print to ensure that it’s up to your safety standards. 

    You deserve a romantic getaway to reconnect with your partner. You also need time away to reconnect with yourself. Vacation homes are a no pressure way to enjoy a responsibility free and socially distant trip.

    Rent A Boat

    Living near a body of water can be a game changer when you’re looking to get away. Boat life is not only a fun and different way to escape the repetitiveness of your home, but it’s a blast! The fresh air and the breeze off the water can’t be beaten. 

    If you rent the right boat, you can spend the entire weekend on the water. All you really need is a bathroom, a bed, and a place to put your food and drinks. Then you’re ready to have an amazing time! 

    This might even be a better option than a vacation home. Check the guidelines for your area before renting. Oh, and don’t forget the sea-sickness medicine. A rocky boat shouldn’t ruin your Labor Day getaway.

    Head To The Beach

    Sailing isn’t for everyone and boats might not be your thing, but the water is still beautiful. The beach is a classic getaway spot for couples, friends, and families. It’s a simple day trip, but it can be just what the doctor ordered.

    Labor Day signals the end of the summer, which also means the end of beach days. Take advantage of the lifeguards and sunshine while you still can.

    Camping or RVing on the beach is an option too! Campsites aren’t limited to the woods or national parks. Beaches cater to campers and give you the opportunity to catch the sunset and sunrise on the water. 

    The COVID Friendly Staycation

    I know you don’t want to stay at home but depending on where you live you might not have another choice. It’s tough in the world right now and a getaway might not be the best option for you. No problem, there are ways to switch things up and make a staycation exciting. 

    Set up a tent or a pillow fort in your living room or your backyard. You don’t have to leave your house to get the camping experience. Camping at home could even be a better option then really going camping because you’ll be able to use a real bathroom.

    Staycations are affordable and easy ways to unwind and enjoy Labor Day. Good decorations and optimism are all you need to make your staycation a memorable one. Don’t forget, even though you’re home, you should still take off from work. Put your phone away and set boundaries so it will actually feel like a staycation.

    You Deserve This

    The stress has been building since March and you need a serious break. These COVID safe Labor Day getaways are stress-free and feasible for anyone who is looking to take a little vacation. It’s time for you to let loose and enjoy the last few days of summer. 

  • How to Decide Who Makes the Wedding Guest List 

    How to Decide Who Makes the Wedding Guest List 

    Trust me; it isn’t as bad as it sounds. Unless you come from a large family, then it is…a little. 

    It goes without saying that establishing a guest list is a full-time job, so the following information will help ease the decision making so you don’t lose your mind figuring it out. Now, you may think writing a bunch of names on a list is easy enough, but oh gee, here comes your partner’s second cousin wanting to invite his best friend’s cousin’s sister…

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    Obviously, you know better than to invite complete strangers to your wedding. At least, I hope you do, because as we know, it’s packed enough without the extras. You don’t want to cause any tension between you and other family members, but you also have a hundred other things in mind, especially staying within your budget. It’s a doozy, but here a few helpful tips to get you started. 

    Some Family Counts 

    Your immediate family? Add them. Your partner’s immediate family? Of course. Extended family? This one’s a little difficult to pin down, as wedding etiquette says if you invite a few, you might as well ask all. 

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    So here’s what you do. Once you write down all your immediate family, think of your closest extended family. Are you speaking to any of them? Do you see them often? Do you both send each other memes and bathroom selfies? If so, then add them with no hesitation. If you or your partner start writing names of people you don’t even recall or haven’t seen in years, you’ve gone too far and need to take a break. The pressure is getting to your head.

    Some Family Does Not

    Once again, we are bringing up prominent families because while it’s great to come from one, we never really know any of them. Many of them have probably gotten married without your acknowledgement, so that wave of guilt you may feel not sending them an invite can go straight to hell. 

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    Your second or third cousin doesn’t need a seat at your wedding. If anything, they’ll feel confused about why you invited them if you haven’t spoken to them in years. You are under no obligation to invite them. 

    I repeat: you are under no obligation to invite them. If you’re desperate to see them, plan a family reunion soon. 

    Cut Out Unruly Friends or Family (You Know the Ones) 

    Raise your hand if you have that one friend who gets blackout drunk, gets rowdy, dances on tables, develops an Irish accent, and confesses their love for you as you’re cleaning their vomit off your clothes. Cool, now raise your hand if you are that friend. Congrats, you’re paying for this party so if you want to get so crazy that you forget it’s even your wedding, I say go for it! 

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    Don’t get too crazy, or people might start thinking you’re sabotaging your wedding on purpose, and something might be wrong…

    If you have friends or family who love to make a scene (or two) and know they won’t comply if you ask them to behave, then cut them off. That is terrible energy, and this is your big day. If this person is important to you, you can sit down with them and politely speak to them about their behavior. If alcohol is the trigger, lessen their consumption so you won’t regret inviting them. 

    Your Co-Worker Is Not Your Friend (Neither Are Your Neighbors) 

    Not much to be said here. 

    You share an office, that’s great. It doesn’t mean you have to buy them dinner and a spot at your wedding. While your neighbors may be the “nicest people” you’ve ever met, you don’t have to go as far as inviting them to your wedding. This celebration is for your closest family and friends, not for people who bake you gingerbread cookies on Christmas. 

    Children Don’t Need to Be Present (With One Exception)

    They are your kids. That’s the exception. 

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    A few wedding couples may be compliant with having children at their wedding, but if you’re watching your budget, enforce the no kids’ rule. If a parent takes one, they take all. If you have foreign relatives, you understand what all means, don’t you? It means you can’t provide dinner for your guests. in fact, you can’t afford the wedding. 

    Be ruthless on this day; you deserve it. 

    Follow the “Plus One” Rule 

    If a guest is allowed a plus one, they need to invite someone really, really, really close to them (fiancee, parent, relative). This is not a party where they can ask their buddy Tom who he met playing Call of Duty. 

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    You are not (will not) spare a seat on your wedding day for someone you’ve never seen in your life. Many people you craved to invite could not be added to the guest list simply because there was no space, and this guy shows up with a stranger? I don’t think so. 

    Enforce the plus one rule. Make it clear to your guests about the limited space you have and how you’re giving them a chance to invite someone dear. 

    It’s never easy telling someone they’re not invited to the wedding, but Brides has some great advice on how to break the news to them in the most loving and understanding way. 

     

  • What to Look for When Booking a Hotel Room

    What to Look for When Booking a Hotel Room

    My first time traveling alone, my father sat me down, pointed to his phone, and said, “This is the hotel I booked for you.” At first glance, it seemed like an ordinary hotel, nothing too fancy. The only thing that stuck out was the three stars shining right above the reviews. The hotel location was near a busy intersection, where coincidentally, a police station was right down the road. 

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    I can’t blame my father for choosing safety as a priority, especially for his little girl traveling alone. In today’s world, most travelers-especially the younger ones- are so tech-savvy that finding a hotel with all the commodities they need is a click away. By setting your price range, location, and people’s recommendation, booking a hotel takes less than ten minutes. 

    So, without further ado, here are a few things to consider when booking a hotel room. 

    Discounts or Special Offers 

    Finding the hotel of your dreams is great, but how about finding a great hotel with a significant discount? 

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    As we all know, hotel reservations can be very expensive, especially if you’re on a budget or traveling with more than one person. People tend to look at the price per night more than anything else. According to Pavini at Coupons.com, asking for a corner room and booking business hotels in the summer is a surefire way to land a great deal. Some hotels may get you to sign up for their loyalty programs, which gives you access to more exclusive upgrades, events, and experiences. 

    Special Services/ Commodities 

    If you or someone you’re traveling with has a physical disability, then you’re going to prioritize hotels that accommodate to your needs. If you’re away on business and your trip will mostly consist of conferences and meetings, it’s nice to have the hotel staff provide you with a wake-up call and a cup of brewing hot coffee on your way out. Many people like to travel with their pets, so you need to confirm that that hotel you’ve booked is pet friendly. 

     

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    When you walk into your room, is there a small box of chocolate on your pillow compliments of the hotel? Are shampoo, soap, and towels provided for you? These are little details that make a big difference. 

    Room Cleanliness

    While it may be rare to enter a hotel room and find it a mess, it does tend to happen. How would you know if your hotel overall is a clean estate? 

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    Look in the comments, check the customer’s reviews. These people have been there and have more experience, so if you see more than one person complaining about dirty sheets, smelly bathrooms, or trash underneath the bed, it’s safe to say it’s not as clean as the pictures posted on their site. 

    Easy Transportation

    If you’re situated by an intersection or anywhere else that may be busy all hours of the day, you may have difficulty finding transportation or getting anywhere on foot. 

     

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    Say you call for a taxi and need to be somewhere important, but the streets are so busy that your taxi gets stuck in traffic, forcing you to be late to whatever event you were attending. The hotel may offer transportation, or there might be a bus route you can take, but keep in mind that both those options rely on other people’s schedules and not your own. 

    Customer Reviews

    As I’ve mentioned before, customer reviews are the go-to when you’re hanging between a yes or no. Many people will describe their experiences, be it good or bad. 

    You’ll get an idea of what attractions surround the hotel, the best places to eat, what museums are worth a visit and a fellow human being might even mention a few secret upgrades of the hotel that no one knows. The comments may not be all accurate, but they’re helpful in the long run.

    Wi-Fi Strength 

    When on vacation, I tend to have my phone off all day until right before bed to check for any urgent messages or emails. If it’s a business trip, you can expect me to be on my laptop while I’m sitting, standing, eating, and sometimes sleeping. It’s not a business trip for nothing. 

     

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    Because of this, I need to immediately have the hotel Wi-Fi connected so I can quickly get to work. Do you know what I hate? Having to call the front desk over ten times a day to ask why the Wi-Fi is so slow. I’m sure they hate it, too. If having a fast internet connection is a priority, make sure to check with the hotel beforehand. 

    Complimentary Food

    Reserving in a hotel with delicious food is excellent. Booking in a hotel with complimentary breakfast food and free open buffets is a bonus.

     

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    Before checking in, few hotels will inform you that you can eat all the food you want by paying a couple of dollars more. Personally paying a few extra bucks won’t break the bank, and you won’t have to order room service, which we all know can be very pricey. 

    Fitness Center

    I know it shouldn’t be, but this is a priority of mine when searching for hotels. I immediately check their fitness center to see the types of equipment they offer, and if it’s large enough to be good enough. 

    Now, it’s not a deal-breaker, but the only way I don’t slack on vacations or work trips is when the hotel gym is beautifully built. It motivates me to workout and allows me to enjoy the equipment they have to offer.

     

  • Disney Wedding Themes to Help Inspire You

    Disney Wedding Themes to Help Inspire You

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    Every little girl dreams of being a princess. Regardless of your definition of a princess, this dream comes true on your special day. The traditional white wedding is excellent, but why not take it up a notch and add your childhood touch?  For me, Disney always brings back a wave of nostalgia and soothes my inner child. Would I go as far as setting my wedding theme to my favorite film? Hm, it’s very debatable but highly possible. 

    If your imagination has no limits and you have boundless love for Disney movies, then we may have a few ideas to get the knobs in your head turning. 

    A Wish is a Dream Your Heart Makes

    You’ve heard of Cindy, right? She becomes a maid to her stepmother and sisters, has a fairy godmother, clumsily leaves her glass slipper at the ball? She goes through a few rough patches, but don’t worry; she marries the prince at the end. While it would be amazing to have a fairy godmother to do all the work for you, it doesn’t work that way in the real world. But good news, there’s no curfew! 

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    The Cinderella color palette plays with different shades of blue, gold, and pink. A top tier cake with such colors and a castle as a headpiece is perfect. While a carriage isn’t entirely necessary (even though it’d be pretty awesome), having one or two pumpkins for decor will be the right kind of extra. Depending on your budget, decorate the tables with pink roses and tiny “glass” slippers with your guest’s name. Renting a carriage for the photoshoot or as a photo booth for friends is a great way to complete the theme. Don’t forget your tiara and white gloves! 

    Let’s Get Down to Business

    I grew up watching Mulan, so you can concur it’s one of my top three Disney films. 

    Style Me Pretty 

    A female warrior defeats the Huns and saves all of China, how can you not love this film? If you’re ready to unleash your inner warrior, here are some ideas. This theme dives into East Asian culture, so hanboks, lanterns, dragons, fireworks, and the color red are all prominent. You can choose to decorate the altar with cherry blossoms and use Buddha statues as the centerpiece on tables. Hand fans were a big part of the film, so handing them out as the guest arrives is another fun way to honor this masterpiece.

    We’re All Mad Here

    Alice in Wonderland seems to be a favorite for many different types of events all over the world. It’s safe to say many people can relate to the film or love it for its craziness. You have too many options when it comes to Wonderland, from rabbits to teacups to cats to cards to clocks… it’s a lot to take in, but it’s also what makes it amazing to work with. 

      

    Tulle and Chantilly

    Providing a tea set on your guest’s table with their names on the cups is brilliant. If you want to be extra, write “drink me” on little alcoholic bottles and leave them around the tables for your guest. You can’t go wrong with the color palette here, as a wide array of colors are present throughout the film. 

    One of the best-known scenes is when Alice is having tea with the Mad Hatter, and there’s tea everywhere. You can easily remake this at your wedding (but add cake) and make it look like a frenzy. It’d make a fantastic photo booth for friends as well.

    Be Our Guest

    Roses, rose petals, tall candles, golden lights, and a custom-themed wedding cake with the Beauty and Beast on top. This theme is incredibly elegant and classy so that it won’t require much work as the others. 

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    More importantly,  every table gets its share of rose petals, a single bottle of champagne, and a hand mirror. Since Belle loved to read, you can have your favorite books as decor set around the tables and an empty journal where guests can recommend their favorite books. If you can get your hands on an antique grandfather clock and a chipped teacup, you get bonus points. 

    The Human World…It’s a Mess

    For some odd reason, this little mermaid wanted to be part of our world. With the global warming crisis, we’ll be part of her world real soon, as well. 

    When you think of Ariel, you think of the open sea, red hair, seashells, tridents, a beautiful array of light blue, and green colors. I know I don’t have to tell you this, but if you’re going with this theme, you better be near the beach or at least have your photoshoot there. If you can rock red hair, then rock red hair. 

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    The beauty of this theme is the simplicity of it. You can scatter seashells and starfish on the ground, around the guests, and decorated on the cake. You can put messages in little glass bottles for your guests as souvenirs. Make sure to have dinglehoppers available on every table in case a guest needs to brush their hair. 

  • The Perfect Honeymoon Destination for Every Season

    The Perfect Honeymoon Destination for Every Season

    Setting a wedding date is hard enough, but having to figure where you’ll be spending your honeymoon is a whole other story. Unfortunately, this isn’t something you can pick from the top of your head. Nor does it require excessive research. 

    The timing of your honeymoon is just as important (if not more) than the location itself. Think about it, why would you want to go somewhere that’s flooded with tourists in the summer? Or head to a tropical island in the winter?  Some couples may hire a travel agent, so they don’t end up in the wrong place at the wrong time.

    Ask yourself: if this were a regular vacation, where would you wish to go? Does the season permit you to go, or is there somewhere else you can go that allows you to enjoy the same comforts and joys?

    Spring 

    Belize: With its hundreds of activities, Belize tops the list for Spring honeymoon spots. There is always something to do, no matter what mood you’re in. Not only is it surprisingly affordable to fly there, but the currency conversions also leaves you in a position to widen your budget. Even in the winter months, the climate is warm; it makes a great getaway after May (post-hurricane season). It is also home to the most extensive reef system in the northern hemisphere, making it perfect for diving and snorkeling. 

     

     

     

    Yosemite: This is a spring choice for couples who wish to enjoy their time in nature. A national park may sound a bit out of reach when choosing a honeymoon, but Yosemite holds some of the most magnificent sights and hiking trails. You can want to stay inside the park, which is pretty costly and needs to be reserved in advance. You can also choose to book a hotel or B&B outside the park to be more cost-efficient.  

    Summer

    Lake Como, Italy:  Lake Como is incredibly popular among the locals in Milan. All types of exotic flowers bloom and perfume the streets at this time of year. There are many activities you can choose from, or you can stay by the pool and soak in the sun with your partner. You don’t need to know fluent Italian to get around the little town surrounding the lake, and you can go from place to place in a water taxi. 

     

     

     

     

    Kruger National Park: This safari adventure is a year-round destination, but here’s the summer perk. You’ll get the experience of a lifetime as this is the park that is filled with wildlife and their newborns. Birdwatching is also another memorable experience as summer migrant birds start arriving. Several resorts are available to help better your visit and enhance your adventurous side. 

    Autumn 

    Lombok, Indonesia: Often referred to as “the second Bali,” Lombok is a beautiful island in Indonesia. Apart from its crystal blue waters and white sandy beaches, it’s home to beautiful and historic sites, including the second-highest volcano in Indonesia, Mt. Rinjani. You can join tours, enjoy the astonishing views from your hikes, or take a stroll on the beach before enjoying authentic Lombak food overlooking the sunset. 

     

     

     

     

     

    B.C., Canada: Autumn in British Columbia is right around when the leaves start changing colors, and the mountains have a thick fog engulfing them. Other than the cozy, cuddle weather, this is the perfect time to witness wildlife and colorful scenery. This is also the best time to visit because it’s fewer crowds, which means more time to do more things!

    Winter

    Tromso, Norway: Tromso is known as the “arctic wonderland” during the cold season. This is also when polar night season begins where you can spot colorful lights light up the sky during the day and night. If you’re a ski fanatic, this is most likely your scene, or if you’ve had northern lights on your bucket list, then it’s time to check it off with your partner. 

     

     

     

     

    Santorini, Greece: Who goes to Santorini in the winter? Especially for their honeymoon? Let me tell you that this popular vacation spot is so full that it’s difficult to see or do everything you want. By planning for the winter, you get all the sites, all the deals, and the same breathtaking views. By avoiding the crowds, you make the most out of your visit. 

     

  • Going Camping? Try These Delicious Campfire Recipes

    Going Camping? Try These Delicious Campfire Recipes

    Whenever camping comes up in a conversation, my inner child immediately takes the wheel. 

    Camping? I love camping. What’s your favorite camping spot? Oh, Big Bear? I actually have a list of camping essentials saved on my phone; you want me to airdrop it to you? We’re definitely planning a trip sometime next week; my family’s been taking camping trips every month since I was nine.

    Did I mention I love camping? 

    No, I am not ashamed to admit I have a problem. Even my partner, who’s a sucker for adventure, thinks I’m a lunatic when it comes to camping trips. In reality, it’s camping that brings keeps me grounded and reminds me to slow down and enjoy everything in the now. The pine trees smell, the dirt underneath my bare feet, a refreshing dip in the lake, fishing (trying, at least), and the most spectacular part of any camping trip-a sky so overflowing with stars that you feel your body leaving your soul. 

    It’s all enlightening, but let’s move on to what this article’s about: your stomach. Campfire recipes are so simple, so satisfying, and so worth the effort. Trust me, folks, it doesn’t end at s’ mores. You can create a buffet table with the number of things you can make over a campfire. 

    Don’t believe me? On your next camping trip, try out these easy, straightforward recipes below. The sense of accomplishment is delightful. 

    Campfire Breakfast Burger

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    Before we dive into this scrumptious recipe, know that Emily at Jelly Toast has a black pepper biscuit recipe that perfectly complements this burger. It’s a dry mix, and you add water when it’s ready to make. It’s a beautiful camping hack instead of buying biscuits and having them go dry on the way. 

    All you’ll need is a cast iron pan, water/cheddar cheese (if you choose to make the biscuits according to her blog), twelve sausage patties, and a dozen eggs. You can use egg rings to cook your biscuits and eggs, so you achieve similar sizes. Cook the sausage patties over medium heat until brown and toasted and top everything together. I personally add a slice of American cheddar cheese because why not? Add your choice of condiment and boom, best breakfast sandwich ever. 

    Homemade Cornmeal Griddle Pancakes 

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    I know what you’re thinking…another breakfast recipe? Trust me; it’s not because “breakfast is the most important meal of the day.” No, it’s because breakfast meals are the best meals. There is no arguing here, so let’s get to it. 

    You can indeed buy your pancake mix anywhere, but why not give yourself the benefit of the doubt, make it at home, and receive endless praise on how amazing it is? This dry mix consists of only five ingredients and can be prepared in under five minutes. You throw the ingredients in a large mason jar, add water, throw on that skillet pan,  smother in hot maple syrup, serve with some sizzling turkey bacon, and devour. 

    I know I don’t have to tell you this because you’re a functioning human, but you brought coffee, right?

    Chili Cheese Fries in Tinfoil

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    Snack. In no known universe would I ever consider this a lunch or dinner- it is a snack. Now that I’ve got that off my chest let’s talk about the simplicity of this recipe. 

    You bring a package of fries along, cover the tin foil with cooking spray, and toss them on the grill of your campfire. The time depends on package instructions. When fully cooked, pour a can of chili, and cover (and I do mean cover) the top with your cheese choice. Return to the fire until cheese is melted and ta-da! Chili cheese fries without the mess. Seriously, you chow down and take a nap. 

    Marinated Chicken and Onion Kebabs

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    No headache here, I promise. The marinade is a shortlist, so you can even marinate it the night before you leave. While onions are the only vegetables stated, feel free your own choice of vegetables or fruits on separate skewers. Skewered chicken is one of the most leisurely meals to prepare over a campfire, and it’s always something everyone can agree on. For sides, you can use rice, tortillas, and even add it to a salad if you’re feeling adventurous. The tzatziki sauce is a must, so please don’t leave it out. 

    Pound Cake and Berry Campfire Skillet Dessert

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    Ladies and gentlemen, the moment we’ve all been waiting for for…dessert. While camping is all about indulging and enjoying yourself and skinny dipping after the kids fall asleep…I forgot where I was going with this. 

    We’ve got to squeeze in something healthy here- for the sake of the children, of course. This dessert is simplicity in physical form and thoroughly mouthwatering. It’s so easy to make and delicious that you think to yourself: how have I never thought of this before? I know it’s not camping without s’mores, so feel free to add some mini marshmallow to this skillet and let your tastebuds fly. 

     

  • How Weddings Are Celebrated Throughout the World

    How Weddings Are Celebrated Throughout the World

    When it comes to wedding traditions, all I know is old, new, borrowed, and blue. It never crossed my mind how unusual this tradition is until I read up on other countries and their way of celebrating. For example, it never occurred to me that a bride’s dress would be any color other than white. I understood that wedding dresses worldwide were different, but white always stuck out as the color of a new beginning. 

    It’s normal nowadays to see traditions being broken, and couples carving out a new path to create their own customs. 

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    As old of a custom it may seem, several cultures still require the man to visit the bride’s family before even proposing, to win the approval of her family, and bestow a dowry upon her. Of course, not everyone is this old-fashioned. Many others chose elopement, and conclude Vegas is the way to go. 

    Weddings are celebrated a thousand different ways, but no matter the custom or tradition, we can all agree that nothing sounds too outlandish in the name of love. 

    South Korea

    Like many East Asian countries, South Korea wedding customs focus more on the two families becoming one rather than two people joined together. Since South Koreans are very family-oriented, expect to see hundreds of family members in attendance. 

    Both the bride and groom and their immediate family wear ceremonial robes known as hanboks to the ceremony. If you’re attending a Korean-American wedding, they may be in the traditional white dress/ black suit attire and might do a wardrobe change after the ceremony. Confucianism heavily influences Korean rituals, so symbolism plays a huge role here. 

    After the wedding, the newly married couple will pay a visit to the groom’s family where the bride will give the parents dates and chestnuts, a symbol for future offspring. According to WeddingWire, her in-laws will “playfully toss these back to her, and however many she catches said to be the number of kids she’ll have.”

    Palestine

    Palestinians believe that marriage is essential to the way of life. While it’s true that many marriages are arranged, many couples nowadays have found love on their own. The couple recites their vows before a sheik and pronounced husband and wife on the spot; the partying comes after. A Palestinian wedding lasts three days: a day of celebration for the bride, a day of celebration for the groom, and a feast for both families coming together. 

    As you may have guessed, this is focused more on joining two families, as well. Tradition requires the slaughtering of a sheep or cow, and the meat to be passed out to the community. This is a way of asking the community to pray for happiness for the couple. 

    The traditional dabke dance, singing of poetry, loud music, tables of food, and groups of men marching down the street singing are typical on the morning of the wedding. Even though it’s not mandatory, many brides choose mehndi art (henna) instead of the usual jewelry. The bride kissing the hands of her new in-laws’ parents and vice versa is seen as a way to thank them for joining the couple in matrimony. 

    Japan 

    A traditional Japanese wedding is conducted at a shrine Shinto-style. Brides wear a white kimono, which is a symbol of purity. It is known to be a very private ceremony meant for immediate family and a few friends present. 

    One of the most widely known traditions is San San Kudo, which translates to three three nine. The couple drink sake three times from three different sized “nuptial cups.” It’s symbolic for the exchange of wedding vows. 

    Like South Koreans, the Japanese also believe in the power of symbolism and incorporate it heavily into their ceremony. Such items include bamboo, which According to Manhattan Bride, “represents both prosperity and purity.” Another beautiful ritual is the folding of 1000 gold origami cranes “…since cranes mate for life, stand for good fortune, longevity, and peace in the marriage.” 

    India

    Like the Palestinians, Indian weddings also last three days, beginning with Misri, where the married couple exchange gifts, flowers, gold for the bride, and prayers. Next is the Sangeet party, in which both families (mainly the women) come together for their celebration and dance. Mehendi is the last thing before the wedding, where the bride is embroidered head to toe with henna. The designs drawn are said to strengthen the bond between the couple. 

    The morning of the wedding (Haldi) is when families spread a mixture of turmeric, oil, and water all over the bride and groom. It’s supposed to calm and moisturize the skin right before the wedding! We’ve all seen how exciting Indian weddings can be because the colors are bold, bright, and vibrant. Throughout the wedding, the families exchange gifts with each other. 

    Democratic Republic of Congo

    The Congolese people are known for their love of dance, music, and celebration. The stages to marriage for the Congolese date back centuries and performed to this day. 

    The groom must first win the approval of the bride’s family before even proposing. If they agree, a mayor’s delegate reads them their rites, and they are officially married. As soon as they are married, the groom must present dowry to his in-laws- clothes, jewelry, property, etc.

    The rest of the day is spent cooking by the women; dishes including “turtle, crocodile, mutton, salted-boiled-braised fish, shrimp, chicken, beef, rice, potatoes, potatoes, plantains, beans, cassava leaves (Africa)”. One ritual requires the bride’s father or grandfather to pour beer on the ground; it is a way of including their ancestors in the celebration so they can keep an eye on the happy couple in the future.